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NettoSuperstar! 10-11-2008 09:46 AM

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Originally posted by xxhuskyxx
I witnessed the SS's escorted by 3 burly Police Officers take the less than 24hr old baby away from the previous mothers breast, telling her it was for the best and in the same breath, saying they would bottle feed her!!

When reminded about the Munby and EU Statute on this matter, they ran for there Legal Dept.

It did not matter to the Police that they attempted to illegally take the baby without the correct paperwork.. In addition this mother of 5 had to wash, bathe and breast feed her baby in full view of every passing stranger who cared to walk by. The nursing staff had insisted that her door be wedged open.

Where was her human rights?
Where is the babys human rights?
Where is the legal established facts in order to take a new born baby?

No where as they dont exist in the family courts in our country.

I had a conversation with a friend about animal versus humans rights recently. When he commented that they wouldnt treat an animal in such a way - I quickly responded stating "Yes but animals dont have MSBP"
Sick but so true.

If our pleas seem inappropriate for your forum - I apologise,

But if I may, can I ask you to ask yourself one thing?

How can Social Service Workers medically diagnose an illness called -
Munchausen Syndrome By Proxy thousands of times a year in order to gain access to adoptable children?

This medical condition was invented by a now very rich professor who was struck off the GMC.
Yet SS's can and still every day - state such ideas as facts without any medical input and these allegations are mainly unchallenged by a legal technicality..

It is a serious matter that you all will hear much more of as this is happening more and more in order to generate revenue - Sorry to state it but Children are a Commodity.

Thankyou for your time....
On a personal note -
Im a huge BB fan x lol x :laugh2:
Munchausens or M by proxy is not diagnosed by SS its diagnosed by psychiatrists/doctors who work for the NHS. I very much doubt there is some interdisciplinary conspiracy to diagnose people without good reason, in order to "sell" kids!! Cmon now. This is a diagnosis given where people continually fake or induce illness on themselves or others to get hospital treament and would not be given lightly!

Sunny_01 10-11-2008 01:52 PM

I have mental health issues and my children were never brought to the attention of SS. I suppose it is all down to those around you who help care for you.

The shoe on the other foot though a friend of mine is a foster parent and today a baby who is 11 weeks old will be coming to her, this baby has a shattered pelvis, a broken arm and upon admission to hospital had a bruised tongue from either force feeding or sexual abuse. Now this is a case where social workers in my opinion are getting it right. Not every social worker is driven by targets, they all join the profession with a view to helping people.

I know there are some cases that raise questions but IMO these are not the majority

NettoSuperstar! 10-11-2008 01:54 PM

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Originally posted by Sunny_01
I have mental health issues and my children were never brought to the attention of SS. I suppose it is all down to those around you who help care for you.

The shoe on the other foot though a friend of mine is a foster parent and today a baby who is 11 weeks old will be coming to her, this baby has a shattered pelvis, a broken arm and upon admission to hospital had a bruised tongue from either force feeding or sexual abuse. Now this is a case where social workers in my opinion are getting it right. Not every social worker is driven by targets, they all join the profession with a view to helping people.

I know there are some cases that raise questions but IMO these are not the majority
Oh yeh I should have said not all with mental health issues do have SS involved aswell (many) ta for that:thumbs: and yes Ive met lots of social workers and its a profession that people go into to help people exactly!

Sunny_01 10-11-2008 02:00 PM

No worries Netto no offence taken lol

As for the munchausens debate, many social workers push for this to be diagnosed, just the fact that they refer to it in documentation give it some bearing! wrong I know but true, it kind of means that they can play god, thankfully not many do.

NettoSuperstar! 10-11-2008 02:04 PM

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Originally posted by Sunny_01
No worries Netto no offence taken lol

As for the munchausens debate, many social workers push for this to be diagnosed, just the fact that they refer to it in documentation give it some bearing! wrong I know but true, it kind of means that they can play god, thankfully not many do.
well yeh Im sure its isolated cases and there is supposed to be quite thorough examinations to fullfill the criteria and other explanations eliminated and what not. Tho I have heard that some areas dont always push for supporting the mother/parents but more likely to go for adoption so Im sure it does go on, thats why there shouldnt be all this secrecy going on they need to be more open

Sunny_01 10-11-2008 02:09 PM

I agree if the systems they used were more open and transparent then people would not worry about conspiracy theories surrounding targets and wrongful removal of children.

I am sure many social workers would love to respond to the often attacks on their profession but are bound by the same secrets that keep them in and out of courts.

NettoSuperstar! 10-11-2008 02:10 PM

yeh theyre damned when they do and damned when they dont and a whole profession gets stick when summat goes wrong!

Sunny_01 10-11-2008 02:15 PM

Yep agreed, they work really hard, I wonder when someone is going to come on here and praise them. Should I start the ball rolling.

As a teenager I had an amazing social worker who tolerated my terrible behaviour, who cared for me when others walked away and who went over and above her professional role to help me become a decent adult.

My social worker was a guest at my wedding when I was 21 and is a kind of surrogate gran to my girls as she was such a big part of my life whilst growing up.

NettoSuperstar! 10-11-2008 02:16 PM

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Originally posted by Sunny_01
Yep agreed, they work really hard, I wonder when someone is going to come on here and praise them. Should I start the ball rolling.

As a teenager I had an amazing social worker who tolerated my terrible behaviour, who cared for me when others walked away and who went over and above her professional role to help me become a decent adult.

My social worker was a guest at my wedding when I was 21 and is a kind of surrogate gran to my girls as she was such a big part of my life whilst growing up.
Yayyy big up the social workers!:thumbs: here here lol

NettoSuperstar! 10-11-2008 02:18 PM

Ive never met a social worker who isnt dedicated and lovely and caring!

Sticks 12-12-2008 07:46 AM

You may get the "good social worker", however, from my research of cases, including speaking to people who have had problems, it seems that social services departments have a tendency to be Intitutionally lazy.

Saving the Baby P's and the Shannon Matthews of this world take up a lot of effort, where as removing a child at birth, even when there is no real proof of a problem, as in the Fran Lyon case, is a lot cheaper in man hours, plus the family courts are little more than rubber stamps.

As an aside, I found this on the BBC website

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Nine teenage artists who have been in care are hosting an exhibition of artwork exploring their experiences.

NettoSuperstar! 12-12-2008 08:03 AM

OMG "institutionally lazy"? this is your own personal (and totally unbiased) research right? I might agree there are failings sometimes but "Institutionally lazy" haha! Have you had any personal dealings with SWs or any idea of the heavy workloads they have?

and as for these cases you keep bringing up, we dont really know what "proof" there is, you seem to be getting one side of the story only!

NettoSuperstar! 12-12-2008 09:32 AM

Everyone wants a perfect system but noones willing to pay for it! If you want a better more efficient social services and NHS for that matter we have to pay more taxes. Ive worked for both and as far as I can see the main failings come down to underfunding, understaffing and heavy workloads!

Everyone wants a scapegoat for the likes of Baby P but in part we're all to blame!

Sunny_01 12-12-2008 02:00 PM

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Originally posted by Sticks
You may get the "good social worker", however, from my research of cases, including speaking to people who have had problems, it seems that social services departments have a tendency to be Intitutionally lazy.

Saving the Baby P's and the Shannon Matthews of this world take up a lot of effort, where as removing a child at birth, even when there is no real proof of a problem, as in the Fran Lyon case, is a lot cheaper in man hours, plus the family courts are little more than rubber stamps.

As an aside, I found this on the BBC website

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Nine teenage artists who have been in care are hosting an exhibition of artwork exploring their experiences.

I find it abhorent that you can say that Sticks, institutionally lazy, you want to tell that to 99% of hard working social workers who work extraordinarily long hours, who never just give up, who care more than most?

I can only suggest that your research has been limited to looking for negative stories about social workers, maybe you could try getting a little balance going Sticks.

Sticks 12-12-2008 02:34 PM

I did say there were /are good social workers, when I use the term institutionally lazy I am referring to the system which seems to be broken, not individual overworked social workers at the sharp end.

We are getting cases like Baby P and Shannon Matthews. In the latter case Shannon was removed from the at risk registrar to achieve targets!!

At the same time of these tragedies we have the Fran Lyon case and the Baby G case in Nottingham. In the Nottingham case the Social Services acted outside the law.

Individual social workers may be putting in a lot of hard work, but somewhere at management level decisions are being made with the aim of saving money and cutting resources, leading to overworked social workers and a lack of support. This will ultimately lead to things being missed or not followed up and in some cases taking the easiest and cheapest action. As I mentioned with the Shannon Matthews case, removing her from the At Risk Registrar, just to achieve a target, comes across to me as institutionally lazy

With the issue of forced adoptions, there was a clear financial incentive because a scheme set up by the central government to try and find homes for older children in care was subverted by local social services management. Instead of putting the older children up for adoption they went after babies and softer targets, which is also being institutionally lazy.

Even with out the incentives, it has been reported that if a family are in trouble, it is cheaper to take the children into care and adopt them out, instead of trying to help the family. Such a management decision, based on cost, if the reports are accurate, smacks of taking the easiest route and being institutionally lazy.

I am friends on facebook of a grandmother, whose daughter was targeted unjustly by her local social services. Thankfully the baby is now with her grandmother in Ireland. When her daughter was due to give birth after she fled to Ireland, her local social services sent representatives to the social services in Ireland to argue for removing her baby at birth. The Social Services in Ireland were a little more humane and had no concerns. I am not getting all of this from the media. I have also been in contact with Fran Lyon, the most notorious case from this part of the world.

To quote from Hamlet, "There is something rotten in the state of Denmark", If we are getting the dichotomy of Baby P on one hand and the case of my friend on facebook on the other, are we not talking about two sides of the same coin. In the management of Social Services in local authorities, it does seem like this "Institutional laziness" has taken hold

There is now a government review of social services , I would hope it would deal with both sides here and lead to better practice by social services management and policies of the various local authorities.

NettoSuperstar! 12-12-2008 03:15 PM

I dont think this has anything to do with institutional laziness and cutting costs! There are not enough funds coming from the govt and I repeat we expect them to perform miracles with what they do have when we refuse to pay more taxes to enable a better service. I dont think there is sufficient evidence to say that the social services on the whole are unlawfully pushing for adoptions without GOOD reason just to meet targets, infact I think the idea is insane. And your arguments seem to come from the one side (media, people who have had their children taken off them)

NettoSuperstar! 12-12-2008 03:19 PM

"To quote from Hamlet, "There is something rotten in the state of Denmark", If we are getting the dichotomy of Baby P on one hand and the case of my friend on facebook on the other, are we not talking about two sides of the same coin. In the management of Social Services in local authorities, it does seem like this "Institutional laziness" has taken hold"

This makes no sense

"There is now a government review of social services , I would hope it would deal with both sides here and lead to better practice by social services management and policies of the various local authorities."

Social Services are continually trying to learn from mistakes and improve practice. But without the funding and the staffing, mistakes will be made. Im interested to see what theyre findings on the Baby P situation is, my guess is too many different people going in there and no continuity of contact with the mother, who no doubt was very good at pulling the wool over everyones eyes and should take 99% of the blame along with those animals that lived with her!

Sticks 12-12-2008 05:59 PM

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Originally posted by NettoSuperstar!
I dont think there is sufficient evidence to say that the social services on the whole are unlawfully pushing for adoptions without GOOD reason just to meet targets, infact I think the idea is insane. And your arguments seem to come from the one side (media, people who have had their children taken off them)
I would refer you to the Liberal Democrat MP John Hemming who has a file on this.

As for forced adoptions - see this article from the Daily Telegraph

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A council has admitted receiving Government money under a controversial "adoption target" scheme that rewards the removal of children from their parents.

Hammersmith and Fulham council, in west London, was paid £500,000 as a reward for placing more than 100 children for adoption in three years. The council is the first to acknowledge publicly a payout under the target scheme. It said that its social workers had "pulled out all the stops" and "cut down on the amount of bureaucracy" to boost the numbers.

They exceeded their goal of 101 adoptions, securing 106 by this month's deadline. In almost every case, the birth parents fought to keep their children but were defeated in the family courts.

NettoSuperstar! 15-12-2008 01:17 PM

Of course they going to fight the decision theyve not adopted them out voluntarily! Im sure mistakes get made but to suggest social services are doing this to get cash is crazy.

"The British Association for Adoption and Fostering (BAAF) said it was "dangerous" to suggest children were being taken into care unnecessarily.

Chief executive David Holmes said: "Children come into care for many reasons including parental abuse and neglect. The rise in the numbers of young children coming into care may be explained by a variety of factors including a rise in parental substance misuse."

He pointed out that the decision to take a child into care was scrutinised by an independent children's guardian and the courts. Adoption is scrutinised by the guardian, the courts and an adoption panel.

Mr Holmes added: "If birth parents believe they have had their child taken into care unfairly, they should lodge a formal complaint with their local authority. I believe that this is rare. I certainly do not believe children are systematically being taken into care to meet adoption targets."

Adoption targets were brought in to prevent children in care from waiting months or even years before finding an adoptive family"

BBC NEWS

Sticks 15-12-2008 02:30 PM

Link?

NettoSuperstar! 15-12-2008 04:01 PM

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk_politics/6297573.stm

Sticks 16-12-2008 04:53 AM

From that article

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Babies are being removed from their parents so that councils can meet adoption targets, MPs have claimed.

The MPs fear a rise in the number of young children being taken into care in England and Wales is linked to pressure on councils to increase adoption rates.

Lib Dem MP John Hemming, who has tabled a Commons motion on the issue, said it was a "national scandal".

The government said the courts decided on care cases but there had to be evidence a child was being harmed.

A spokesman for the Department for Education said there were "no targets relating to the numbers of children coming into care".

But Mr Hemming argued that social services departments are under pressure to meet targets set by government on children in care being adopted.

In an Early Day Motion, with cross-party support from 12 MPs, he warns of "increasing numbers of babies being taken into care, not for the safety of the infant, but because they are easy to get adopted".

In 2000, ministers set a target of a 50% increase in the number of children in local authority being adopted by March 2006.

According to the latest available figures, the number of "looked after" children being adopted had gone up from 2,700 in 2000 to 3,700 in 2004, an increase of 37.7%.

The biggest rise was in the one to four-year-old age range.

'Scandal'

These figures would be "laudable" if it meant children were being rescued from a life in care, said Mr Hemming.

But he said he had evidence from people who had contacted him, prevented from publication by contempt of court laws, that children were being separated from parents without proper grounds.

And he called on the government to reveal "how many of the children that are adopted would otherwise have remained with their birth parents".

Mr Hemming pointed to figures showing an increase in the number of children aged under one being taken into care.

"A thousand kids a year are being taken off their birth parents just to satisfy targets. It is a national scandal," said the Lib Dem MP.

NettoSuperstar! 16-12-2008 08:04 AM

"Babies are being removed from their parents so that councils can meet adoption targets, MPs have claimed." (YES theyve claimed that but they have no proof)

"The government said the courts decided on care cases but there had to be evidence a child was being harmed." (Evidence needed in a court of law)


...and then they balance it out by saying that it is mad to make such claims and there are other explanations (such as the rise in substance abuse)

and these kids are taken into care for reasons. An independant court then listens to those reasons before making a decision

I'll just add a couple of theories of my own as we all are- There have been significant advances in psychological profiling of abusers and also SWs are probably more likely to push for adoption where there are signs of abuse due to high profile cases where children have died and warning signs were not given due attention.

lily. 16-12-2008 08:24 AM

Having read through this thread, and having no personal experience with SW departments, I only have one thing to say.

If it were less cloak & dagger, then everyone would have access to all the facts, and would be able to intervene if they felt someone was being unfairly treated.

So, I'm in agreement with the open/transparent comment posted by Netto & Sunny.

Other than that, I'm reluctant to take a position in this thread, because I feel I'm not aware of all the facts.

NettoSuperstar! 16-12-2008 09:35 AM

Yeh they should be more open apart from maybe giving out names and such like. But to suggest that management or social work teams would take a baby away from the mother for no good reason other than meeting targets and getting cash incentives is barmy. And the courts that they go to to plead the case and produce EVIDENCE are independant from social services!


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