OMG! This is kinda on topic but my dad used to work in Norway and had a house over there.
And I was stressed out in the UK and took a month off work and flew over to live with him for a while and get away etc.
And I went out with my dad and I was 18, he would have been 51. And in this pub, everyone was soooo rude, and just looking at us because they all thought that I was his little hooker! Like I wasnt dressed like a hooker or that. And then the barstaff refused to sell anything to us because they thought my dad was a sicko. It was actually so horrible being judged in another country. Because I go out with my dad all the time here and people like know that its my dad if you know what I mean, its not like we hold hands or look like a couple but the people in Norway just made me feel VERY strange about being with my father.
I later found out that its because its extremely rare for daughters to be seen with their fathers in bars etc.

At my age (16) dating a girl who was 2/3 years younger than me would be WRONG because they would be 13/14 and that just wouldnt look good. But when you get older age gaps dont matter.

Come to think of it, my friends friend who is 17 now, last year has sex with his teacher who was 31 in the office. Now i didnt if it was true, but his Mum said it was and he got suspended... and she got sacked.

bl00dy hell Salv.. she shoulda got prison for that ... abuse of trust..

Annie, I didn't know that about Norway's culture.. I've learned something today.. I feel all edge-joo-cated now..

When i turn 18.
Id not touch someone under 16.

It would worry me.


When im older i want to be 56 with a 27 year old.

That's exactly what I said when I turned 18. I couldn't do it with a girl who is my sister's age. That frightened me.

*does some maths*..




Awwww shittttt..

I guess she didnt because he was 16, if he was a few months younger she would have. But from my friends telling me, it was him that made the first move. not sure if that maes it any better lol

Yes 15 year old.
You think i could go jail for this... lol how worrying.


And aww linda im sure i can change the age difference.

I'm 18. I dont think I could be with anyone aged 20+, or aged 16 and under. Just because all my older sisters are 20+ and my younger siblings are 16 and under.

i wouldnt go no younger than 18 older i'm not sure when i was 19 i dated a 34 year old now perhaps no older than 40 ish

MAn whats wrong with your friend Salv! If I got it on with a 30 year old at 15, no one would ever find out! I would ride that gravy train forever!

Business Studies teacher lol

See,,. this^^^ I seriously do not get..

This is what my male friends say too.. and I just don't get that at all...


edit to add: Salv, him making the first move really doesn't make it any better.. she had a position of responsibility.. And, man, what is wrong with her... I would never have even considered shagging a teenager when I was 30.. There's something pretty effed up about that.

As long as it's legal it doesn't matter. You can't help who you fall for,even it is seem weird sometimes. Love is love.

Whatcha dont get? at 15, you get a 30 some year old? OMG! That was the dream. LOL!:laugh:
But see they get caught because they always have to brag about it!

I guess, I don't get it cuz I'm female, and at 15, I wouldn't have looked twice at a 30 yr old guy.. but it's different obviously.. men are *****s.. fact.


Nah, seriously.. apparently men are at their prime at age 19, and women aren't in their prime til they hit their 30s, so that's the perfect sexual match.. So I have read..

For a school kid being with a older woman especially a teacher is a dream for most teens. But i agree that girls would ever think a 30 year old guy were fit when they are 15 year olds.

Even if the teacher was 40 years old and "ugly" a 15 year old boy would just brag about it because having sex with a teacher is just different, it makes them think they are more of a man because regardless of what age a teacher was, if you say "Yeahh i shagged a teacher" all other guys would say "Your a legend".

Do you get me??

I do yeah. I get it.. I just don't feel it.. cuz I'm female lol..

It's an achievement to have notched one up with an older, experienced woman.

It's the whole Mrs Robinson, Stifler's Mom thing..

I don't think a relationship should be formed because of the age but because of a connection between the two people
I would prefer someone my around my age but boundaries can change if you meet the right person

I think the internet is responsible for a lot of relationships with big age gaps, cuz when you are online, you connect with people of all ages.

I have lots of 'friends' online, and some of them are in an age group I wouldn't connect with in my real life.

My ex of 8 months was 30, we got together when I was 17 ... never thought I'd ever get with someone so much older than myself but it happened because we fell in love .. it's life and it happens. It was frowned upon by some people but they were soon told straight. However, the majority of people, well the people who mattered bar a couple, they really didn't care, probably because they were living in the 21st century ...

o/t - we were just talkin bout you Ant.. in the Meet The Members thread.

Nice things I hope, I'll go and see. :whistle:

Mark; I love the rule you posted, nice one!

Two years either way for me; I don't really know how much in common you could realistically have with someone older/younger than that?

I'm 19, couldn't be with anyone younger then 18 (Perhaps 17 at a push). I don't mind older women at all i'd be cofortable going out with someone like 10 older if we clicked. But then again if I liked the person I'd probably try and get with them regardless of how much older they are.