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Lauren 10-02-2007 04:23 PM

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Originally posted by Sasha
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Originally posted by Lauren
Fair enough Sasha, but there's been instances where you have broken rules for other things. All of them piled together would've probably got you a longer ban but they seemed to be overlooked (Not your fault, but being a mod on another site you should have taken the rules into account).
I can not and will not be held responsible for the actions of others. I am not sure where i have broken the rules prior to this occassion, however if mods chose not to address me - your issue is with THEM and NOT with me.

I only came on to addres Stropz, i have read the rest of the comments on this thread and the word FICKLE descibes them aptly! :rolleyes:
I won't point the exact posts out as there's too many, but you used text speech in most of them. As you should be well aware, text speech is against forum rules. :nono:
And you may have just came on to address Stropz, but unfortunately for you this is a forum where we are all free to express our own opinions (while following forum rules).

I'm going from this thread now, I've said my opinion and this could very easily lead into an un-needed argument.

James 10-02-2007 04:28 PM

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Originally posted by Sasha
Ive only come on as i have been told about your statement on MSN. I guess some could call it gracious, but grace wouldve attempted to resolve the situation in private!

Since i have come on to TIBB i have done nothing except have a laugh, it is not my intention to have e-fight/e-conflicts with people. Anyone who has objectivity can see everyone of my posts have been about having a joke - there is too much drama in the real world without the need for it in cyberland!

I am new and have no awareness of the history you and other members share. However, if i did it still does not affect me. I have had a laugh over the "rumour" about you and James in the past... and something I too found amusing. I am a tad disapointed it is NOT true as according to you he was good in bed.

It is normal for the jealous e-girlfriend to get angry with her e-bf's lover, it was all part of the joke. A joke i thought you were playing but decided NOT too when it offended you.

If you were offended by the witch comment you couldve u2u'd me and i would have edited it. If you thought it was a geniunue insult then let me assure you "witch" and "dog" are not the insults i would use if i was REALLY affected by your actions and angry at you.

As i was NOT taking you or the whole rumour seriously i didnt viciously insult you with a barrage of swear words or bring in anything REALLY personal about you. A geniunely ANGRY person would have.

In all reality I thought this "e-rift" wouldve been a good next chapter to the Jamesha story plot... The whole time it was going on I was in MSN with James taking the p**s out of him and actually trying to see why he didnt meet you as you lived so close. I even asked you in for a 3some (which you sadly declined).

I am assuming your statement was written as you were "spoken to", only cos i was spoken to last night for my "behaviour". I was shocked that moderators intervened in what was obviously a joke and it took it to a next level.

I was also very angry to find out I was given special treatment, I had no idea until about 1.30am that mods were asked NOT to warn me.

Yes I have abused my e-relationship on TIBB but that was only to get new icons and not to avoid the TIBB rules. It was only at that stage I was informed that people were upset that i had insulted you. Up until that stage I assumed it was part of the joke.

As a mod myself, (on another site) this situation couldve been ressolved by a simple u2u to check if it was still a joke OR a u2u saying the joke has got out of hand. However there was none of that and I was oblivious to the fact it was becoming a "drama" becuase the whole time i was viewing James pics in MSN (What a hottie!).

As for me and James, yes it was a little bit of e-fun to start with, to be honest it was never part of the "sasha plan" for him to submit - i like the chase! But over the past week i am glad he has as he is a nice guy and a great e-buddy who i can chat to for ages about everything.

I was banned last night over this for x hours, and decided to leave as i couldnt believe i would get banned for having a laugh. I decided after my ban that TIBB was way to serious for my type of humour and wasnt the place for me. Maybe an over reaction, but people do hasty things when they are angry and upset.
:hug: I really think this whole thing is a misunderstanding. Thanks to everyone for explaining it all. I hope you can continue posting here, if other people had got to know you like I have they'd realise what a nice person you are. I shouldn't have said the thing about giving special treatment to the other mods but it was only cause I feel I know what you're really like

"But over the past week i am glad he has as he is a nice guy and a great e-buddy who i can chat to for ages about everything. "

aww thanks :hug:

Not sure about how the pics showed me to be a 'hottie' though lol.

The_Hitman 10-02-2007 04:31 PM

Shuddup you, let them fight.

James 10-02-2007 04:34 PM

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Originally posted by Lauren
I won't point the exact posts out as there's too many, but you used text speech in most of them. As you should be well aware, text speech is against forum rules. :nono:
And you may have just came on to address Stropz, but unfortunately for you this is a forum where we are all free to express our own opinions (while following forum rules).

I'm going from this thread now, I've said my opinion and this could very easily lead into an un-needed argument.
I really can't think there's any problem here, there's other peoples' posts that are less well written. I think Sasha's posts are well written.

No need to bring this into this topic.

MarkWaldorf 10-02-2007 04:34 PM

Can I just ask why she recieved "special treatment" from the mods?

James 10-02-2007 04:38 PM

She didn't receive special treatment. I was only pointing out that I thought it was a misunderstanding and things might be taken out of context.

Last night I mean... I should have been keeping a better eye on the forum... I might have been able to nip it in the bud.

I've still got my sig btw. :whistle:

MarkWaldorf 10-02-2007 04:47 PM

Well she just said she shouldn't have mentioned the special treatment she recieved. If it's true, it wouldn't surprise me.

~Kizwiz~ 10-02-2007 04:47 PM

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Originally posted by James
She didn't receive special treatment. I was only pointing out that I thought it was a misunderstanding and things might be taken out of context.
But she did James!

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Originally posted by Sasha
I was also very angry to find out I was given special treatment, I had no idea until about 1.30am that mods were asked NOT to warn me.

James 10-02-2007 04:55 PM

Yeah, your right. I contradicted myself there. What I meant was I thought I saw it was a misunderstanding and that.

I should have talked to the other mods more last night. Explained it better.

Sasha 10-02-2007 05:02 PM

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Originally posted by Markus™
Well she just said she shouldn't have mentioned the special treatment she recieved. If it's true, it wouldn't surprise me.
^^ Thats not what i said, What James said......

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Originally posted by James
I shouldn't have said the thing about giving special treatment to the other mods but it was only cause I feel I know what you're really like

He has apologised to me to for asking the mods to give me special treatment, when he told me i went ape sh!t as its not right.

He has admitted it to me in private and on here publically. Both occassions he has apologised for it.

As for the text speak, its a habit. But yet again i maintain my stance about not being responsible for the actions of mods. I am ASSUMING that as you are soooo offended by it you reported it when it happend.....(if you didnt, thats your problem and fault!)

If they CHOSE not to warn me, so be it. Take the matter up with them and dont use it as a barrel scraping bandwagon jumping exercise to attack me!

Lauren 10-02-2007 05:03 PM

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Originally posted by James
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Originally posted by Lauren
I won't point the exact posts out as there's too many, but you used text speech in most of them. As you should be well aware, text speech is against forum rules. :nono:
And you may have just came on to address Stropz, but unfortunately for you this is a forum where we are all free to express our own opinions (while following forum rules).

I'm going from this thread now, I've said my opinion and this could very easily lead into an un-needed argument.
I really can't think there's any problem here, there's other peoples' posts that are less well written. I think Sasha's posts are well written.

No need to bring this into this topic.
Okay then, so text speech is now allowed on the forum?

thanx u for clearing dat up for me.

James 10-02-2007 05:06 PM

We don't come down on people like a ton of bricks for text speech. Just encourage them to change.

I'm sure you've noticed that there are other posters who use it sometimes despite us having reminded them before about it.

lily. 10-02-2007 05:06 PM

For James:

Can I just express my disappointment that you have yet to respond to anything I've said on here. You have posted, but mostly in response to stuff Sasha said.

Lauren 10-02-2007 05:07 PM

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Originally posted by James
We don't come down on people like a ton of bricks for text speech. Just encourage them to change.

I'm sure you've noticed that there are other posters who use it sometimes despite us having reminded them before about it.
I'm sure that defeats the objective of rules though, aye?

Edit: Plus I've seen you post warnings on peoples posts for using text speech. Yet to see one on Sasha's posts (And yes Sasha, I know this is not your fault that the mods favoured you, but regardless, you still broke forum rules)

The_Hitman 10-02-2007 05:08 PM

If youre allowing text c.r.ap can we have swearing too.

A well placed swear word can be used very effectively.

~Kizwiz~ 10-02-2007 05:08 PM

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Originally posted by James
Yeah, your right. I contradicted myself there. What I meant was I thought I saw it was a misunderstanding and that.

I should have talked to the other mods more last night. Explained it better.
You know how I feel about this issue as I've u2u'd you about it. It seems to me that although the insults have now been said they were a joke they were still said.

I'm quiet narked about this situation. Does that mean I can go and start name calling and then in the light of the next day say it was a joke?

The_Hitman 10-02-2007 05:10 PM

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Originally posted by kizwiz

I'm quiet narked about this situation. Does that mean I can go and start name calling and then in the light of the next day say it was a joke?
Yes, I think mods should be a bit more lenient with name calling.

A few people need shaking up a bit.

James 10-02-2007 05:13 PM

Well I said before that I said the wrong thing before.

I shouldn't have said that. I shouldn't have told the other mods what to do.

Lauren 10-02-2007 05:14 PM

Ok, fair enough. You have apologised for that, that was big of you.

However, you told me not to bring the issue into this topic. Would you like me to create another topic for it? Because then I'm sure I'd be slated by the mods for bringing the issue into light.
It's a lose lose situation for us who are unfortunately not specialised by mods.

~Kizwiz~ 10-02-2007 05:16 PM

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Originally posted by Lauren

It's a lose lose situation for us who are unfortunately not specialised by mods.
Just to clarify I'd just like to say i have never received special treatment!

Sasha 10-02-2007 05:16 PM

James, i think people would prefer it if i was treated like any other member.

Based on such, can you please issue me an official warning for calling stropz a "dog" & "witch" and for also talking in text speak.

I will GLADY take it, as it is TIBB rules not to have a joke or call people silly playground names or talk in "text speak"

**pound of flesh delivered to all**
**Sasha wonders what on earth would happen if i actually swore at stropz**

Hopefully, once i have recieved my warning, everyone can get back to having "fun"

Lauren 10-02-2007 05:19 PM

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Originally posted by kizwiz
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Originally posted by Lauren

It's a lose lose situation for us who are unfortunately not specialised by mods.
Just to clarify I'd just like to say i have never received special treatment!
Sorry Kiz if it seemed like that was aimed at you, it wasn't, just for clarification :thumbs:

And Sasha, sorry if it seemed like I was blaming you for the mods giving you special treatment - the only qualm I had with you was the fact you broke rules, I'm well aware you'd have preferred no special treatment.

~Kizwiz~ 10-02-2007 05:20 PM

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Originally posted by Lauren

Sorry Kiz if it seemed like that was aimed at you, it wasn't, just for clarification :thumbs:

I know you weren't honey..... i just wanted to state that fact for the record

The_Hitman 10-02-2007 05:22 PM

Theres too many rules on this forum anyway. It holds it back.

I suggest slacker rules for name calling and swearing

Stricter rules for spamming

Lauren 10-02-2007 05:24 PM

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Originally posted by The_Hitman
Theres too many rules on this forum anyway. It holds it back.

I suggest slacker rules for name calling and swearing

Stricter rules for spamming
I was going to respond to this with a name-calling swear word directed at you.
But then I'd get a warning :laugh:

The_Hitman 10-02-2007 05:25 PM

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Originally posted by Lauren
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Originally posted by The_Hitman
Theres too many rules on this forum anyway. It holds it back.

I suggest slacker rules for name calling and swearing

Stricter rules for spamming
I was going to respond to this with a name-calling swear word directed at you.
But then I'd get a warning :laugh:
You can throw whatever you want at me sugar tits.

You have my exclusive permission.

Lauren 10-02-2007 05:27 PM

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Originally posted by The_Hitman
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Originally posted by Lauren
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Originally posted by The_Hitman
Theres too many rules on this forum anyway. It holds it back.

I suggest slacker rules for name calling and swearing

Stricter rules for spamming
I was going to respond to this with a name-calling swear word directed at you.
But then I'd get a warning :laugh:
You can throw whatever you want at me sugar tits.

You have my exclusive permission.
Imagine all of main swear words blended into one, with a little gay insult included in it. :wink:

The_Hitman 10-02-2007 05:28 PM

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Originally posted by Lauren

Imagine all of main swear words blended into one, with a little gay insult included in it. :wink:

:kiss:

Sasha 10-02-2007 05:29 PM

Am i getting my warning ? I know that i was banned last night......... but it appears NOT to be enough for everyone.

So i would really appreciate the warning, becuase i HATE all of this conflict and attacking.

James made a mistake, he never intended to upset anyone. He has apologised - what else do you want from the man?

~Kizwiz~ 10-02-2007 06:55 PM

Ok.... heres where I stand on this matter, Sasha, i dont think its fair to call the comments on this thread fickle. Everyone has a right to say how they feel. A lot of people were upset and confused at last nights going ons. It was, up to a point, the funniest night on TiBB in a while with the snippets thread.

I still dont see why you posted the split thread but to cause some controversy. I think its an easy option to say that your comments/insults were a joke. I had to bite my tongue last night on many occasions. I'm not a confrontational person. You yourself were joking too in this thread I do believe. Then something changed.

This is only my opinion but I think things changed and started to get nasty when you said "me and James been in MSN the WHOLE time laughing at ur pathetic attempts"

Calling other members pathetic is something I didnt like and this comment made me think that you and James were making a mockery out of us. This might have been unintentional but that just the way I see it.

Lauren 10-02-2007 06:58 PM

Through fear of being called fickle, I'm still going to say that I agree whole heartedly with what Kiz said.

EDIT: I'd also like to add that it undermines mods attempts at upholding rules on TiBB, and undermining efforts of members that try to stick to the rules to make TiBB a better place.

The_Hitman 10-02-2007 07:04 PM

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Originally posted by kizwiz
Ok.... heres where I stand on this matter, Sasha, I dont think its fair to call the comments on this thread fickle. Everyone has a right to say how they feel. A lot of people were upset and confused at last nights going ons. It was, up to a point, the funniest night on TiBB in a while with the snippets thread.

I disagree.

I think the support for Stropz has been completely biased and subjective. The posts for this thread make out Sasha to be the guilty party when it is clear to anyone who reads the dispute that it is 6 of one and half a dozen of the other.

I read the dispute for a while last night and thought it was an amusing bit of banter, I had no idea people were serious, but for everyone to come whining on this thread holding Sasha responsible is total bulls*** and some of you need your heads checking.

Lauren 10-02-2007 07:06 PM

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Originally posted by The_Hitman
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Originally posted by kizwiz
Ok.... heres where I stand on this matter, Sasha, I dont think its fair to call the comments on this thread fickle. Everyone has a right to say how they feel. A lot of people were upset and confused at last nights going ons. It was, up to a point, the funniest night on TiBB in a while with the snippets thread.

I disagree.

I think the support for Stropz has been completely biased and subjective. The posts for this thread make out Sasha to be the guilty party when it is clear to anyone who reads the dispute that it is 6 of one and half a dozen of the other.

I read the dispute for a while last night and thought it was an amusing bit of banter, I had no idea people were serious, but for everyone to come whining on this thread holding Sasha responsible is total bulls*** and some of you need your heads checking.
Did Stropz break any rules last night? :puzzled:

(Thats a serious question, not sarcasm)

The_Hitman 10-02-2007 07:08 PM

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Originally posted by Lauren

Did Stropz break any rules last night? :puzzled:

(Thats a serious question, not sarcasm)
I dont even know the rules sweetheart, youre asking the wrong person.

~Kizwiz~ 10-02-2007 07:09 PM

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Originally posted by The_Hitman

I disagree.

I think the support for Stropz has been completely biased and subjective. The posts for this thread make out Sasha to be the guilty party when it is clear to anyone who reads the dispute that it is 6 of one and half a dozen of the other.

I read the dispute for a while last night and thought it was an amusing bit of banter, I had no idea people were serious, but for everyone to come whining on this thread holding Sasha responsible is total bulls*** and some of you need your heads checking.
I am not whining Hitman, I'm just getting things off my chest. Of course things are never onesided BUT I have a right to respond to sasha and her comments in this Statement thread.

If you read through I have not mentioned that sasha was wholly responsible... fair from it but a lots of issues were raise from last night that need to be ironed out to clear the air.

Sasha 10-02-2007 07:10 PM

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Originally posted by kizwiz
Ok.... heres where I stand on this matter, Sasha, i dont think its fair to call the comments on this thread fickle. Everyone has a right to say how they feel. A lot of people were upset and confused at last nights going ons. It was, up to a point, the funniest night on TiBB in a while with the snippets thread.

I still dont see why you posted the split thread but to cause some controversy. I think its an easy option to say that your comments/insults were a joke. I had to bite my tongue last night on many occasions. I'm not a confrontational person. You yourself were joking too in this thread I do believe. Then something changed.

This is only my opinion but I think things changed and started to get nasty when you said "me and James been in MSN the WHOLE time laughing at ur pathetic attempts"

Calling other members pathetic is something I didnt like and this comment made me think that you and James were making a mockery out of us. This might have been unintentional but that just the way I see it.
why after an hour and half of peace and rest did u feel the need to re-raise this? Have your fun in your cyber drama.... Myself and Strops have heard each other out and walked away amicably.....

I was called a variety of things in this thread and will state that they are fickle - WHETHER YOU LIKE IT OR NOT.

If you read the posts between me and strops and got offended by me calling someone "pathetic" then really........ get a life!

**sasha removes herself from this nonsense**

Lauren 10-02-2007 07:12 PM

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Originally posted by Sasha
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Originally posted by kizwiz
Ok.... heres where I stand on this matter, Sasha, i dont think its fair to call the comments on this thread fickle. Everyone has a right to say how they feel. A lot of people were upset and confused at last nights going ons. It was, up to a point, the funniest night on TiBB in a while with the snippets thread.

I still dont see why you posted the split thread but to cause some controversy. I think its an easy option to say that your comments/insults were a joke. I had to bite my tongue last night on many occasions. I'm not a confrontational person. You yourself were joking too in this thread I do believe. Then something changed.

This is only my opinion but I think things changed and started to get nasty when you said "me and James been in MSN the WHOLE time laughing at ur pathetic attempts"

Calling other members pathetic is something I didnt like and this comment made me think that you and James were making a mockery out of us. This might have been unintentional but that just the way I see it.
why after an hour and half of peace and rest did u feel the need to re-raise this? Have your fun in your cyber drama.... Myself and Strops have heard each other out and walked away amicably.....

I was called a variety of things in this thread and will state that they are fickle - WHETHER YOU LIKE IT OR NOT.

If you read the posts between me and strops and got offended by me calling someone "pathetic" then really........ get a life!

**sasha removes herself from this nonsense**
It's a forum! Be prepared for discussion!

And please stop insulting other members! Telling Kiz to get a life is wholly unfair!

Finally, you've said many times you're removing yourself from this nonsense. You just love the drama and attention.

Sasha 10-02-2007 07:13 PM

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Originally posted by Lauren
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Originally posted by Sasha
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Originally posted by kizwiz
Ok.... heres where I stand on this matter, Sasha, i dont think its fair to call the comments on this thread fickle. Everyone has a right to say how they feel. A lot of people were upset and confused at last nights going ons. It was, up to a point, the funniest night on TiBB in a while with the snippets thread.

I still dont see why you posted the split thread but to cause some controversy. I think its an easy option to say that your comments/insults were a joke. I had to bite my tongue last night on many occasions. I'm not a confrontational person. You yourself were joking too in this thread I do believe. Then something changed.

This is only my opinion but I think things changed and started to get nasty when you said "me and James been in MSN the WHOLE time laughing at ur pathetic attempts"

Calling other members pathetic is something I didnt like and this comment made me think that you and James were making a mockery out of us. This might have been unintentional but that just the way I see it.
why after an hour and half of peace and rest did u feel the need to re-raise this? Have your fun in your cyber drama.... Myself and Strops have heard each other out and walked away amicably.....

I was called a variety of things in this thread and will state that they are fickle - WHETHER YOU LIKE IT OR NOT.

If you read the posts between me and strops and got offended by me calling someone "pathetic" then really........ get a life!

**sasha removes herself from this nonsense**
It's a forum! Be prepared for discussion!

And please stop insulting other members! Telling Kiz to get a life is wholly unfair!

Finally, you've said many times you're removing yourself from this nonsense. You just love the drama and attention.
Yawn......

Lauren 10-02-2007 07:13 PM

Another insightful post from yours truly, eh Sasha.

Sasha 10-02-2007 07:15 PM

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Originally posted by Lauren
Another insightful post from yours truly, eh Sasha.
Babe, oneday i hope u have the insight to revisit this and realise what half the board can see.

THIS MATTER IS OVER and HAS BEEN FOR HOURS...... if you and kiz and the rest of your GANG wanna carry it on cos ur life is soooooo empty...

You have my blessing to continue!


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