Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 6859557)

That's a cynical kind of an attitude :nono: I would never cheat on Gav because I would know and I wouldn't be able to look him in the eye

Originally Posted by Livia (Post 6859564)

Not everyone is the same, but you know, lots and lots of people cheat. If something's laid out of a plate, and you [not you per se] think that their partner won't get to find out about it, lots of people would take that opportunity. I'm cynical because humans are... human.

Originally Posted by Marsh. (Post 6859553)

Of course it's not perfect. People cheat, they think they can get away with it. Precisely right.

BUT, we're talking about them excusing their behaviour through blaming their partner/relationship not people who cheat because it's the way they're made.

Cheating for cheating's sake is black and white, bin them. :laugh:

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 6859567)

Lots of people wouldn't though as well.

Originally Posted by Vicky. (Post 6859579)

I would say its always the fault of the person cheating.

However its not always as black and white as just leaving your partner. Also feel theres a huge difference between a one off and a full on affair. A one off I could personally forgive pretty easily...an affair not so much.

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 6859592)

Well, with the affair, you have the lying to your face and sneaking around to add to just the actual cheating, don't you?

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 6859592)

Well, with the affair, you have the lying to your face and sneaking around to add to just the actual cheating, don't you?


lol, this was a bit weird, Gav just rang me and our conversation was :

Gav : Did you cheat?
Me : Yeah
Gav : Me too
Me : ah that's ok then, i don't feel so bad


he was talking about what I ate for lunch lol

Originally Posted by Ammi (Post 6859533)

..is the cheatee the partner do you mean..?...yeah I do believe when a relationship has difficulties then both partners need to address that because the 'fault' often lies with both and maybe it's something that can be worked on or maybe not but it still doesn't justify cheating though..they separate and then they're open to a new relationship....I'm not finished with you yet Cherie..:fist:...:laugh:....

Originally Posted by Livia (Post 6859600)

Are you sure?



Oh I'm kidding, honestly I am xxxxxx

Originally Posted by Marsh. (Post 6859609)

There's not always a reason other than they have the horn for someone else.

Originally Posted by Vicky. (Post 6859597)

Yeah..plus the knowing it wasn't just a weak moment too.

Originally Posted by The Mockinator (Post 6859612)

The only time I think cheating is okay is if the other person did it first, in other instances though I don't agree with it.

Originally Posted by Kazanne (Post 6859626)

randy gits is also a reason :hugesmile:

Originally Posted by Marsh. (Post 6859641)

:joker:

Originally Posted by Kazanne (Post 6859607)

That's what I was trying to say,you cannot just blame one person,yes it's wrong to cheat,but I was looking at the REASON.

Originally Posted by Marsh. (Post 6859644)

But not an excusable one. :laugh:

Originally Posted by Kazanne (Post 6859669)

:shocked:

Originally Posted by Kazanne (Post 6859626)

randy gits is also a reason :hugesmile:

Originally Posted by arista (Post 6859843)

And Randy Women


I mean she bent down in Front of Me
at work.