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Maru 07-01-2018 12:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Jamie89 (Post 9775407)
Strap-ons are a thing, use your imaginations people!

Yeah but some girls don't get orgasms internally (or at least not as easily) and if a strap on is all I could have, sorry, but I'd rather use a dildo/vibrator :laugh:

I could never give up cock. For me part of the pleasure comes from the fact the other enjoys it (physically) and that well--... it's a cock :laugh:

If it were just for companionship, then I could see a straight person "dating" anyone, but I would imagine that a trans person would want to feel and be sexually attractive and that would be part of the allure of being in a relationship ... we don't call them our mates for life for nothing

Passionate love does come faster than the companion form though and this isn't only a barrier for trans, but for many folk who are single. There's plenty of examples of people being passed daily who make terrible dating partners, but would do great in the husband/wife/father/mother/life partner dept.

I think finding a way through that filter probably doesn't necessarily come down to what sex/gender you are, or else homosexual love would come down to your conscious choosing (and not just a factor of attraction)...

pontyboi 07-01-2018 01:03 AM

No because I'm personally into guys and they haven't perfected the willy yet it just looks like a big clit.

If I was straight im not sure seeing as there are so many trans women out there who are actually hotter than the real thing.

It's all about preference at the end of the day.

jaxie 07-01-2018 01:16 AM

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Originally Posted by pontyboi (Post 9775841)
No because I'm personally into guys and they haven't perfected the willy yet it just looks like a big clit.

If I was straight im not sure seeing as there are so many trans women out there who are actually hotter than the real thing.

It's all about preference at the end of the day.

Did you never stop to wonder if trans women are hotter than the real thing to you because you prefer men? A straight person may not feel the same.

Amy Jade 07-01-2018 01:36 AM

If I felt a bond and a sexual attraction then yes probably.

Rob! 07-01-2018 01:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Jamie89 (Post 9775572)
Incase anyone's interested this is an article I found about a YouGov survey that was done on this (the results were that less than 20% of people would date a transgender person but I haven't read the whole thing)

https://www.thedailybeast.com/why-a-...sgender-person

This to be read to India instead of negative tweets?

Natalie. 07-01-2018 09:44 AM

Possibly, depends on a few things

Nicky91 07-01-2018 09:46 AM

yes, cause i have respect for the LGBTQ Community


but if it's India, a definite no, but that's more about her personality, which is vile and disrespectful not her gender ;)

Gusto Brunt 07-01-2018 09:58 AM

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Originally Posted by Riley. (Post 9775613)
I would female to male yeah some dem hot tho

:joker:

ethanjames 07-01-2018 11:21 AM

i actually have previously I dated a trans guy and he was great so if we got along I would 100%.

Underscore 07-01-2018 11:42 AM

Unless the transsexual is masculine, with a dick and big muscles then no.

Eddie. 07-01-2018 11:45 AM

It's all about the personality. Though I'm attracted to both genders, I would rather date someone who has fully transitioned...

Livia 07-01-2018 11:47 AM

No, I am not attracted to transsexuals.

Livia 07-01-2018 11:52 AM

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Originally Posted by pontyboi (Post 9775841)
No because I'm personally into guys and they haven't perfected the willy yet it just looks like a big clit.

If I was straight im not sure seeing as there are so many trans women out there who are actually hotter than the real thing.

It's all about preference at the end of the day.

There are some who are beautiful and some who look like a docker in a frock. Just like with born women... I think it's a stretch to say that there are "so many out there who are actually hotter than the real thing". You aren't attracted to women, so I'm not sure you can make that call.

Smithy 07-01-2018 11:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Livia (Post 9776180)
No, I am not attracted to transsexuals.

But you wouldn’t know unless they told you :conf2:

Brillopad 07-01-2018 12:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Smithy (Post 9776196)
But you wouldn’t know unless they told you :conf2:

For God’s sake. Almost twice the amount of people on here, a predominantly young site say no. It would be higher in the real world. Respect works both ways. You can’t browbeat people into submission.

Livia 07-01-2018 12:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Smithy (Post 9776196)
But you wouldn’t know unless they told you :conf2:

You think not?

There would be a point where it became glaringly obvious...

MTVN 07-01-2018 12:09 PM

I get the genitalia aversion I guess but apart from that I don't really see what it is exactly that makes transsexuals inherently undateable to so many people?

thesheriff443 07-01-2018 12:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Smithy (Post 9776196)
But you wouldn’t know unless they told you :conf2:

This a good point to be fair.

Smithy 07-01-2018 12:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Livia (Post 9776218)
You think not?

There would be a point where it became glaringly obvious...

So up until the point of sleeping with someone... you’d form a relationship with them and then all of a sudden they just become unattractive?

thesheriff443 07-01-2018 12:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Livia (Post 9776218)
You think not?

There would be a point where it became glaringly obvious...

But unless you jump into bed with them, you could be going on dates without knowing.

Livia 07-01-2018 12:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Smithy (Post 9776221)
So up until the point of sleeping with someone... you’d form a relationship with them and then all of a sudden they just become unattractive?

I am not on trial here Smithy... But for the record, if you believe that I would be fooled into thinking a transsexual man was a born man from minute ONE of meeting them, then I imagine you haven't met that many transsexuals in the real world.

Smithy 07-01-2018 12:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Livia (Post 9776225)
I am not on trial here Smithy... But for the record, if you believe that I would be fooled into thinking a transsexual man was a born man from minute ONE of meeting them, then I imagine you haven't met that many transsexuals in the real world.

https://i.amz.mshcdn.com/T5MPLvBYkF2...ltht.a4aec.jpg

So you think within one minute of meeting this man you’d click that he was trans? I very very much doubt that but if that’s the story you want to tell go for it

Livia 07-01-2018 12:14 PM

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Originally Posted by thesheriff443 (Post 9776224)
But unless you jump into bed with them, you could be going on dates without knowing.


Again, you've not met many transsexuals if you think that's true.

Livia 07-01-2018 12:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Smithy (Post 9776226)
https://i.amz.mshcdn.com/T5MPLvBYkF2...ltht.a4aec.jpg

So you think within one minute of meeting this man you’d click that he was trans? I very very much doubt that but if that’s the story you want to tell go for it

Like I said, you've not met many transsexuals in THE REAL WORLD.

Brillopad 07-01-2018 12:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Smithy (Post 9776226)
https://i.amz.mshcdn.com/T5MPLvBYkF2...ltht.a4aec.jpg

So you think within one minute of meeting this man you’d click that he was trans? I very very much doubt that but if that’s the story you want to tell go for it

That’s misleading. Voice, mannerisms and bone structure are often dead giveaways. Besides that is not the point- we all have a right to free choice.


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