No I wouldn't be disappointed at all.

really?

I think this should be locked to be honest.

Homophobia is against the rules.

It's an interesting topic Thomas and people haven't been homophobic in here at all

Just because you do not believe in our views Thomas does not mean we have to close the thread!

It's not Homophobic at all, Jesus Christ.

That's got NOTHING at all to do with it.

In some aspects, if a child was brought up in a family or a house with alot of girls and no man figure,
They could turn out camp really.

But the way someone brings a child up is hardly going to influence who they are attracted to.

You're Born Gay and You're Born Straight really.

You can't change it whilst growing up, no matter what a parent does to steer you straight.

Not it is not.

Think of it this way Stu,

Would you rather watch Lesbian Porn or Gay Porn?
Obviously if my kids turned out gay I wouldn't watch them or get turned on by the thought of them doing it upstairs.

But I'd be much more happier with the fact my daughter and her girlfriend are doing it, than my son and his boyfriend.

I don't know why,
I'm not homophobic, I just don't like the thought of two males doing things to eachother.

Like I said, they can do it all they want just not around me and don't mention it to me and it's fine.

No it wouldn't bother me, not saying it would be my first choice for them because I would worry that they would struggle to come to terms with it themselves, but I'd hope that as a parent I'd have taught them that it doesn't matter what you are, it's who you are that counts.

I can't see how anyone could be dissapointed.

I wouldnt be bouncing off the walls it just wouldn't make any difference to me at all

This isnt watching porn though, its listening to your kids having sex :S

I wouldnt like to hear my kids having sex with anyone tbh...

Summed it up well there Vicky.

Negative views towards gay people is classed as homophobia. Not my words, the dictionaries.

But hayyyyyyyyy....w/e.

So you'd want to watch/listen to your own kids have sex? That's actually disturbing to know...

There is no evidence to support what you say but plenty evidence to suggest upbringing.

As I say there are many similarities in parents of gay children

then state the posts that are homophobic..

then we can all judge

Thomas what the hell are you on about? This is a serious discussion tha occurs in the world we live in, nobody is slagging off gay people!

My mum at first wasn't happy that I was gay, but she soon dealt with it and now is supportive with it. :hugesmile:

saying that you would not want your son or daughter to be (for example) disabled is not being negative about disability. Same goes in this thread.

I used porn as an example as to what you're comfortable with.

I'm more comfortable with the fact my daughter would be sleeping with a girl in my house, than knowing my son would be ******ing his boyfriend in my house.


People just have different views really.

No I wouldn't. I would treat them like you would with any kid, gay or straight.

I think, speaking as a mother, it would be more of worry for your child than anything else, that they will have alot more to deal with in life than a straight person would. Eventhough attitudes have changed dramatically in the last few years.

This thread is not about how you would treat them

It's quite ******ing stupid that you just blatantly ignored the sentence that followed the quote that you just posted.

Or did you just chose to highlight that part and ignore what I just said under there for another reason?

and every mum and dad wants the child to have a relationship like they did with children.

fact

Im just saying how it wouldnt make a difference to me, and that I wouldn't act differently with them.

That's bollocks.

DISCRIMINATING against them, Singling them out and saying Homophobic remarks is Homophobic.

Not wanting your child to ****** another man upstairs is not homophobic especially when I said he can do whatever he likes just not in my house.