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Originally Posted by kistar
(Post 6179033)
She struck him first, and when he grabbed her by the throat she did it straight back to him and she said something along the lines of "do you think I'm intimidated by aggressive men?" meaning no she wasn't she also lifted herself up towards him in so her face was close to his , Livia , woman or man it doesn't matter she was goading him and she experienced the consequences of her actions, surely we all have to be responsible for what we do and with whom and when , had she given him back his cover said okay enough now and not pulled his shorts down none of it would have happened.
What annoys me is you are making women out to be the weaker sex and vulnerable to men and I for one am not. If you own your part in it you are not a victim, and you are making Hazel sound like a victim. I said in one post it's all about perception and I meant that based on life experiences and beliefs, my view point is coloured by my experiences .Just because I think Hazel should take responsibility for her actions does not in any way shape or form mean I side with men or hate her for being gorgeous either.
We have to acknowledge at some level too men have a weakness in their need and desire to procreate and as women we should not use that as leverage and be aware that we have the equipment to bring them to their knees if we like, so again we should take responsibility for our actions .
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But thats not the whole story and you say you have a view point which is coloured by your experiences. Then you would take into account that he has become controlling over the last couple of days, and that it was Daley who demanded Hazel come in and go to sleep "like a good little girl".
Daley said he couldn't sleep until she was in bed, yet he had been in bed for awhile before she came in, she asked why he wasn't in her bed and he said he didn't want to blah blah, the conversation then turned that Daley said she should come over to him, so this in turn signals a response for something in Hazel, she was giddy from the booze and nicked his quilt in a playful many, for him to come over, this was not the case and Daley turned,
Hazel slapped his bum playfully, but he smacked her arse in a alot more aggressive manner, She never said anything about intimidated, she said she can handle an aggressive man, but in a sexual tease sort of tone of voice, you could tell she wanted it to be a sexual flirtatious sort of thing.
The moment when she realises that this could be getting abit out of hand and in that instance when she should of thought enough enough, instead is ups her game by pulling his pants down because she is still abit well he still may be flirting, before this moment tho she did just ask him for a hug to try and calm the situation down, it was a mistake she pulled his pants down but a mistake was all it was. After this she goes quiet and she turns to the side and allows him to get the quilt at this moment she has defused herself from it and wants nothing more to do with it, but he takes the quilt and then goes back, and at this point he tries to hold her hands down she grabs him to try and get him off, yes by the throat, but he puts his hand on her throat and tells her to respect her elders otherwise he will nut her.
So at no point in any of this, Hazel signals the behaviour that Daley portrays. Yes at the beginning of it, she encourages it, but i believe that Hazel has the impression that this is roleplay. she stops as soon as it's gone to far and he isn't showing any signs that this is for sexual preference.