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31-08-2017 07:13 AM |
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Originally Posted by Cherie
(Post 9598584)
Actually someone interviewed from the council said they have funds for fostering but a severe shortage of foster carers, so it is not about financial resources being stretched in this instance, it's very easy to fall back on ...lack of funding, blah blah when it might come down to someone doing their job very badly?
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That's usually the case, sadly. Looking after kids is hard work, even your own kids, even well adjusted kids. Which means that looking after someone else's child who is likely to have some trauma and behavioural issues is an even tougher job... And not one that you even get to clock out of at the end of the day. That's why being a foster carer pays so well... Fostering 2 children is the equivalent of nearly a £70k salary, plus you get an extra chunk on your tax free allowance so take home pay is even better. Plus if it's a couple, one person can still work full time on top of that... The household could easily be bringing home the equivalent of a six-figure salary.
And even then they struggle to have enough good foster homes. I think that shows just how difficult a job it is. Even with huge financial incentives, not enough people are choosing to do it.
And of course a small number of people who choose to do it ARE in it with pound signs in their eyes... Like I said before, passing all of the disclosures and criminal record checks doesn't automatically mean someone is a good or caring person. This usually happens with teens in my experience.
Young kids are constant hard work, but you get just as much for fostering a 14 year old. Give them a bedroom stocked with a huge TV, Internet, games consoles, a mini fridge... and tell them they can have people round so long as they stay in there, or let them go out and do whatever they want... And it's a pay cheque for a teen you'll hardly ever even see. Sadly it's also a kid who could do with some positive attention and motivation being ignored, again, and at 16 they're out on their arse and often on the way to a substance abuse problem.
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