no bloke likes the thought of 2 blokes having sex or kissing.

natural selection/evolution dictates so.

:bored:

That is the highest aim imo

Many straight men are not comfortable with the idea of gay men having sex (mind strangely it is fine for THEIR desires to be doing a girl up the bum...fascinating, same thing really :laugh:). It does not make them homophobic...

ho·mo·pho·bia
noun \ˌhō-mə-ˈfō-bē-ə\

: irrational fear of, aversion to, or discrimination against homosexuality or homosexuals

aver·sion
noun \ə-ˈvər-zhən, -shən\
Definition of AVERSION
1
obsolete : the act of turning away
2
a : a feeling of repugnance toward something with a desire to avoid or turn from it <regards drunkenness with aversion> b : a settled dislike : antipathy <expressed an aversion to parties> c : a tendency to extinguish a behavior or to avoid a thing or situation and especially a usually pleasurable one because it is or has been associated with a noxious stimulus
3
: an object of aversion <inconstancy is my aversion — Jane Austen>


It is what it is.

I think you are putting 2+2 together and getting 1.5%

And I do.

And what exactly would you define as aiming higher than wanting your child to find true love and happiness with a partner who loves them back?

I agree with that-I have two adult sons and the whole having sex in the next bedroom thing feels really weird. Its an interesting subject though because it seems to be general opinion with forum mothers that they don't mind sexuality as long as their sons find the right person but I wonder if forum fathers also have this opinion. I'm only mentioning sons not daughters because Patrick said he wouldn't feel comfortable with them having sex upstairs. I don't think Patrick's homophobic by the way

unfortunately for your stance that is not the same as blokes not liking what homosexuals do.

Thats a really good example actually...

that is not what Neevy said

please go back to her post

i dont think a bloke would want to think of there daughter having sex or kissing apart from patrick.

lmao, yes indeed.......:joker:

what about Olympic gold, a Blue peter Badge winner, being on IACGMOOH, a famous author, MD or a large company, Spy, pilot or a cross channel swimmer?

Actually the OED definition is an 'extreme or irrational aversion...'

(worded differently)

Saying that he wouldn't be comfortable with his son having sex with another man in his house, to me, isn't an extreme aversion.

If he were to never talk to people because they were homosexual, or avoid being near them, then that would be an extreme aversion.

all meaningless if you're not happy with your life though.

I meant to say - parents would find it a bit weird to think about their kids having sex full stop - with opposite or same sex - but thats the point we don't think about them having sex at all that would be too weird - the same way they could never think about what their parents do in bed - who needs details

what a scary parent you're gonna be!!!

being happy with your life is a fairly meaningless and vague concept. Most folks would change their opinion about that after each meal!

there is nothing wrong with beating a child for failing to be an Olympic Champion:conf:

Yeah, I reckon most parents will agree with that, your child having sex with anyone at all is not something parents like to think about, for the people who don't have kids reverse it, I bet ye don't like to think about your parents at it!! That's a good example for Patrick actually rhino, may just change his mind on his daughter sleeping with a girl in his house!!

no children should be having sex full stop

Most parents just want their children to find a partner they'll be happy with, who wont beat or cheat on them - what sex they are does not matter

I disagree, I think it's a hugely important thing. I often think about it, I know certain people who are actually incapable of being happy, no matter what they get and that to me must be terrible.