I actually don't see the problem even if it is just the word trans that puts people off. Sexual preference is a choice and as long as there is no malice or offensive comments as to why someone doesn't want to date someone so be it. I wouldn't want someone to date me in case I took offense if I was turned down lol, there would be one hell of a lit of ****ed up relationships if that was the case.

You can talk. You and another were trying to force people to explain why they wouldn’t want to date a trans. It’s called Trying to shove your opinions down people’s throats. No one has to explain their choices to anyone as EVERYONE is entitled to choice - not just transgenders.

It's not a choice though.

People can't decide what gets them aroused. It either happens or it doesn't.

What you post is what you post what I post is what I post, the fact you don't find me funny makes no difference to me!

If thats all you have to add to my pretty lengthy paragraph, i think weve already came to a mutual understanding. You did afterall, only want to know so you could understand where I was coming from, right?

That's not the issue.

We're talking about this thread and this discussion. You mocked Livia's point of view and demanded she explain something that doesn't need an explanation.

"It was a joke lol" has nothing to do with it.

"But.. but you said something about a Corrie actress" has even less to do with it. :joker:

No way was that what I was doing, Livia said she did not find trans attractive, the point is you can't tell who is a trans from just looking at them, some yes but not all, so she could actually find a trans attractive without knowing they where a trans.

that is completely untrue, you can tell so much from mannerisms, attraction and preference is not just about personal beauty

As she said, once they reached the bedroom then she would know and would not be interested.

We are talking about just looking at someone, we only take a few seconds to decide if we find some attractive or not.

Not to get myself involved with more discussions but your post does not conflict with Sheriffs at all. You can tell a lot by mannerisms, and it isnt all about beauty, so by that logic, some transpeople could be attractive to presumably anybody?

I know she said that, but the point is that smithy and withano were trying to make is you could find a trans attractive without knowing but once you know they are trans do they they become unattractive

In a sexual manner I guess so.

I know I wouldn't be comfortable with artificial genitals. It's not for me.

Possibly the same for Livia.

And for a lot of people I guess a relationship without sex wouldn't last very long.

So members are being brow beaten into explaining their sexual preferences, I thought I had seen it all ...

*holds Cherie at gunpoint whilst demanding to know what she loves about cock so much*

thats not what's happening

:laugh:

It does seem that way doesn't it. I thought we were beyond thinking sexualities were wrong and that people had to have any specific reason for saying they would not shag anyone. Seemingly not.

On a slightly different though related topic...what are peoples thoughts on if passing transpeople should tell their potential partners they are trans before it gets to a sexual level (at which stage it would become pretty obvious)? I think they should. I expect to be in the minority though.

I completely agree Vicky @ the person being told before anything of that level occurs.

No.
I like women.Everything about women.Look,shape,smell,taste,softness,facial structure,genuwine puss puss.I just love women.

Can a trans woman even get wet?

Trans man even pre-op is’nt my thing either.Not my type.

So no.

That's exactly what's happening... Just look at how many times Livia was pushed into explaining herself.

How was your nap lt

no iv been to Dobbies and bought a goldfish

:hee:

:clap1: ..Waiting for someone to say something a tad distasteful then slap a ban on them ,thats why Ive not answered OPs question as I would like to