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CharlieO 20-04-2011 09:55 AM

'No One Is 100% Heterosexual' - Feelings About This Statement?
 
My sister was telling me about this. She had read it in glamour. I personally somewhat agree with this. I don't think anyone is totally not attracted to a certain gender and it's only social expectations that is why not everyone is considered bi.

Novo 20-04-2011 10:08 AM

Most people are 100% Heterosexual

InOne 20-04-2011 10:17 AM

Dunno, seems like an equality statement to me. Then again I doubt we'd get the truth from most people anyway

Niamh. 20-04-2011 10:25 AM

I don't know really, do they have some sort of evidence or reasoning to back it up at all? I would have thought that alot of people are 100% heterosexual.

cub 20-04-2011 10:37 AM

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale

ILoveTRW 20-04-2011 10:39 AM

To be 100% hetrosexual you would have to not be attracted to a single one of the 3 billion men in the world, impossible.

'Conor 20-04-2011 10:55 AM

its probably true

Shaun 20-04-2011 11:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Novo (Post 4206584)
Most people are 100% Heterosexual

just not you.

dannyboy 20-04-2011 11:07 AM

I've heard a fair few folk say this over the years, and I'm not sure I agree. Using this logic then nobody would be 100% homosexual either. And I can't speak for any straight guys or girls but I'm pretty sure I am 100% homosexual. Lol.

Niamh. 20-04-2011 11:15 AM

What do you mean by not 100% straight though?, I mean there's a difference between thinking someone of the same sex is attractive and actually wanting to sleep with them.

Livia 20-04-2011 11:23 AM

I think there is an element of truth in the statement. What amazes me is that it has been taken from Glamour magazine. Surely the only time - ever - that a statement in Glamour magazine has stimulated any kind of debate that wasn't based on lip gloss, shoes or celebrities.

ILoveTRW 20-04-2011 11:32 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Niamh. (Post 4206611)
What do you mean by not 100% straight though?, I mean there's a difference between thinking someone of the same sex is attractive and actually wanting to sleep with them.

is there?

KG. 20-04-2011 11:45 AM

As a gay man I think this statement is ridiculous and can say that I am 100% gay. Yes, I find a lot of women attractive, I can appreciate how beautiful some females are, but do I want to sleep with them? No. And I think that's exactly the same with the majority of heterosexual men and women. Like InOne said, it just seems to be an equality statement just to try and make everybody think that we're all 'not so different from each other,' but who the **** cares if we do have different tastes?

CharlieO 20-04-2011 11:56 AM

That's the thing with this it's undiscoverble. But it depends how sexuality is controlled, in the body whether it's hormones, enviromental or just random. but I think sexuality may be a grey scale rather than black and White.

Niamh. 20-04-2011 12:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ILoveTRW (Post 4206625)
is there?

Of course there is.

Benjamin 20-04-2011 12:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Livia (Post 4206616)
I think there is an element of truth in the statement. What amazes me is that it has been taken from Glamour magazine. Surely the only time - ever - that a statement in Glamour magazine has stimulated any kind of debate that wasn't based on lip gloss, shoes or celebrities.

:laugh:


It's a hard one to judge, but it would also mean that no homosexual person is 100% homosexual. I can find women attractive, but I would never sleep with them.

Niamh. 20-04-2011 03:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ukturtle (Post 4206676)
:laugh:


It's a hard one to judge, but it would also mean that no homosexual person is 100% homosexual. I can find women attractive, but I would never sleep with them.

Yeah, that's what I mean. The person can be attractive but I have no desire to go *excuse the term* muff diving, no matter who it's attached to:laugh:

Z 20-04-2011 03:33 PM

Maybe that's what's meant by not 100% -sexual either way, like the act of recognition of someone being attractive despite not being attracted to them? IDK, otherwise I think it's a pile of nonsense.

BBfan46 20-04-2011 03:41 PM

I agree with the statement. I think we're conditioned to think we're 100% one way or another.
How do you explain people who 'turn' gay or 'turn' straight. It doesn't happen though. I'd imagine there's a small margin of difference maybe 99% gay/straight.

james130 20-04-2011 03:59 PM

I don't get this whole sleeping with thing though.
Obviously that's a big part but I mean last time I checked a relationship wasn't all about sex. Personally I would consider myself to be 100% straight because it's very hard to ever imagine myself with another man but you don't have to want to sleep with someone.
Sounds soppy but you could just "love" a person. After all, about 20 years ago we'd've all been considered "sluts" for wanting sex before marriage. :')

Niamh. 20-04-2011 04:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by james130 (Post 4206812)
I don't get this whole sleeping with thing though.
Obviously that's a big part but I mean last time I checked a relationship wasn't all about sex. Personally I would consider myself to be 100% straight because it's very hard to ever imagine myself with another man but you don't have to want to sleep with someone.
Sounds soppy but you could just "love" a person. After all, about 20 years ago we'd've all been considered "sluts" for wanting sex before marriage. :')

Yes, I love lots of girls, they're called my friends. Having sex or wanting to have sex with men is what makes me hetrosexual and not asexual imo

LemonJam 20-04-2011 06:07 PM

Everyones bisexual after a roofie :evilgrin:

arista 20-04-2011 06:14 PM

Utter bollocks

Novo 20-04-2011 06:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Shaun (Post 4206606)
just not you.

Well i've never had the urge to shag another guy or even found one attractive so i'd say i am 100% Hetrosexual

Niall 20-04-2011 06:46 PM

I don't really agree with that I think because, like Ben said, it would mean that no homosexual is 100% homosexual, and I know that its pretty much impossible for me to find a woman sexually attractive. :/

Tom4784 20-04-2011 06:48 PM

I don't think attraction is an absolute science, I think people can be overwhelmingly gay or straight but I don't think anyone is totally either.

Fetch The Bolt Cutters 20-04-2011 06:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Novo (Post 4206867)
Well i've never had the urge to shag another guy or even found one attractive so i'd say i am 100% Hetrosexual

what about


Novo 20-04-2011 06:49 PM

Get a wig on him and some make up and you never know

Fetch The Bolt Cutters 20-04-2011 06:52 PM

:amazed:

Stu 20-04-2011 06:56 PM

http://www.finalfantasyunion.com/cha...s-on-cloud.jpg

arista 20-04-2011 06:58 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CharlieOsborne (Post 4206577)
My sister was telling me about this. She had read it in glamour. I personally somewhat agree with this. I don't think anyone is totally not attracted to a certain gender and it's only social expectations that is why not everyone is considered bi.


Your sister
what will she Fill your head with next?



Maybe she needs to join this Forum
and Stand Up on her own feet.



Life In The City.

Fetch The Bolt Cutters 20-04-2011 07:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Stu (Post 4206908)

D:

cub 20-04-2011 07:49 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dezzy (Post 4206900)
I don't think attraction is an absolute science, I think people can be overwhelmingly gay or straight but I don't think anyone is totally either.

I agree with you. You cannot put any human feeling and desire in %.

How hungry are you now? 15%? 34% 89%? Silly.

Everyone have a sexual ID that's individual to them. I like hairy daddies with tattoos however I do not remotely fancy asian men. I have a friend who like the opposite.

Boothy 20-04-2011 07:53 PM

I don't agree with the statement.

Yeah, I could distinguish an ugly man from a good looking man but, in the words of Ali G, "I'd never feel comfortable being bummed by a man or even bumming a man.".

patsylimerick 20-04-2011 09:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Boothy (Post 4207034)
I don't agree with the statement.

Yeah, I could distinguish an ugly man from a good looking man but, in the words of Ali G, "I'd never feel comfortable being bummed by a man or even bumming a man.".

:joker::joker:
While I might not have put it quite like this, I agree completely. It's not something you can quantify in percentages. I don't fancy women. Never have, never will. Wish I could express myself as clearly as Ali G, though :joker:

MTVN 20-04-2011 09:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by cub (Post 4207026)
I agree with you. You cannot put any human feeling and desire in %.

How hungry are you now? 15%? 34% 89%? Silly.

Everyone have a sexual ID that's individual to them. I like hairy daddies with tattoos however I do not remotely fancy asian men. I have a friend who like the opposite.

"How hungry are you" and "How gay are you" are two very different questions

Doogle 20-04-2011 09:10 PM

Yeah, I think this. I told my friend I believe this yesterday, actually.

joeysteele 20-04-2011 09:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dezzy (Post 4206900)
I don't think attraction is an absolute science, I think people can be overwhelmingly gay or straight but I don't think anyone is totally either.

I agree.

CharlieO 20-04-2011 10:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by arista (Post 4206910)
Your sister
what will she Fill your head with next?



Maybe she needs to join this Forum
and Stand Up on her own feet.



Life In The City.

I don't see how since my sister said a sentence like: did you know....
Means she had a point to argue. I don't necessarily believe this just thought it would be interested to have others opinions on as I know there is a wide range of people with different sexualitys on here.

cub 20-04-2011 10:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MTVN (Post 4207181)
"How hungry are you" and "How gay are you" are two very different questions

Of course the questions are different. But percentages based on how hungry/gay/tired/comfortable/good looking/happy are useless. My point.


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