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Vanessa 30-08-2018 11:09 PM

Roxanne quite happy to play box with Ben
 
But has a problem with Ryan doing the same thing :suspect:

kingston 30-08-2018 11:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 10185485)
But has a problem with Ryan doing the same thing :suspect:

So just because your partner touches your genitials makes it acceptable for anyone to touch them at leisure?

joeysteele 30-08-2018 11:12 PM

Indeed.
She's pathetic.

kingston 30-08-2018 11:22 PM

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Originally Posted by joeysteele (Post 10185497)
Indeed.
She's pathetic.

Victim shaming is just as pathetic...

Vanessa 30-08-2018 11:23 PM

Clearly she thinks it's ok if you fancy them :shrug:

Vanessa 30-08-2018 11:24 PM

Roxanne isn't a victim. She manipulated the situation to try and get Ryan out. Getting rid of the competition. She's so silly she can't even see that the real competition is Kristy.

kingston 30-08-2018 11:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 10185534)
Clearly she thinks it's ok if you fancy them :shrug:

It’s normal for people to set their own boundaries... The criteria is irrelevant...

Vanessa 30-08-2018 11:25 PM

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Originally Posted by kingston (Post 10185543)
It’s normal for people to set their own boundaries... The criteria is irrelevant...

It's the same thing.

kingston 30-08-2018 11:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 10185542)
Roxanne isn't a victim. She manipulated the situation to try and get Ryan out. Getting rid of the competition. She's so silly she can't even see that the real competition is Kristy.

I fail to see how she is “manipulating” the situation... It’s also not as if she just picked Ryan at random... There is video proof that he came at her in a manner that made her uncomfortable...

Vanessa 30-08-2018 11:29 PM

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Originally Posted by kingston (Post 10185557)
I fail to see how she is “manipulating” the situation... It’s also not as if she just picked Ryan at random... There is video proof that he came at her in a manner that made her uncomfortable...

But he barely made contact and she was clutching her other side. Ryan was nowhere near it.

kingston 30-08-2018 11:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 10185549)
It's the same thing.

As I said the criteria doesn’t matter... Just because it’s welcomed behaviour from one person doesn’t make it welcomed from everyone... It’s like saying touching someone’s genitials at random is ok just because it’s welcomed from someone else...

Vanessa 30-08-2018 11:31 PM

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Originally Posted by kingston (Post 10185564)
As I said the criteria doesn’t matter... Just because it’s welcomed behaviour from one person doesn’t make it welcomed from everyone... It’s like saying touching someone’s genitials at random is ok just because it’s welcomed from someone else...

It's not the same thing and you know it. She's picking and choosing who to discriminate against.

kingston 30-08-2018 11:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 10185561)
But he barely made contact and she was clutching her other side. Ryan was nowhere near it.

You clearly don’t understand the concept of consent... It doesn’t matter whether he “made contact” or not... The behaviour was still unwelcomed...

Northern Monkey 30-08-2018 11:32 PM

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Originally Posted by kingston (Post 10185496)
So just because your partner touches your genitials makes it acceptable for anyone to touch them at leisure?

What?Who touched her genitals?

Elliot 30-08-2018 11:32 PM

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Originally Posted by kingston (Post 10185564)
As I said the criteria doesn’t matter... Just because it’s welcomed behaviour from one person doesn’t make it welcomed from everyone... It’s like saying touching someone’s genitials at random is ok just because it’s welcomed from someone else...

Legitimately curious, how do you think big brother should’ve handeled this ordeal?

Vanessa 30-08-2018 11:33 PM

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Originally Posted by kingston (Post 10185567)
You clearly don’t understand the concept of consent... It doesn’t matter whether he “made contact” or not... The behaviour was still unwelcomed...

And yet its very welcomed when Ben does it. I get it.

kingston 30-08-2018 11:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 10185566)
It's not the same thing and you know it. She's picking and choosing who to discriminate against.

It is the same thing and yes I know it... Everyone is entitled to set their own personal boundaries...

kingston 30-08-2018 11:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Elliot (Post 10185571)
Legitimately curious, how do you think big brother should’ve handeled this ordeal?

Exactly how they’ve handled it...

Vanessa 30-08-2018 11:35 PM

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Originally Posted by kingston (Post 10185583)
It is the same thing and yes I know it... Everyone is entitled to set their own personal boundaries...

She playfights with the other lads. But when Ryan does it, suddenly its not ok. :suspect:

Vanessa 30-08-2018 11:37 PM

Even DS is on Ryan's side and they don't even like him. :joker:

kingston 30-08-2018 11:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 10185574)
And yet its very welcomed when Ben does it. I get it.

Again that fact that she is comfortable with Ben is irrellevent... Just because behaviour is welcomed by one person does not make it welcomed by everyone...

kingston 30-08-2018 11:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 10185587)
She playfights with the other lads. But when Ryan does it, suddenly its not ok. :suspect:

Yes it’s called personal boundaries and it’s normal for people to set them...

Vanessa 30-08-2018 11:39 PM

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Originally Posted by kingston (Post 10185594)
Yes it’s called personal boundaries and it’s normal for people to set them...

It's called double standards.

kingston 30-08-2018 11:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 10185596)
It's called double standards.

Again back to the example I’ve been giving is it a double standard that a person allows a sexual partner to touch them in a sexual manner and not others?

Vanessa 30-08-2018 11:44 PM

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Originally Posted by kingston (Post 10185613)
Again back to the example I’ve been giving is it a double standard that a person allows a sexual partner to touch them in a sexual manner and not others?

It wasn't a sexual touch.


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