Too big an age gap?
 

So im 23 and speaking to a 19 year old guy, we get on etc and he wants to meet, but im uncomfortable about being 4 years older

Is it too large a gap?

I would say no sis

It just depends on your personalities

Bang On Right TomC

I wouldn't say so but all depends on maturity personally

If you've already been speaking and get along, it shouldn't really be too much of an issue (and if it was, you'd have ghosted straight away). I don't think age gaps matter THAT much unless it's over 10 years, really (edit: as in, once the other person is 18 :laugh: don't date a 13yo.)

nah you're fine. There's six years between me and my boo. :spin:

Gav is 4 and half years older than me :shrug:

No, i think it's fine.

Thanks guys :laugh:

I think I will meet and see how it goes

Girl as if 4 years is a gap

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It's more that he's still a teenager and im 24 next month

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Thought this was gonna be about hooking up with someone in their 40s or something

Can see why it carries a bit of doubt as they're still a teenager but a 19 year old can be more mature than a lot of people in their early 20s and it won't be long before they are 20 anyway which would never be considered weird

As a 19 year old myself i can confirm it’s not an issue

You've got nothing to worry about, honestly. None of your family or friends will think any differently of an age gap like that.

not us going on a date :smug:

Way too much, seek people your actual exact age to the day
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I don't think its too large as people mature at different rates , just stay aware (which you do seem to be) take it slow and see if you are actually really attracted to each other , suss him out a bit.

Shut up ! My partner of 20 odd years is 12 years younger than me - and i can still run rings round him :laugh::laugh::laugh:

Disgusten

When I was 19 I slept with a 40 year old so no!

What ! why ?

No. I usually go for guys the same age or older than me. But when I was travelling I did have one or two flings with the younger species. I feel folk the same age or older than me know what they are doing more. Although I've still had sex with folk who were **** and were older. Knowing me I will be the next Caroline Flack in a few years. Be in my 30s and go for a teen :laugh: