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So im 23 and speaking to a 19 year old guy, we get on etc and he wants to meet, but im uncomfortable about being 4 years older

Is it too large a gap?
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If you've already been speaking and get along, it shouldn't really be too much of an issue (and if it was, you'd have ghosted straight away). I don't think age gaps matter THAT much unless it's over 10 years, really (edit: as in, once the other person is 18 don't date a 13yo.)
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So im 23 and speaking to a 19 year old guy, we get on etc and he wants to meet, but im uncomfortable about being 4 years older

Is it too large a gap?
No, i think it's fine.
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I think I will meet and see how it goes
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It's more that he's still a teenager and im 24 next month
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Can see why it carries a bit of doubt as they're still a teenager but a 19 year old can be more mature than a lot of people in their early 20s and it won't be long before they are 20 anyway which would never be considered weird
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It's more that he's still a teenager and im 24 next month
As a 19 year old myself i can confirm it’s not an issue
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You've got nothing to worry about, honestly. None of your family or friends will think any differently of an age gap like that.
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Way too much, seek people your actual exact age to the day
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So im 23 and speaking to a 19 year old guy, we get on etc and he wants to meet, but im uncomfortable about being 4 years older

Is it too large a gap?
I don't think its too large as people mature at different rates , just stay aware (which you do seem to be) take it slow and see if you are actually really attracted to each other , suss him out a bit.
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Shut up ! My partner of 20 odd years is 12 years younger than me - and i can still run rings round him
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No. I usually go for guys the same age or older than me. But when I was travelling I did have one or two flings with the younger species. I feel folk the same age or older than me know what they are doing more. Although I've still had sex with folk who were **** and were older. Knowing me I will be the next Caroline Flack in a few years. Be in my 30s and go for a teen
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