Second Chance...
...just thinking of something in Scarlett’s writing...if you were able to go back to any point in your life to change or re-arrange something etc...would you and what...?...a second chance pondering ...
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...excluding:...’ ..I wouldn’t have joined TiBB/type stuff...’...
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Every time travel movie ever made has told me that changing the past even in small ways results in unintended negative consequences in the present... So no I wouldn't change anything. The slightest hiccup in your timeline could result in dying in an accident the following day :suspect:.
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er I think it was Cher who had the original idea here so lets give credit where credit is due
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When I saw the title, I did a double take xD
Hmm, if I could go back, but not change anything massively, I'd go back to the night before I lost my mum and tell her how much I loved her. We shared a nice last moment, but if I'd have known she wouldnt wake up the next day, I would have said so much more. |
Probably put myself in a room with my son, perhaps not to change what happened but more for him to have a loving arm around him as he went.
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...Parm as well..:hug:..
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I'd have also changed the way my mum passed away. On her own in the house. I found her in the kitchen at tea time. Was traumatic. Didn't want that for her. X
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Very sorry for your loss Scarlett. Losing a parent when you're still relatively young is ****. |
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...Annie..:hug:...yeah, I think with ‘words being spoken’ and ‘being with at that time, to hold’...and all of the feelings that we have in our grief of losing someone we love so deeply...it’s thinking of what they would have wanted as well because they loved as much as we loved, you know..?...your mum knew that you would get through because you had a beautiful son to help you and that would ensure ‘your safety of care’...but your dad had so many vulnerabilities and so much that would have added those layers of being too difficult to bear...?...well, you know what I mean, I’m not saying it very well... ...her total belief in your strength was so much because of what she helped to make you...:hug:... ...I wrote a little poem to my dad after he’d passed...and I felt as though he could hear me because he had such wisdom and there was nothing left to be said...in life, he knew how much he was loved...he needed nothing and no words etc in his passing... |
I'm so sorry for everyone's loss, I was able to be with my dad in his final moments. It was both the most painful thing I've experienced and the thing I'm most comforted by at the same time.
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