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Vanessa 04-08-2024 05:06 PM

Anyone her prefers being alone or is it just me?
 
I'm a bit like my late dad, a bit of a loner.
Really uncomfortable in social settings.
I mean I love my family, but going to see them every year it's such a chore :laugh:

Ray. 04-08-2024 05:22 PM

Oh, absolutely. Just recently I've been reconnecting with a friend who I had a bad falling out with, but we're having to take it slow on my account because, in my own words, I've grown comfortable with being alone again. :hehe:

Vanessa 04-08-2024 05:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ChalkOutlineMan (Post 11488807)
Oh, absolutely. Just recently I've been reconnecting with a friend who I had a bad falling out with, but we're having to take it slow on my account because, in my own words, I've grown comfortable with being alone again. :hehe:

I love living on my own.
I have friends, but i just love not having to answer to anyone.
I can do things spontaneously. Go anywhere I i want. When I want.

Beso 04-08-2024 05:25 PM

I'm easy doing both. Sometimes I cant be arsed with either though.

Vanessa 04-08-2024 05:26 PM

I have to visit some relatives before I go back. Not looking forward to it :joker:

Crimson Dynamo 04-08-2024 05:31 PM

Yes I am very happy in my own company and dislike social settings as I don't
like chit chat and am not very much interested in people.. I remember as a
child only being interested in football stats and really hated in my annuals
interviews with players and I had no interest in who they were etc. Same as I
grew older and started reading magazines if i came across and interview with
some celeb i would always skip it even if i liked their music or films. Give me
stats and numbers than peoples lives..

Crimson Dynamo 04-08-2024 05:34 PM

My brother just hit a significant birthday and had a party :rolleyes:
I was driving so the kids could drink and I found it excruciating and was very pleased
when I could go

Its the opposite of what I would want to do for that type of birthday but I'm not
knocking it if its for you

Zizu 04-08-2024 05:35 PM

Yep a long time loner here ..

No idea how I came to be married with kids amd grandkids …

I don’t really like most people

:)


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Zizu 04-08-2024 05:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet (Post 11488812)
Yes I am very happy in my own company and dislike social settings as I don't
like chit chat and am not very much interested in people.. I remember as a
child only being interested in football stats and really hated in my annuals
interviews with players and I had no interest in who they were etc. Same as I
grew older and started reading magazines if i came across and interview with
some celeb i would always skip it even if i liked their music or films. Give me
stats and numbers than peoples lives..


How did you read my mind !!!


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Zizu 04-08-2024 05:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 11488798)
I'm a bit like my late dad, a bit of a loner.
Really uncomfortable in social settings.
I mean I love my family, but going to see them every year it's such a chore :laugh:


Same


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smudgie 04-08-2024 05:37 PM

Reckon I am in the common group.
Love company and also my own space.
Very lucky lady here that manages both very well…plus I do exactly what I want, I have my own mind.:shrug:

Edd 04-08-2024 05:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 11488809)
I love living on my own.
I have friends, but i just love not having to answer to anyone.
I can do things spontaneously. Go anywhere I i want. When I want.

You can still do that when living with people.

Redway 04-08-2024 07:37 PM

Being socially introverted isn’t a rare thing. It’s a natural and normal personality dimension. You won’t need to be a Jungian philosopher or MBTI-socionics analyst to understand the basic concept of introversion.

Crimson Dynamo 04-08-2024 08:28 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Redway (Post 11488935)
Being socially introverted isn’t a rare thing. It’s a natural and normal personality dimension. You won’t need to be a Jungian philosopher or MBTI-socionics analyst to understand the basic concept of introversion.

Thank God you understand it at its most complex level

MTVN 04-08-2024 09:16 PM

https://i.pinimg.com/736x/aa/97/87/a...078b873e4e.jpg

Redway 05-08-2024 02:01 AM

Seriously, Vanessa, being a bit of an introvert isn’t exactly a rare thing. There are many, many people out there who prefer their own company and feel more comfortable by themselves or in small groups when they are socialising, for a wide variety of reasons. Some people lean more towards extraversion on the social scale and some are pretty-much exactly 50/50. And that’s just fine, too. People are different. You need to get out of this idea that it’s an uncommon personality trait.

Ninastar 05-08-2024 02:24 AM

@MTVN I literally don’t think you could have picked a bigger picture

Mystic Mock 05-08-2024 02:41 AM

I love being around my family.

But I'm not comfortable talking to strangers, although I am trying to fix that a little bit.

Mystic Mock 05-08-2024 02:47 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 11488809)
I love living on my own.
I have friends, but i just love not having to answer to anyone.
I can do things spontaneously. Go anywhere I i want. When I want.

You don't have a boyfriend or girlfriend, Vanessa?

Understandable tbh, I keep telling myself that I would want a girlfriend, but then I realise that I just don't like people very much.:laugh:

Don't get me wrong I like people on here, but I'm talking about in person.

Vanessa 05-08-2024 05:25 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mystic Mock (Post 11489109)
You don't have a boyfriend or girlfriend, Vanessa?

Understandable tbh, I keep telling myself that I would want a girlfriend, but then I realise that I just don't like people very much.:laugh:




Don't get me wrong I like people on here, but I'm talking about in person.

Not at the moment. But then I love being single.

bots 05-08-2024 05:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ninastar (Post 11489105)
@MTVN I literally don’t think you could have picked a bigger picture

he was keeping Zizu company :laugh:

Mystic Mock 05-08-2024 05:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Vanessa (Post 11489190)
Not at the moment. But then I love being single.

Fair play, there's no rule that says that you have to be in a relationship.

MTVN 05-08-2024 07:15 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Ninastar (Post 11489105)
@MTVN I literally don’t think you could have picked a bigger picture

Oop sorry :omgno:

Do people not all use the mobile theme these days, it auto adjusts pictures for me

Vanessa 05-08-2024 07:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MTVN (Post 11489215)
Oop sorry :omgno:

Do people not all use the mobile theme these days, it auto adjusts pictures for me

It's massive :joker:

Zizu 05-08-2024 09:39 AM

What image sizes are preferred ?


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