I'm a bit in shock right now.
 

So most of you will know I'm estranged from my son, we have no contact.

I can view his Facebook photos but can't message him etc. I check them every now and then.

Had my tea and had a little look a short while ago. I'm devastated. It looks like he's gotten married judging by the pics. She's beautiful and he looks so handsome. I'm very tearful right now.

Anyone who can talk to me?

That's a big shock, you must be so proud of him but feeling left out too. Did you have a fight or something that caused you to stop talking?

….awwww, of course you’re in shock, Kate…I know this must have stunned you but I’m glad he’s found someone and seems happy…

Im sorry Kate. I know it's not the same, but i remember years back seeing my Dad's (who i no longer speak to) wedding photos with his new family. It's a bitter pill to swallow. Though, again, it's different.

Aw I'm so sorry Kate. Families are complicated. At least you know he's safe and happy.

BIG HUGZ


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No Jess. He ghosted me out of the blue years ago.

I'll be alright. It's just a big thing to come to terms with. I've had my little cry. Life goes on.

…it’s good to have that cry as well because it does help to release and it’s a beginning of that release which can be difficult…the crying will stop, though and when it does…?…hopefully you’ll feel that you can give a smile at the image of how happy he looked/they both looked and that he’s found that person to share his life with…

I'm bawling again. Maybe they'll have children and I'll never know them.

Sorry to hear that Kate. Hopefully one day you two will talk again

Absolutely.

…you need that cry for as long as you need it, Kate so just let it flow…try not to cross a bridge of what you may never know and try to focus on all of the things that you do know right now and that bring you joy right now in your life…:hug:…

Thank you all. It's nice that people care.

Maybe if he now is married, he may realise the importance of family and reach out.
Family problems are sad and I hope you reconcile one day :love:

Absolutely….

How old is your son Kate?
Hopefully as he grows up he will realise how he misses you and get in touch.

This area isn't my expertise.

But have you tried to message him over the phone, to see if he wants to meet up?

Wait how old are you?

27

55

that is sad for you Kate, be happy he is happy and maybe one day he will reconcile

Sorry to read this Kate.

Do you mind me asking why you lost contact?

Have you tried seeing if he is on other social media platforms or know someone he knows to offer olive branch.

You could message his wife

I'll pm you.

I can't find him on any other social media. And I don't know his new wife, not even her name.