[Ammi]

..they can refer to Sian as they wish to, with whatever terminology they choose to use..(..whether it’s merited or not..)....but the irony comes when they’ve judged and criticised others for their wording and terminology as well...as with sexual talk...their ‘level’ and terminology is okay and dandy and acceptable apparently...but the others use of terminology is quite base and crude and unacceptable to them...they make the rules and they scream the rules... but they don’t practice them, is the thing for me...