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Old 24-10-2018, 03:41 PM #3
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Ok that is fair, but BIB - I don't think he has mental health problems, so im not trying to call them. Im saying it's worrying that people try to excuse his vile behaviour. Even when they see with their own eyes what a nob he is being, some sort of spin is put on it.

Did he look anxious and paranoid when smirking behind Zoe at Hussain as she fought his battle for him? Could he not see how distressed his 'friend' was getting, how she was actually risking being ejected when almost becoming physically violent? I guess he let it play because he was having a panic attack or something.
Isn't it all in the perception though

I saw exactly the same thing and thought he did exactly the right thing.

By reacting to Hussain in anyway, he was feeding him and doing exactly what he wanted but by using restraint, he didn't bite, but laughed at him.

He wasn't having an anxiety attack at the time, they are sporadic and are usually when his voice gets higher and he speaks at top speed. We have seen them enough to recognize when they happen. They also happen when he gets upset and quite honestly although we can see what goes on, who is qualified to judge if they are real or not. I am sure they seem real to him.

He was remiss in not thanking Zoe later for her actions on his behalf, if he didn't but again, we didn't see if he did but he should have.
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