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Originally Posted by AnnieK
How would your husband have felt though if she had told him and then told him you knew all about it? Surely that would seem like more of a blow? For me, if I had to hear something that I was not going to like, I would prefer to hear it from someone I loved and who loved me back rather than anyone else.
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For me personally, if my wife had been keeping something (anything more than something very minor) "for my own good" and then I found out about it later by other means and that she already knew... It would probably damage our relationship quite severely. I know different people have different relationships but yeah, we often see things on TV where one half of a couple didn't know something "big" that the other knew and we're like "lol how does this happen I'd have been straight on WhatsApp..."