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Originally Posted by FromBB8
Yes, I can see that. I do go back to the live feed conversation he has, I think it was Emma, a couple of weeks back where he explained he used to fly off the handle and react without thinking, and how he went through a lot of behavioural management, of which boxing played a part, so I imagine this could be part of it - controlling himself rather than saying something he would regret. I don't know how many others in the house have heard that from him. Nothing has been shown on the HLs.
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…we just don’t get to see so many interesting conversations, I feel…and I do understand that it’s his way to step back from something and not have THAT conversation until he’s ready to…I don’t in any way lay any criticism or fault or anything for that…but trying to look at it from both sides now…(…thank you, Joni Mitchell…

…)…it’s also seeing how that could convey at times as a type of aloofness …a distancing…?… that may translate as ivory tower type behaviour…and as Ben said earlier …being a rose with a thorn, it may have been that the task involved Sarah to purposefully inject that thorn into her descriptives…and in that clip it didn’t feel ‘too much’ like Dean said about her in another task…I mean, she didn’t even seem to realise that she was the one who had upset his vibe…?…so it obviously wasn’t something that she said with any negativity and when we try to understand one person, we surely have to also try to understand the other…and how she would have felt with the realisation that she was the one who upset him but he refused to talk about it…