[Zizu]

Originally Posted by Redway

I don’t even want to hear it at this point or whatever your pathetic justification is, so I’m not going to view that message (you’re on my ignore-list by default, even-though it disrupts the flow because you’re absolutely everywhere these days and hard to ignore completely). I’ve said my own and set the boundary, whether you want to respect it or not. I’m not opening that message.

You deliberately crossed a line, and there’s no excuse in the world for that. You have capacity. You wouldn’t be able to live independently if you didn’t. You know what you’re doing. You just prefer to say whatever you want about women and racially ambiguous/mixed (and-so-on) folk and get away with it because you have autism and anxiety and we’re all supposed to pity and feel sorry for you, whatever you do or say, whoever you objectify, devalue or gaslight. Well, I don’t. I don’t feel sorry for you. Wouldn’t want to be you, but that doesn’t mean I feel sorry for you.

You have capacity and a choice. You just choose not to take accountability for anything, and it always circles back down to that with you. You’ll do literally anything but own your words and actions on here. Squaring yourself with that one word - accountability - is something that you don’t seem to have it in you to do, ever. Because it’s always easy to play victim/the bullied party and blame someone-else when challenged, call them “obtuse” (your catchphrase), deflect and refuse to acknowledge your own biases, dodgy assumptions and misplaced, toxic, inappropriate fixations. That’s the core issue with you, and it consistently remains unaddressed because you just don’t want to do that inner work and be responsible on the virtual world as much as the real world, because you rely on people lowering the bar and making excuses for you.

I think we understand each-other. I’m checking out. I’m wasting my time with you and most people on this forum know it. That’s why I never used to get too involved with you, but, again, your presence here, there and everywhere and the things you say are hard to not bump into. You’re omnipresent in the worst way possible.

Again with the wall of text. .. I haven’t read through it all but did spot the word ‘deliberately’ ..

So as regards deliberately crossing the line ..

I have no idea which line I have crossed so by definition I cannot have crossed it deliberately - do you see my point ?