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Originally Posted by Vicky.
Jay and Aaron had already spoke(calmly) about this, and decided nothing else was to be said.
Minutes later Jay is talking about it with the others, and brings it up AGAIN. Then gets all confrontational when he has backup, rather than speaking calmly like he does on his own. Yes, Louise inflamed it further, but the point is...why did he start going on about it again after already deciding to drop it?
And Aaron is in the wrong?
There is not a negative atmosphere because of Aaron NOT mentioning it at all...Aaron has yet to say ANYTHING to Tom and Alex about the presents being for show, so he was clearly not wanting to create an atmosphere between them all. He said it to Jay, and Jay alone, Jay and Lou then continued this...making a massive deal about it... and made everyone else uncomfortable.
It is Louise and Jay that brought that up infront of them and to them, thus making Tom and Alex uncomfortable too.
Why the need to bring everyone else into their argument?
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I don't think the two of them decided anything, Jay eventually gave up because Aaron wasn't in the mood for reasoning with him. When he went back in there and relayed the conversation I think he picked up on Louise's point about him messing up the nominations and so wanted to ask him about that, and Louise did have a right to give her point of view as well. Plus Alex and Tom might have wanted a say as well, they were happy to give their 2 cents when Aaron wasn't there after all, I don't see what's wrong with having a group discussion at all, it was just unfortunate it turned into another argument
There's only 5 of them left, do you not think that if 3 of them are embroiled in a row where they can't even talk to each other then that's going to create a negative atmosphere?