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Originally Posted by JamesBond007
There's generous and there's been outright greedy. First few dates i would pay for everything but after that i'd expect things to be going each way. If the person couldn't afford it then yes i would gladly pay but if its some woman who has a Job but still expects things to be paid for her a few months into a reltionship then un-huh ain't happening. There's a difference about a first date then a few months into a reltionship and been a doormat instead of been a equal reltionship.
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I understand what you are saying, but at the same time, it's not fair if someone invites you to an event, that you might not even want to go to, but you go just to be accomodating, and then they expect you to pay for your own drinks?? even if yur only there to please them? no, that's not right. When you are invited to an event by someone, they should pay.
And when you invite someone to an event with you, you should pay. That's just how it works. You can't invite someone to an event to be with you, and expect them to pay for their own drinks. that's just gross.