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Old 30-08-2014, 02:58 PM #45
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I think (the bolded part) is because he is the only one who really bothers with him and Gary is maddeningly annoying to be around. The others wisely stay away and get off scot free even though not helping or interacting could be seen as even more uncaring. I honestly think James likes him and wants to help but he isn't the best person to do it - he's too volatile and hot - headed.
I wish James would just distance himself and let us see how one of the others deals so closely with him. But they are happy to let James carry on even though they must see his temperament isn't suited to it. They all get off the hook.
Thinking about it though, maybe it would be good for them all to just treat him as part of the house and not try and make him different. My daughter is disabled but she is very capable of fitting in, this is how it should be regardless.
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