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Originally Posted by delta
It clearly says as much if not more about the poster if they champion such a bad role model and pass off his may flaws as if it was something to be cherished or even worse glaze over them as it they didn't exist.
I didn't see one endearing quality in there from him. Self absorbed- show off - with so many bad personality traits and examples of what is not good in our society. As Audley said, if you have to try and get a laugh at an other person's expense then there is something wrong with you. You get people to laugh with you not to get other people to laugh or poke fun at another individual to heighten your profile or to big yourself up.
For 36 years old he is, very immature, very insecure. He has deep seated issues. He's a bully. What you saw is what you got, that his game of life, the way he's always conducted himself and he never took the time whilst in there to reflect and think. Hey, you know what, I can do this a different way, I can take on board what those that dare confront me and tell me what my flaws are, I can improve. Nah, he was his belligerent self to right to the bitter end.
That's another thing, he actually spoiled the program. I didn't enjoy watching him and there were people who were running scared of him and found it easier to go with the bullying rather than stand up against it. Why do you think Audley came second? Why do you think Gary won? Yes, he was entertaining and which ever way they tried to play him he would have still won. But if they had been nice to him it would have reflected much better on them as a group. They made their choice and I hope most of 'em never work again. Truly shameful behavior.
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..it still doesn't say anything about the poster though and gives no one the right to comment on them...there are lots of reasons why people 'support' housemates or even like or are interested in them...whether they see 'beyond' what is surface etc and whether that intrigues them or gives them any empathy etc...in terms of 'housemates' we all view differently what we see in terms of 'entertainment' and in terms of what we feel those housemates's character are and how we view those characters also depends on a lot of individual things and personal life experiences and people we know..or can do, if that's your thought process...and none of that can and should ever be judged by another forum member because it really is all very subjective....there are many people who failed to see the 'value' as a person of the civilian BB winner and the fact that they also 'entertained' at the expense of others..much more so than James in my own opinion...my opinion though was not of the 'majority' opinion of public and voters...so whose opinion was 'right'..?..no ones..not the majority/not the minority..just differing opinions and for different reasons....
..anyway, my opinion still stands...posters and members post their opinions and thoughts on housemates who have put themselves up to be 'judged' so that's what we all do and enjoy doing and always have done...I find it very sad personally that I have seen so many interesting members being 'put off' from posting their thoughts on housemates because of personal comments to themselves for doing so...I don't know why this has been allowed or seen to be allowed so frequently, that saddens me as well but as it has, then my opinion is obviously here in the 'minority' as well ....