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Old 29-09-2014, 01:21 PM #29
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Originally Posted by kirklancaster View Post
I'm sorry that you feel this way Braden, but I personally don't think either has any bearing on being 'equal'. we are all equal. A recently joined member's view is as interesting and relevant as someone's who has been a member for years. Any feeling of being an 'outsider' which a recent member might have, may come from the 'intimacy' sometimes present in banter between long standing members; 'in-jokes', the use of first names etc, but this is only natural, to be expected, and does not mean that those long standing members are being 'exclusive'.

I haven't been a member for all that long, and some of my posts do not always elicit responses, but that's natural, and the same thing sometimes happens to long standing members posts.

I enjoy reading all viewpoints on subjects which interest me and skip any on topics which don't, and I don't personally care how long someone has been a member - or what their post count is.
I definitely see your point. There's no reason for anybody not to be equal, but in regards to someone's join date I feel like older members already have their friendships based, which is something you've already stated. That's not to say newer members wouldn't be included because TiBB is a welcoming community, I just think in terms of 'equality' a post count doesn't really have anything to do with in, in comparison to a join date, which like you said is expected to cause a bit of distance in terms of understanding user's sense of humour and interests.

I'm just content with how TiBB is and don't think anything needs to change.
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