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Originally Posted by Loukas
thats a pretty big secret to have from a partner, being a porn star is too much for some people to handle. My cousin is dated a porn star for a couple years but she knew where he was going, who he was sleeping with and exactly what he was doing in the scene he's doing as they discuss it - Like a healthy couple. A secret is a secret - big or small. If you keep something, anything, from a partner it could be a problem.
Take Lorna for example, she's a high profile soap star that never makes the headlines but the one time she does it's because of a secret that her boyfriend kept from her, that caused nationwide embarrassment for her. If i was her i would have dumped her faster than one can say Eastenders.
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It's not his problem that she got embarrassed, if she can't handle that fair enough, but what she gets embarrassed about is not his fault
I guess we all have different outlooks on life, i wouldn't care if i was dating someone who was doing porn, the only issue I'd have would be the lying, but it wouldn't make me break up with them.
And i also said in the open relationship thread that i couldn't be in one.. but in my eyes, your partner doing a bit of porn here and there is just a job, not an implement in a relationship status, If i knew what he was doing and who he was doing it with during a 'scene' i wouldn't have an issue, because i know that he would be coming home to me every night.
And tbh, a part of me would find it a bit hot knowing that people found my boyfriend so hot that they watched his porn videos
