[Liam-]

Originally Posted by Loukas

thats a pretty big secret to have from a partner, being a porn star is too much for some people to handle. My cousin is dated a porn star for a couple years but she knew where he was going, who he was sleeping with and exactly what he was doing in the scene he's doing as they discuss it - Like a healthy couple. A secret is a secret - big or small. If you keep something, anything, from a partner it could be a problem.

Take Lorna for example, she's a high profile soap star that never makes the headlines but the one time she does it's because of a secret that her boyfriend kept from her, that caused nationwide embarrassment for her. If i was her i would have dumped her faster than one can say Eastenders.

It's not his problem that she got embarrassed, if she can't handle that fair enough, but what she gets embarrassed about is not his fault

I guess we all have different outlooks on life, i wouldn't care if i was dating someone who was doing porn, the only issue I'd have would be the lying, but it wouldn't make me break up with them.

And i also said in the open relationship thread that i couldn't be in one.. but in my eyes, your partner doing a bit of porn here and there is just a job, not an implement in a relationship status, If i knew what he was doing and who he was doing it with during a 'scene' i wouldn't have an issue, because i know that he would be coming home to me every night.

And tbh, a part of me would find it a bit hot knowing that people found my boyfriend so hot that they watched his porn videos