Really enjoyed reading your post Pinkpeggy
Really great observations and analysis. Just one point I would like to pick up on really is I would not be happy about sharing a bed with someone either and I probably would look a bit weird hugging a stranger too. Not because I'm jealous of people just because I really value my personal space and boundaries and it makes me uncomfortable to have to be overly close with people I don't know so coming from that place myself I could understand why other people might react like Jade did about those things? Now maybe I'm completely wrong as well but time will tell i guess