[Raph]

If that was a man saying that to a woman, it wouldn't be classed as okay. It's rather vulgar of Aaron to speak in such a manner to Joel - especially given that he's younger than him (although really, regardless).

As for Joel's sexuality, yes during auditions when we spoke I did question it, but ultimately it's important to take his word for it, in such a situation. If he's telling Aaron he's 'straight', then Aaron should respect that, instead of trying to use his homosexuality as a shield to speak to Joel in the way in which he did.