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Originally Posted by lostalex
i agree, they only work for people who are willing to be totally honest and free and admit their sexual desires. if one person isn;'t into it, it won't work because it will make jealousy, especially the double standards in straight relationships, because usually men want to have open relationships with women, but not allow the the women to have open relationships with other men.
I admit that it doesn't work well for straight people because straight men are so possessive and sexist against women. They see women as their property.
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You know it's funny you should say that, after I read you last post I googled open relationship success and came across an article about Pitbull who's been in an open relationship for 9 years, I thought the bit in bold was quite funny and telling :
Most of Pitbull's friends in Miami aren't as open, and they think he's a bit nuts. "At the same time, they'll be like, ‘Damn, I wish I had a relationship like yours,'" he says. Guys like the idea of freedom for themselves, but the thought of their girl doing the same is too much to handle.
"Men have to under- stand that women are loyal," he says, perhaps naively. "If she gets something she likes, she'll stick with it."
So he's basically saying that his partner can have sex with other men if she wants but she just wants him......
- See more at:
http://www.mensfitness.com/women/dat....3tmj8zEr.dpuf