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Old 23-01-2016, 08:40 PM #15
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Marriage used to be a traditional religious ceremony that more often than not took place in a church and was not something that was done out of love, but to distribute distinct roles as husband and wife. It's definitely lost its meaning, because people are no longer relying on religious beliefs and even if people do marry, it's more likely to take place in a registry office. And the most important thing is that it's done to express love and trust, not because it's the traditional thing to do unless of course you're religious.

There could be many reasons for the increase in divorce rate. One being that there is less of a stigma attached to being a divorcee and it's no longer an idea that is shunned. I'll also contradict myself and say that some people don't even marry to express love and trust, they just want to have "that day" and look pretty in a white dress or a black suit, and be the centre of attention. Then you get past the honeymoon period and realise "****, do I really want this?" and then the marriage turns sour and eventually comes to a bitter end.

Since 1970, Divorce has changed from a last resort to a quick getaway option. And it's really quite sad. However, think of all the women all those years ago who were in abusive relationships and couldn't get divorced? Now, at least they have the chance.

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