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Originally Posted by Niamh.
I don't think it means nothing to people Ashley, I think people are just saying they might feel better doing that elsewhere. For me the graveyard is such a cold place and a reminder of death more than the life of the person, if you know what I mean? But it's obviously a completely personal thing.
Also, sorry about your sister, she must have been pretty young
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Exactly, that's why I'm a little shocked at seeing a couple of people trying to debate it...
She was one of a kind.
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Originally Posted by Ammi
..Ashley...  ...that's it really isn't it...grief is so individual to everyone and how we remember and how we respect and love in death is also so individual and it's whatever has great meaning to us...there is no meaningless because it's whatever meaning each of us give things... |
Couldn't have put it better myself, Ammi xx