I meet up with my 3 best friends every couple of months for a proper night out, in between I might meet them individually for lunch or breakfast once or twice. Myself and Gav have gotten pretty lazy, in general we'd rather spend a Fri/Sat night by the fire in our PJs with a glass of wine
If we are doing anything it's usually a weekend or night away at a hotel and we'd usually go out then for dinner and to the pub. Oh we go to the cinema alot actually both with and without the kids and we'd go to "events" like friends birthday parties and that kind of thing but they don't come around too often