[Kate!]

What pet names do you have for people, as in what do you call them to show affection. Or do you not bother with any of that?

Also, are you a tactile person, do you hug people, touch their arms etc when talking, are you openly demonstrative or reserved, British stiff upper lip and all that?

On here I like the vast majority of members, and you can tell instantly how much I like you, as I'll call you hun, hunni or something similar, and use emoticons like to express it.

Poll coming.

[Kazanne]

Mine is usually 'flower' or 'petal' but do use pudding sometimes,my kids I call my little sugar dumplings!!!,lol

[Kate!]

Aw, that's lovely Kazanne

I voted hun on the poll but I call my son sweetheart as well, and we have a very tactile affectionate relationships, loads of hugs. My parents weren't touchy feely, and my main boyfriend type relationships weren't either, I made bad choices in that department sadly. Ironically though you'd expect the effect to make me reserved too, it actually went the opposite way, and I'm a very tactile, demonstrative person. I wear my heart on my sleeve.

[Benjamin]

I don't have any. I'm not an overly affectionate person if truth be told.

[Ninastar]

Not even gunna lie, I call my best friend babas

[Kate!]

That surprises me Ben.

But judging from last years tibb BB, you did seem to throw things at us and push us all in the pool etc a lot, so maybe that's how you show your adoration. It would explain why you torment Marc as well, you lurve him....

[Ammi]

No...no offence Kate, but I cringe if someone calls me hun...I don't use any terms of endearment and think maybe I have a phobia of them. I do hug people..sometimes a lot...but I have to be the one to hug..I don't like others coming into my space and hugging me first...maybe I'm selfish

[Ninastar]

i like it when older people call me pet, even though I'm not an animal

[Ammi]

..oh and I hate when grown ups do that whole 'baby talk' thing too

[Benjamin]

Originally Posted by *Kate*

That surprises me Ben.

But judging from last years tibb BB, you did seem to throw things at us and push us all in the pool etc a lot, so maybe that's how you show your adoration. It would explain why you torment Marc as well, you lurve him....

Lol. I'm not a completely cold hearted prick. I'm a hugger, I love my hugs and cuddles. I'm just not one for spoken adoration or sentimental mush. Don't get me wrong, a few people will see that side to me, but the majority of the world won't know me long enough to witness it.

[Benjamin]

Originally Posted by Ninastar

i like it when older people call me pet, even though I'm not an animal

You eat your own scabs, you're worse than an animal.

[Kate!]

- note to self - try not to call Ammi hun.

[Roy Mars III]

*****

[Kate!]

Originally Posted by ukturtle

Lol. I'm not a completely cold hearted prick. I'm a hugger, I love my hugs and cuddles. I'm just not one for spoken adoration or sentimental mush. Don't get me wrong, a few people will see that side to me, but the majority of the world won't know me long enough to witness it.

That sounds more like the impression I have for you.

I don't go ott and gushy as then it becomes meaningless, I don't go in for mushy cards and all that, that's sickening, But I do get easily attached to anyone who shows me a crumb of affection. I'm far too sensitive and emotional. I'm a proper sad cow. Lol.

Feels like Lassie, staring at everyone with big puppy eyes

[Ninastar]

Originally Posted by ukturtle

You eat your own scabs, you're worse than an animal.

omfg I forgot I said that last night

-looks to find thread-

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Ninastar

omfg I forgot I said that last night

-looks to find thread-

LOL..I always cringe when I read my posts
I shouldn't say anything until I've thought about it for a week first

[Niall]

I don't really have any terms of affection for people I know. I'd cringe at myself if I did use them tho.

[Niamh.]

I use terms of endearment to Gav and the kids but no one else.

[joeysteele]

I voted other but now cannot think of any I do use, other than 'my friend' sometimes,my 2 main ways of addressing people are their names and near always ending with 'speak soon'.

Maybe when I have a friend who is feeling down I will say something like 'come on my friend what can I do to help cheer you up' but usually I just always use people's name or what they prefer to be called.

[Black Dagger]

Dear/Darling are my main two, that I say to my close girlfriends.

[Kizzy]

Luv, its a yorkshire thing, but i dont hug! i hate it, theres no social cue to it now people just launch themselves at you.....gerroff!!!!

[Samuel.]

None. I find those types of terms condescending.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Samuel.

None. I find those types of terms condescending.

...yes..even though I don't particularly like my name, it is my name and what I should be called

[Marc]

You can call me whatever you want.

[Brother Leon]

Me - "B!tch the house needs cleaning"


Her - "Yes Hun"



I kid