[Kerry]

Prince William was saying how his knees were knocking just at his wedding rehearsal. I've often thought it must be awful for the likes of Kate to be under that pressure. I suppose at least he's used to the pomp of it all

Could you be a royal bride/groom?

Me? Not a chance (nor would I ever want to be)

[GypsyGoth]

It think being that famous is a sort of prison, it'd be awful. And nope I wouldn't marry a royal.

[joeysteele]

I would hate to be a Royal.

If the act the snob, they are talked of as being out of touch with ordinary people, if they do things like party and get drunk or make mistakes then they are a disgrace and should know how to act better.

I think their lives must be very restrictive and the way the media pounce on every little thing is really daft now.

I would hate the pressures of being a Royal,much prefer doing my own thing,something they cannot.

[Claymores]

Originally Posted by joeysteele

I would hate to be a Royal.

If the act the snob, they are talked of as being out of touch with ordinary people, if they do things like party and get drunk or make mistakes then they are a disgrace and should know how to act better.

I think their lives must be very restrictive and the way the media pounce on every little thing is really daft now.

I would hate the pressures of being a Royal,much prefer doing my own thing,something they cannot.

I wouldn't mind the dosh or not really having to work for a living - I'd swap the pressure for theirs

[Niamh.]

boo hoo. He has it hard.

[Kerry]

I'm feeling more for Kate....

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by ~Kerry~

I'm feeling more for Kate....

yeah..............poor Kate.............tough life

[Kerry]

Well, my question was could you handle the pressure.

[Iceman]

she knew what was coming, no sympathy for either. Fair play have your wedding and 2 cakes if you like.....

[Kerry]

Originally Posted by Iceman

she knew what was coming, no sympathy for either. Fair play have your wedding and 2 cakes if you like.....

Again, just asking if people (yourselves) could handle the pressure of it. Yes, I'm perfectly aware they have a privilaged life. Not what my threads about

[Iceman]

Yeah I could, if I'm going to dedicate my life to someone then it shouldn't be a nervous time.... (although me and the ex were going to get married for the hell of it, I dont believe in marriage enough to take it seriously) I only see it as a title at the end of the day. But yeah I do get why he/she could be nervous.....too many prying eyes.

[Kerry]

Originally Posted by Iceman

Yeah I could, if I'm going to dedicate my life to someone then it shouldn't be a nervous time.... (although me and the ex were going to get married for the hell of it, I dont believe in marriage enough to take it seriously) I only see it as a title at the end of the day. But yeah I do get why he/she could be nervous.....too many prying eyes.

Millions. Imagine if you puke right at the altar

[Iceman]

Originally Posted by ~Kerry~

Millions. Imagine if you puke right at the altar

If that was a guarantee Id watch the whole lot.... unfortunately I wont watch a bit of it.... enjoy your day off though.

[Kerry]

Originally Posted by Iceman

If that was a guarantee Id watch the whole lot.... unfortunately I wont watch a bit of it.... enjoy your day off though.

Not sure I'll be watching myself actually. No doubt catch some of it.

[Iceman]

Originally Posted by ~Kerry~

Not sure I'll be watching myself actually. No doubt catch some of it.

Going away that weekend, climbing a mountain!

[Shasown]

Funny old thing, I dont know anyone who got married and wasnt nervous before the event, anyone who says they werent are probably talking pants.

Its not about mucking up the event. If marriage means anything to the person, its about the ceremony, its about the enormity of the undertaking you are about to make, the commitment, the responsibility.

To me it was would I be able to be what my future wife wanted, worries if I was doing the right thing not just for me but also for her, what would the future bring for us, lets face it before getting married I was quite selfish and took a shedload of risks, could I still continue in the same vain. Was I getting married for the right reasons, was it really the right thing to do at that time, should I have put it off? What habits etc will I have to change(toilet seats, laundry, having the odd chugg while watching loose women or whatever)

All sorts of questions run through a mans mind.

Most men cope with them and do turn up. But we do go through periods of nerves before the ceremony, its only natural. But if you truly love the person and know thats the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, you just crack on and do it.

[Claymores]

Originally Posted by ~Kerry~

Not sure I'll be watching myself actually. No doubt catch some of it.

I'm so old I can remember Charles and Di getting married - we woke-up about 5am and watched Road to Morocco then a Marx Bros film on TV...............then switched the crapola off and went back to sleep to avoid the wedding.

[Iceman]

Originally Posted by Shasown

Funny old thing, I dont know anyone who got married and wasnt nervous before the event, anyone who says they werent are probably talking pants.

Its not about mucking up the event. If marriage means anything to the person, its about the ceremony, its about the enormity of the undertaking you are about to make, the commitment, the responsibility.

To me it was would I be able to be what my future wife wanted, worries if I was doing the right thing not just for me but also for her, what would the future bring for us, lets face it before getting married I was quite selfish and took a shedload of risks, could I still continue in the same vain. Was I getting married for the right reasons, was it really the right thing to do at that time, should I have put it off? What habits etc will I have to change(toilet seats, laundry, having the odd chugg while watching loose women or whatever)

All sorts of questions run through a mans mind.

Most men cope with them and do turn up. But we do go through periods of nerves before the ceremony, its only natural. But if you truly love the person and know thats the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, you just crack on and do it.

See this is the thing with marriage I have a problem with... I dont know if I could commit myself 100% not like cheating or anything but just that I wouldn't be able to match her expectations of what I need to do as a husband.... or what I expect of her as a wife.... (if that makes sense) although I'm only turning 23 this year so I'm still young and hope my views will change....

[Claymores]

Originally Posted by Shasown

Funny old thing, I dont know anyone who got married and wasnt nervous before the event, anyone who says they werent are probably talking pants.

Its not about mucking up the event. If marriage means anything to the person, its about the ceremony, its about the enormity of the undertaking you are about to make, the commitment, the responsibility.

To me it was would I be able to be what my future wife wanted, worries if I was doing the right thing not just for me but also for her, what would the future bring for us, lets face it before getting married I was quite selfish and took a shedload of risks, could I still continue in the same vain. Was I getting married for the right reasons, was it really the right thing to do at that time, should I have put it off? What habits etc will I have to change(toilet seats, laundry, having the odd chugg while watching loose women or whatever)

All sorts of questions run through a mans mind.

Most men cope with them and do turn up. But we do go through periods of nerves before the ceremony, its only natural. But if you truly love the person and know thats the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, you just crack on and do it.

You've drunk too much and got sentimental el Tel

[Kerry]

I'm not fussed about marriage. No need

[Claymores]

Originally Posted by ~Kerry~

I'm not fussed about marriage. No need

But it's a cause of much pain Kerster - an ex ex ex and her mum went out and bought a white wedding dress for her - time to do a runner I thought immediately from that relationship.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Shasown

Funny old thing, I dont know anyone who got married and wasnt nervous before the event, anyone who says they werent are probably talking pants.

Its not about mucking up the event. If marriage means anything to the person, its about the ceremony, its about the enormity of the undertaking you are about to make, the commitment, the responsibility.

To me it was would I be able to be what my future wife wanted, worries if I was doing the right thing not just for me but also for her, what would the future bring for us, lets face it before getting married I was quite selfish and took a shedload of risks, could I still continue in the same vain. Was I getting married for the right reasons, was it really the right thing to do at that time, should I have put it off? What habits etc will I have to change(toilet seats, laundry, having the odd chugg while watching loose women or whatever)

All sorts of questions run through a mans mind.

Most men cope with them and do turn up. But we do go through periods of nerves before the ceremony, its only natural. But if you truly love the person and know thats the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, you just crack on and do it.

well said Shasown and that should be no different no matter what the stature of the man involved

[Shasown]

Originally Posted by Iceman

See this is the thing with marriage I have a problem with... I dont know if I could commit myself 100% not like cheating or anything but just that I wouldn't be able to match her expectations of what I need to do as a husband.... or what I expect of her as a wife.... (if that makes sense) although I'm only turning 23 this year so I'm still young and hope my views will change....

Thats the thing, women think differently, generally they know you will do okay, or they can change you, before they agree to a wedding.

Unless of course they have a taste for wedding cake, Mind that is easy spotted, That sort of woman doesnt do BJ's.

Originally Posted by Claymores

You've drunk too much and got sentimental el Tel

I am always sentimental mate, a little ole wine drinker me.

Just dont tell anyone I have a rep.

[Kerry]

Originally Posted by Claymores

But it's a cause of much pain Kerster - an ex ex ex and her mum went out and bought a white wedding dress for her - time to do a runner I thought immediately from that relationship.

Good job we're (me and fella) of the same view I'm not saying it'll never happen. Just at present theres really no need. Just silly expense. I have taken his name, lived with him for nearly 17 years and have his child. Buggered if I'm bothered about standing infront of a church/office saying I do

[Iceman]

Originally Posted by ~Kerry~

Good job we're (me and fella) of the same view I'm not saying it'll never happen. Just at present theres really no need. Just silly expense. I have taken his name, lived with him for nearly 17 years and have his child. Buggered if I'm bothered about standing infront of a church/office saying I do

Way I see it, it's a piece of paper and a reason for a piss up..... I can see why people want it, but I just dont think I could/would do it..... I turned down being best man for my mate cause I (and him) was so young....