[Conzors]

For three reasons!

1) I had a date tonight, he was texting me throughout the day saying yeah he's still coming and we'll meet in the pub near me at 6pm, at Half 5 he said he was leaving so i make my way to the pub and order us food and a drink like he requested. (it's a pub so you pay at the start of your meal so i paid expecting him to give me half).

6.30 came, the food was on the table and no sight of my date, i rang and texted him and no reply. I knew he was at his phone because he said he was on whatsapp. So here i am with two plates of food, two drinks and me sitting there by myself!

2) The man came over and asked if i was okay, and i said yeah my friend is in the toilet (obv a lie as he was looking at me all night weirdly) and then this was about 6.45 and i started to get really annoyed so i put my phone down hard on the table, but did it on the fork end by accident and didnt know that sauce was on the end of the fork (i had been nibbling the chips whilst i waited) and it went all over my face, causing laughs from the table next to me (who were whispering about my situation)

3) As i was about to get up and go, four people from work walked in and saw two full plates of food and only me, they had a smirk on their face and we just had an awkward stare.

So not only am i £20 down (not a lot, but i live alone every little thing counts), i have to face the humiliation of going into work on Monday knowing that they know i got stood up in the most horrendous way.

So here i am, 2 bottles of wine down, ****ed off my tits and i still feel like ****, i have never had anything like this happen and the guy still hasnt texted me or phoned or anything.

I need cheering up,
anyone care to help?
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[UPDATE 30/11]
He texted me this morning saying he got mugged last night and that this is his new phone he got from EE this morning.

I PERSONALLY think its a load of ****. I don't want to say -bull****- to him incase its true but now hes saying come over to his as he has a lot of work to do - so im going over there tomorrow but i dont know whether to act angry or okay or whatever.

helppppp

[jackc1806]

Originally Posted by Conzors

For three reasons!

1) I had a date tonight, he was texting me throughout the day saying yeah he's still coming and we'll meet in the pub near me at 6pm, at Half 5 he said he was leaving so i make my way to the pub and order us food and a drink like he requested. (it's a pub so you pay at the start of your meal so i paid expecting him to give me half).

6.30 came, the food was on the table and no sight of my date, i rang and texted him and no reply. I knew he was at his phone because he said he was on whatsapp. So here i am with two plates of food, two drinks and me sitting there by myself!

2) The man came over and asked if i was okay, and i said yeah my friend is in the toilet (obv a lie as he was looking at me all night weirdly) and then this was about 6.45 and i started to get really annoyed so i put my phone down hard on the table, but did it on the fork end by accident and didnt know that sauce was on the end of the fork (i had been nibbling the chips whilst i waited) and it went all over my face, causing laughs from the table next to me (who were whispering about my situation)

3) As i was about to get up and go, four people from work walked in and saw two full plates of food and only me, they had a smirk on their face and we just had an awkward stare.

So not only am i £20 down (not a lot, but i live alone every little thing counts), i have to face the humiliation of going into work on Monday knowing that they know i got stood up in the most horrendous way.

So here i am, 2 bottles of wine down, ****ed off my tits and i still feel like ****, i have never had anything like this happen and the guy still hasnt texted me or phoned or anything.

I need cheering up,
anyone care to help?
xxxxxxxx

Aww no, that's terrible Hope you are okay

[Drew.]

oh no its Locke/Mollie part 2

Sorry you're evening didnt go to plan though

[Jake.]

What a **** evening you've had, has he text you since then?

[Lee.]

If you feel the need to explain to your colleagues, you could just say that unfortunately your friend got called away in an emergency just as the food arrived..

Don't dwell on it too much though.. He obviously wasn't worth it! Send him a bill for £20!

[Conzors]

Thanks Drew.
Thanks Jack -hug-

And no Jake, he hasn't - and hes been on fb and everything SO ANNOYED. actually im not annoyed more upset and stupiddd.

[Conzors]

Originally Posted by Lee.

If you feel the need to explain to your colleagues, you could just say that unfortunately your friend got called away in an emergency just as the food arrived..

Don't dwell on it too much though.. He obviously wasn't worth it! Send him a bill for £20!

Normally i'd just tell them the truth and it;d be fine but im their manager so its even more embarassing as im this authority figure at work and for this to happen they wont even take me seriosuly!

[MTVN]

Hard luck, everyones worst nightmare

[fingers]

Wot a BASTARD!

[Glenn.]

Get yourself on pornhub

[T*]

Aww, so sorry to hear that

[GypsyGoth]

Aww, what a ****ty thing to do, that guy isn't worth wasting any more energy on

[jackc1806]

Originally Posted by Glenn

Get yourself on pornhub

Top advice Glenn

[fingers]

Make sure that he reimburses you the FULL £20 then dump him!

[Kizzy]

I agree what a twunt!
His loss, you're stunning so no seond chances...he blew it.
Step away from the wine you'll just feel worse and hungover tomorrow sweets
I agree with lee about the emergency thing, mind you it's none of their business.

[Conzors]

Originally Posted by Kizzy

I agree what a twunt!
His loss, you're stunning so no seond chances...he blew it.
Step away from the wine you'll just feel worse and hungover tomorrow sweets
I agree with lee about the emergency thing, mind you it's none of their business.

thanks, i've just never felt like this before, its so weird and i dont wanna leave!

Originally Posted by fingers

Make sure that he reimburses you the FULL £20 then dump him!

i dont even think hell talk to me let alone give me money back.

Originally Posted by GypsyGoth

Aww, what a ****ty thing to do, that guy isn't worth wasting any more energy on

i know but i dunno why he did it!

Originally Posted by Cuda

Aww, so sorry to hear that

thanks x

[Glenn.]

Originally Posted by jackc1806

Top advice Glenn

I'm useful for some thing I guess

[Ammi]

..Conzors....if he’s dumb enough to do that to someone like you then the only excuses that you need to make are for him and his stupidity...

..don’t be deflated..
..someone like that..
..don’t deserve to be dated...
..or roughly translated...
..he’s a cretin....



..no more time wasted...



......

[fingers]

It beggars belief that he TOLD you to order half an hour before, apparently, he intended to stand you up. You shouldn't feel in any way stupid or humiliated, you should feel unadulterated rage.

[Conzors]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..Conzors....if he’s dumb enough to do that to someone like you then the only excuses that you need to make are for him and his stupidity...

..don’t be deflated..
..someone like that..
..don’t deserve to be dated...
..or roughly translated...
..he’s a cretin....



..no more time wasted...



......

Originally Posted by fingers

It beggars belief that he TOLD you to order half an hour before, apparently, he intended to stand you up. You shouldn't feel in any way stupid or humiliated, you should feel unadulterated rage.

You both are cute and have made me feel slightly better.
Much Love.
xxxx

[Glenn.]

That is awful news

[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

**** him, his loss.

Re-your workmates. Beat them to it and Just make fun of yourself with this on Monday "so yeah..that was pretty funny hhahaha getting stood up is always hilarious." etc, they can only laugh along or give it a rest and move on.

[Conzors]

Originally Posted by Ithinkiloveyoutoo

**** him, his loss.

Re-your workmates. Beat them to it and Just make fun of yourself with this on Monday "so yeah..that was pretty funny hhahaha getting stood up is always hilarious." etc, they can only laugh along or give it a rest and move on.

Meh i might just leave it and see if they say anything.
Thanks i appreciate it.
x

[Glenn.]

Pornmd conzors. PORNMD!

It's like a porn google

[Ithinkiloveyoutoo]

Originally Posted by Conzors

Meh i might just leave it and see if they say anything.
Thanks i appreciate it.
x

you have nothing to be ashamed of. It's part of life man, unfortunately. He wasn't the one and you prob had a lucky escape.