Home Menu

Site Navigation


Notices

Serious Debates & News Debate and discussion about political, moral, philosophical, celebrity and news topics.

Register to reply Log in to reply
 
Thread Tools Search this Thread Display Modes
Old 23-04-2014, 07:24 AM #1
lily.'s Avatar
lily. lily. is offline
Gatorade me, Bitch!
 
Join Date: Jun 2005
Posts: 20,351


lily. lily. is offline
Gatorade me, Bitch!
lily.'s Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2005
Posts: 20,351


Default What would you decide?

You wake up in hospital to be told you have been in a car accident and you have a broken neck. There's nothing more the doctors can do, so you'll spend the rest of your life paralysed from the neck down. The doctors have inserted a breathing tube and will have to put in a permanent one. They ask you if you'd like the breathing tube removed (meaning that you will die).

What is your decision? Do you choose to end your life at that moment, or do you continue on knowing how your life will be limited from that point onwards?
__________________
'Smoking marijuana, eating cheetos, and masturbating do not constitute plans in my book.'
lily. is offline  
Old 23-04-2014, 07:34 AM #2
Kate!'s Avatar
Kate! Kate! is offline
IntoxiKated
 
Join Date: Aug 2009
Location: Wigan baby yeah!
Posts: 35,164

Favourites (more):
BB2024: Ali
BB2023: Henry


Kate! Kate! is offline
IntoxiKated
Kate!'s Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2009
Location: Wigan baby yeah!
Posts: 35,164

Favourites (more):
BB2024: Ali
BB2023: Henry


Default

It's impossible to say 100% how I'd feel tbh, can only answer hypothetically that I'm as sure as I can be that I'd want to live.
__________________
Kate! is offline  
Old 23-04-2014, 07:45 AM #3
Jessica. Jessica. is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Sep 2009
Location: Portugal
Posts: 24,830


Jessica. Jessica. is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Sep 2009
Location: Portugal
Posts: 24,830


Default

I think I would probably let myself live and hope for some kind of new technology which would improve my quality of life.
__________________
Jessica. is offline  
Old 23-04-2014, 07:47 AM #4
Locke.'s Avatar
Locke. Locke. is offline
Locke.
 
Join Date: Jun 2008
Posts: 50,795

Favourites (more):
BB2023: Noky
CBB20: Paul Danan


Locke. Locke. is offline
Locke.
Locke.'s Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2008
Posts: 50,795

Favourites (more):
BB2023: Noky
CBB20: Paul Danan


Default

What a lovely dilemma to think over whilst eating my breakfast first thing in the morning
Locke. is offline  
Old 23-04-2014, 08:00 AM #5
Crimson Dynamo's Avatar
Crimson Dynamo Crimson Dynamo is offline
The voice of reason
 
Join Date: Oct 2009
Posts: 104,564


Crimson Dynamo Crimson Dynamo is offline
The voice of reason
Crimson Dynamo's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2009
Posts: 104,564


Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Locke. View Post
What a lovely dilemma to think over whilst eating my breakfast first thing in the morning
You beat me to it
Crimson Dynamo is offline  
Old 23-04-2014, 08:01 AM #6
lily.'s Avatar
lily. lily. is offline
Gatorade me, Bitch!
 
Join Date: Jun 2005
Posts: 20,351


lily. lily. is offline
Gatorade me, Bitch!
lily.'s Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2005
Posts: 20,351


Default

Gotta get in early with the life-changing decisions guys..
__________________
'Smoking marijuana, eating cheetos, and masturbating do not constitute plans in my book.'
lily. is offline  
Old 23-04-2014, 09:24 AM #7
smudgie's Avatar
smudgie smudgie is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jun 2010
Location: God's own Country
Posts: 25,433

Favourites:
BB18: Raph
X Factor 2013: Abi Alton


smudgie smudgie is offline
Senior Member
smudgie's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2010
Location: God's own Country
Posts: 25,433

Favourites:
BB18: Raph
X Factor 2013: Abi Alton


Default

Tell them to take the tube out.
After I say goodbye to the family.
smudgie is offline  
Old 23-04-2014, 09:31 AM #8
MTVN's Avatar
MTVN MTVN is offline
All hail the Moyesiah
 
Join Date: Jul 2010
Location: West Country
Posts: 59,493

Favourites (more):
BB2023: Noky
BB19: Lewis G


MTVN MTVN is offline
All hail the Moyesiah
MTVN's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2010
Location: West Country
Posts: 59,493

Favourites (more):
BB2023: Noky
BB19: Lewis G


Default

I would leave the tube in and spend all my days just grateful to be alive and try to live my life to the fullest

Or I would just stay inside all day every day watching daytime tv
MTVN is offline  
Old 23-04-2014, 09:39 AM #9
Livia's Avatar
Livia Livia is offline
Flag shagger.
 
Join Date: Jun 2010
Location: Brasov, Transylvania
Posts: 34,334


Livia Livia is offline
Flag shagger.
Livia's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2010
Location: Brasov, Transylvania
Posts: 34,334


Default

I'd have the tube removed. Without a doubt.
Livia is offline  
Old 23-04-2014, 10:26 AM #10
lily.'s Avatar
lily. lily. is offline
Gatorade me, Bitch!
 
Join Date: Jun 2005
Posts: 20,351


lily. lily. is offline
Gatorade me, Bitch!
lily.'s Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2005
Posts: 20,351


Default

It came up on a recent episode of Grey's Anatomy. That was my inspiration for the thread. But, I did ponder over it for a while after the episode.

I can't help thinking that I would be a massive burden on my family if they had to take care of me with that much paralysis. I wouldn't want that for them. So for the most part, my decision would be based on that fact.

Of course I don't want to die, and I want to see my children grow up etc., but at what cost? There comes a point in your life where it's no longer a life, but merely an existence. For me, this may be that point, in which case I would want to remove the tube.
__________________
'Smoking marijuana, eating cheetos, and masturbating do not constitute plans in my book.'
lily. is offline  
Old 23-04-2014, 10:32 AM #11
Cherie's Avatar
Cherie Cherie is offline
This Witch doesn't burn
 
Join Date: Oct 2011
Posts: 67,239

Favourites (more):
Strictly 2020: Bill Bailey
BB19: Sian


Cherie Cherie is offline
This Witch doesn't burn
Cherie's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2011
Posts: 67,239

Favourites (more):
Strictly 2020: Bill Bailey
BB19: Sian


Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by MTVN View Post
I would leave the tube in and spend all my days just grateful to be alive and try to live my life to the fullest

Or I would just stay inside all day every day watching daytime tv



I suppose you would hardly notice the different in your lifestyle really.
__________________
'put a bit of lippy on and run a brush through your hair, we are alcoholics, not savages'

Quote:
Originally Posted by Beso
Livelier than Izaaz, and hes got 2 feet.
Cherie is offline  
Old 23-04-2014, 10:32 AM #12
Black Dagger's Avatar
Black Dagger Black Dagger is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jan 2011
Location: Stockport, England
Posts: 44,991

Favourites (more):
BB2024: Ali
CBB2024: Louis Walsh


Black Dagger Black Dagger is offline
Senior Member
Black Dagger's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2011
Location: Stockport, England
Posts: 44,991

Favourites (more):
BB2024: Ali
CBB2024: Louis Walsh


Default

I don't think I'd truly feel the value of life after such an accident (I know many disabled people can) but I don't think I'd have the mental aptitude to carry on.
Black Dagger is offline  
Old 23-04-2014, 10:54 AM #13
Jay.'s Avatar
Jay. Jay. is offline
x
 
Join Date: Apr 2014
Posts: 6,631

Favourites:
CBB21: Shane Jenek


Jay. Jay. is offline
x
Jay.'s Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2014
Posts: 6,631

Favourites:
CBB21: Shane Jenek


Default

I would probably tell them to keep the tube in and regret it after, once I realise how bored I'd be. Although, I'd get to watch soooo many box sets... but I do that anyway. I'd probably end up asking them to get rid of the tube.
__________________




Jay. is offline  
Old 23-04-2014, 10:57 AM #14
mizzy25's Avatar
mizzy25 mizzy25 is offline
mizzy25
 
Join Date: Jun 2008
Posts: 4,576


mizzy25 mizzy25 is offline
mizzy25
mizzy25's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2008
Posts: 4,576


Default

Id have the tube removed and die, then my body would go to medical science.
mizzy25 is offline  
Old 23-04-2014, 11:29 AM #15
Ammi's Avatar
Ammi Ammi is offline
Quand il pleut, il pleut
 
Join Date: Aug 2009
Posts: 76,909


Ammi Ammi is offline
Quand il pleut, il pleut
Ammi's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2009
Posts: 76,909


Default

..I think I would definitely want it removed because being like that and knowing how my family would be affected and how their lives would also change would be unbearable..but I would hope that I wasn't asked for that decision when I woke up though, because I don't think that would be the time to make it/it would take time for everything to 'sink in', not just for me but for my whole family and friends etc and I think it's something that you would all have to talk about and come to terms with so I wouldn't want to make the decision for say a month or so and just make sure I could talk to the people I love first...
__________________
Ammi is offline  
Old 23-04-2014, 11:30 AM #16
anne666's Avatar
anne666 anne666 is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jun 2013
Location: Jersey, Channel Islands
Posts: 1,912
anne666 anne666 is offline
Senior Member
anne666's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2013
Location: Jersey, Channel Islands
Posts: 1,912
Default

No question. Remove the tube.
__________________
anne666 is offline  
Old 23-04-2014, 02:40 PM #17
Z's Avatar
Z Z is offline
Z
 
Join Date: Jun 2005
Posts: 23,560


Z Z is offline
Z
Z's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2005
Posts: 23,560


Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by L View Post
You wake up in hospital to be told you have been in a car accident and you have a broken neck. There's nothing more the doctors can do, so you'll spend the rest of your life paralysed from the neck down. The doctors have inserted a breathing tube and will have to put in a permanent one. They ask you if you'd like the breathing tube removed (meaning that you will die).

What is your decision? Do you choose to end your life at that moment, or do you continue on knowing how your life will be limited from that point onwards?
I would want to die.
Z is offline  
Old 23-04-2014, 02:42 PM #18
Jords's Avatar
Jords Jords is offline
Focus
 
Join Date: Aug 2009
Location: Cambs/Lincs
Posts: 48,859

Favourites (more):
CBB21: Ann Widdecombe
DOI 2018: Kem Cetinay


Jords Jords is offline
Focus
Jords's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2009
Location: Cambs/Lincs
Posts: 48,859

Favourites (more):
CBB21: Ann Widdecombe
DOI 2018: Kem Cetinay


Default

die
__________________


Jords is offline  
Old 23-04-2014, 03:03 PM #19
Shaun's Avatar
Shaun Shaun is offline
Ż\_(ツ)_/Ż
 
Join Date: May 2007
Posts: 106,509

Favourites (more):
CBB2025: Donna Preston
BB2024: Ali


Shaun Shaun is offline
Ż\_(ツ)_/Ż
Shaun's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2007
Posts: 106,509

Favourites (more):
CBB2025: Donna Preston
BB2024: Ali


Default

I'd stay alive for a while, just because I think it'd be selfish and a bit of a cop-out to die straight away. Assuming I can speak (from the hypothesis) I could still communicate with people... I don't think I'd like to be a burden for long, though.
__________________
Spoiler:

Quote:
Originally Posted by Saph View Post
You're giving me a million reasons about a million reasons

Quote:
Originally Posted by Amy Jade View Post
I love just watching fishtanks its theraputic
Quote:
Originally Posted by T* View Post
Vaginas emit a toxic goop known as marsh repellent
Quote:
Originally Posted by Black Dagger View Post
I wash my hands with you Ammi. YOU DISGRACE.
Shaun is offline  
Old 23-04-2014, 03:12 PM #20
Samm Samm is offline
we
 
Join Date: Jan 2013
Posts: 29,474

Favourites:
BB7: Jayne


Samm Samm is offline
we
 
Join Date: Jan 2013
Posts: 29,474

Favourites:
BB7: Jayne


Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Jessica‪ View Post
new technology which would improve my quality of life.
This.
Samm is offline  
Old 23-04-2014, 03:23 PM #21
Z's Avatar
Z Z is offline
Z
 
Join Date: Jun 2005
Posts: 23,560


Z Z is offline
Z
Z's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2005
Posts: 23,560


Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Shaun View Post
I'd stay alive for a while, just because I think it'd be selfish and a bit of a cop-out to die straight away. Assuming I can speak (from the hypothesis) I could still communicate with people... I don't think I'd like to be a burden for long, though.
I don't think I could cope with not being able to move or even breathe of my own accord, I would be grossed out by my own existence and I would hate the thought of inconveniencing anyone with the condition I was in... I'd just want to go out quietly.
Z is offline  
Old 23-04-2014, 03:53 PM #22
AnnieK's Avatar
AnnieK AnnieK is offline
Senior Member
 
Join Date: Jun 2012
Location: Manchester
Posts: 15,721


AnnieK AnnieK is offline
Senior Member
AnnieK's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2012
Location: Manchester
Posts: 15,721


Default

I would ask for time to say goodbyes and then as much as it would kill me anyway to say those goodbyes ask for the tube to be removed, I would be glad that it was my decision and my loved ones didn't have to make the decision to switch me off and then live with that decision.
__________________
AnnieK is offline  
Old 23-04-2014, 04:13 PM #23
Crimson Dynamo's Avatar
Crimson Dynamo Crimson Dynamo is offline
The voice of reason
 
Join Date: Oct 2009
Posts: 104,564


Crimson Dynamo Crimson Dynamo is offline
The voice of reason
Crimson Dynamo's Avatar
 
Join Date: Oct 2009
Posts: 104,564


Default

How are we doing today?

any improvement?
Crimson Dynamo is offline  
Old 23-04-2014, 04:16 PM #24
GypsyGoth's Avatar
GypsyGoth GypsyGoth is offline
filthy mudblood
 
Join Date: Jul 2009
Location: that bitch caitlin's place
Posts: 50,183

Favourites (more):
BB16: Amy & Sally
X Factor 2014: Only The Young


GypsyGoth GypsyGoth is offline
filthy mudblood
GypsyGoth's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2009
Location: that bitch caitlin's place
Posts: 50,183

Favourites (more):
BB16: Amy & Sally
X Factor 2014: Only The Young


Default

I would keep living. Things like brain transplants are prob only about a decade away, I think I could wait that long to get a new body.
__________________
::::: i would give all this and heaven too :::::
GypsyGoth is offline  
Old 23-04-2014, 05:34 PM #25
lily.'s Avatar
lily. lily. is offline
Gatorade me, Bitch!
 
Join Date: Jun 2005
Posts: 20,351


lily. lily. is offline
Gatorade me, Bitch!
lily.'s Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2005
Posts: 20,351


Default

It's not the brain though.. it's the spinal cord..
__________________
'Smoking marijuana, eating cheetos, and masturbating do not constitute plans in my book.'
lily. is offline  
Register to reply Log in to reply

Bookmark/share this topic

Tags
decide


Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off

Forum Jump


All times are GMT. The time now is 01:20 PM.

Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.11
Copyright ©2000 - 2025, vBulletin Solutions Inc.
User Alert System provided by Advanced User Tagging (Pro) - vBulletin Mods & Addons Copyright © 2025 DragonByte Technologies Ltd.
 

About Us ThisisBigBrother.com

"Big Brother and UK Television Forum. Est. 2001"

 

© 2023
no new posts