[Ammi]

..(inspired by Shaun..)..

..Danielle thinks that it's ok for guys to cheat etc because it's just in their 'make-up' and also if their partner was 100%, then they wouldn't want to so it would basically be the partner's fault for not being 'up to scratch' if they did cheat...and Marlon objectifies females and doesn't show them a lot of respect in the way he talks about them, or at least the ones in the house...who do you think is the bigger misogynist..?...

[Jords]

Did Danielle really say it was ok for guys to cheat? Thought she just said that it was acceptable that they can sleep around but not for women?

Theyre definitely in different places on this spectrum so its not so easy to compare. I think Danielle's beliefs are more rooted in her though compared to Marlon, whom doesnt verbalise them as much. That said I would be more offended by such comments Marlon would make compared to those Danielle would make, the latter in which I would react by stating she has outdated views because of her religion.

[Marsh.]

She said they wouldn't need to cheat if they had a 10/10 woman and it's more forgivable because it's in their DNA.

Then she said when a man talks about sleeping with 9 women, it's fine but she'd be disgusted by a woman saying the same thing.

Basically cliched claptrap she's using to make her persona more believable but she's such a contradiction it's transparent.

[Josy]

Danielle's views are worse and she is using religion as an excuse when we all know she's nowhere near as holy as she would have us believe.

[armand.kay]

I think Marlon is worse because it's how he actually treats women but Danni it's her views and although I think it's awful that she thinks like that but she isn't really affecting anyone else but herself.

[InOne]

She was pissed and chatting ****

[Me. I Am Salman]

I don't think she flat out said it's ok for guys to cheat

[MeMyselfAndI]

Danielle's views scare me, she was also drunk though.

Marlon is worse as he has no respect for women at all, whereas Danielle get's on very well with women & has respect for them

[Shaun]

She didn't say "it's ok", no, but she basically explained that's why it happens.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by armand.kay

I think Marlon is worse because it's how he actually treats women but Danni it's her views and although I think it's awful that she thinks like that but she isn't really affecting anyone else but herself.

We don't know how he treats women though,he was doing what some guys do,think they are being funny and clever in front of other blokes by commenting as he did,on a one to one he's probably very sweet,we don't know,I just think his talk is bloke bravado,it goes on a lot.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

She said they wouldn't need to cheat if they had a 10/10 woman and it's more forgivable because it's in their DNA.
Then she said when a man talks about sleeping with 9 women, it's fine but she'd be disgusted by a woman saying the same thing.

Basically cliched claptrap she's using to make her persona more believable but she's such a contradiction it's transparent.

..yeah, it's basically the same thing though really and putting the blame on the female for not being quite all that enough ...

[MeMyselfAndI]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

We don't know how he treats women though,he was doing what some guys do,think they are being funny and clever in front of other blokes by commenting as he did,on a one to one he's probably very sweet,we don't know,I just think his talk is bloke bravado,it goes on a lot.

All of my friends are guys, and very few of them talk that crude or are that disrespectful. It doesn't justify his behaviour 'other guys talk like it - so it's okay', those are Danielle's views, they shouldn't be the forums as well

[Jords]

If thats the case Id vote Danielle as the bigger misogynist but the occasional comments Marlon comes out with as more offensive. Danielle's are just very outdated because of her upbringing. I like both HMs though.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by MeMyselfAndI

All of my friends are guys, and very few of them talk that crude or are that disrespectful. It doesn't justify his behaviour 'other guys talk like it - so it's okay', those are Danielle's views, they shouldn't be the forums as well

All I'm saying MM&I,some guys talk like that,I didn't say it was right,but they do,walk past any building site etc,and you can hear how some men see women,its just a fact,but most of these men are probably really nice in their own relationships.

[Me. I Am Salman]

Originally Posted by Shaun

She didn't say "it's ok", no, but she basically explained that's why it happens.

exactly this, if she truly believes it's a biological thing I don't see why it's such a problem, and I don't see how it's 'scary' or how it makes danielle a mess. danielle doesn't seem like someone who'd inflict their views on other people and she's been very lovely and likeable.

[MeMyselfAndI]

It kind of is a biological thing, more guys do cheat than girls

[MeMyselfAndI]

omg i better hide bye

[armand.kay]

Originally Posted by Kazanne

We don't know how he treats women though,he was doing what some guys do,think they are being funny and clever in front of other blokes by commenting as he did,on a one to one he's probably very sweet,we don't know,I just think his talk is bloke bravado,it goes on a lot.

I'm not saying Marlon is awful but his comments have offended Kim and would offend allot of other women had he done it to them. Dannielle's believes can only really have an impact on herself.

[smudgie]

She will make some man a lovely doormat one day

[Northern Monkey]

Marlons comments were'nt really a big thing,You should hear how some of your husbands talk with their mates and talk about other women,It's normal.Dannielle has her beliefs and we should respect that,Or she's playing a game.

[Shaun]

Originally Posted by Me. I Am Salman

exactly this, if she truly believes it's a biological thing I don't see why it's such a problem, and I don't see how it's 'scary' or how it makes danielle a mess. danielle doesn't seem like someone who'd inflict their views on other people and she's been very lovely and likeable.

it doesn't really matter how she delivers her views, because ultimately she's suggesting that it's because women aren't good enough that men are allowed to do it. i can see how that's a foggy area because she could of course be speaking from an observer's view but to me she seemed more... at peace with this being a social norm, rather than critical

i mean add it on to the views on divorce/gay marriage and you have a pretty weird cookie

and to throw in a spanner, i don't think anything she's saying is genuine and she's part of this whole Dexter Koh... i'll sell anything to the papers, just tell me what to say... generation. so I don't know what I think about her

[smudgie]

Originally Posted by Shaun

it doesn't really matter how she delivers her views, because ultimately she's suggesting that it's because women aren't good enough that men are allowed to do it. i can see how that's a foggy area because she could of course be speaking from an observer's view but to me she seemed more... at peace with this being a social norm, rather than critical

i mean add it on to the views on divorce/gay marriage and you have a pretty weird cookie

and to throw in a spanner, i don't think anything she's saying is genuine and she's part of this whole Dexter Koh... i'll sell anything to the papers, just tell me what to say... generation. so I don't know what I think about her

Spot on..she is saying what she thinks we will like..deluded bint.

[Achilles]

Cheating is a result of lust and jealousy. To make it a non issue you either remove the lust or remove the jealousy. In my opinion a couple that is full of lust and have an open relationship is much more healthy than a couple that is full of jealousy, especially if one or both also try to hide and suppress their lust.

[smudgie]

Originally Posted by Achilles

Cheating is a result of lust and jealousy. To make it a non issue you either remove the lust or remove the jealousy. In my opinion a couple that is full of lust and have an open relationship is much more healthy than a couple that is full of jealousy, especially if one or both also try to hide and suppress their lust.

Nah, the perfect combination is the couple are full of lust for each other..does still happen.

[smeagol]

it is in mens dna to go out and shag everything in sight. what shes saying is men have no control. women do. so a woman doing it she doesnt like. a man she can understand it.
i think thats pretty fair tbh