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Old 14-07-2019, 02:17 PM #1
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In my opinion I feel like males get portrayed wrongly and unfairly in society saying that males have to be confident, tough , strong, the boss, act like they are the hard man and be cocky.

Me being a male myself I would not say I’m a confident person or athletic , I’d say I’m Someone who has feelings and I get shy and vulnerable

I also feel like with women they get tons of support for opening up about their feelings and they would always have someone to talk to

Where as with males they get laughed at or get told to man up or if someone is straight but don’t like doing things that are considered too ladish they get considered gay or weird and a freak plus I feel like there is very little support and help for guys about opening their feelings

Plus I feel that the media make males come across wrong by being portrayed as cheaters, aggressive etc but from my experience women are just as bad there is no in between they are as bad as each other however I do also find a lot of good males and females out there to

Do others on here agree? And what is your opinion on this?
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Yes..many agreed with those statements way back at the start of the millennium. Are you a bear?
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this feels like ''boo hoo poor men in the victim role'' sob story

i'm a guy myself but i never feel bad for men if they are accused of something


also what i mean is, i would never go play a victim
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this feels like ''boo hoo poor men in the victim role'' sob story

i'm a guy myself but i never feel bad for men if they are accused of something


also what i mean is, i would never go play a victim
I’m not saying men are never in the wrong for things I just feel women get more support and advice when it comes to being insecure and vulnerable where as guys don’t get the same amount of support which I think is wrong everyone should get the same amount of support and advice
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true, but still women first for me
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this feels like ''boo hoo poor men in the victim role'' sob story

i'm a guy myself but i never feel bad for men if they are accused of something


also what i mean is, i would never go play a victim
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what?

i can't speak for everyone ok, but i'm the type of man who isn't gonna cry in public
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i can't speak for everyone ok, but i'm the type of man who isn't gonna cry in public
Nicky you cry when someone tells you you change favourites too much you don’t need to lie
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I’m not saying men are never in the wrong for things I just feel women get more support and advice when it comes to being insecure and vulnerable where as guys don’t get the same amount of support which I think is wrong everyone should get the same amount of support and advice
There is all the support a man would need out there...they just don't chose to take it...and perhaps that's down to what you describe in your op.
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Nicky you cry when someone tells you you change favourites too much you don’t need to lie
this place is a forum, not real life in public

and i change my favourites the many uncountable times as i want myself
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this place is a forum, not real life in public

and i change my favourites the many uncountable times as i want myself
I find people who change thier favourites are more honest and don't blindly support someone just cause they picked them at the start...you be you pal x
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In my opinion I feel like males get portrayed wrongly and unfairly in society saying that males have to be confident, tough , strong, the boss, act like they are the hard man and be cocky.

Me being a male myself I would not say I’m a confident person or athletic , I’d say I’m Someone who has feelings and I get shy and vulnerable

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Where as with males they get laughed at or get told to man up or if someone is straight but don’t like doing things that are considered too ladish they get considered gay or weird and a freak plus I feel like there is very little support and help for guys about opening their feelings

Plus I feel that the media make males come across wrong by being portrayed as cheaters, aggressive etc but from my experience women are just as bad there is no in between they are as bad as each other however I do also find a lot of good males and females out there to

Do others on here agree? And what is your opinion on this?
Owoaje. I totally agree with you.

Its a crying shame that men feel they have to be 'strong' whereas sometimes it takes more strength to actually open up and talk to someone.
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There ain't a single person you've convinced with that lie Nicky. Not a single one.
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Not only that but his mum's tucked him in bed with a bottle of milk.
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