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01-05-2014, 09:07 PM | #1 | ||
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Salman's thread reminded me of this I heard the other day so I thought I may as well post it. It's a really sad but interesting listen
This if nothing else proves that we need to give people like this more support, no wonder so many child sex offences happen when they don't have anyone to talk to about it... Quote:
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01-05-2014, 09:20 PM | #2 | ||
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The one I heard was an Irish man and he was live on the radio, they were talking about the topic and by surprise this guy rang in and gave his side of the story.
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01-05-2014, 09:26 PM | #3 | |||
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Jack I think your empathy could be better used on anyone other than pedophiles.
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01-05-2014, 09:26 PM | #4 | |||
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01-05-2014, 09:31 PM | #5 | |||
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01-05-2014, 09:26 PM | #6 | ||
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This kinda comes across as justifying these people acting on their urges tbh.
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01-05-2014, 09:27 PM | #7 | ||
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It's a weird topic but I guess it must be hard because you can't talk to anybody about it
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01-05-2014, 09:32 PM | #8 | |||
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I've always wondered how bad it must be for people to realise they are sexually attracted to young children. I'm sure if they had a choice most would much rather pick a different sexuality.
Fair play to those who go through life without acting on those desires. I try to think about it as being a person that can't act on my heterosexuality. It would be a tough life. |
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01-05-2014, 09:33 PM | #9 | |||
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01-05-2014, 10:46 PM | #10 | |||
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It must be hell to repulse yourself and know your feeling and emotions are illegal. I feel this should be treated like a mental health issue, voluntary chemical castration perhaps to remove the pain of attraction?
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01-05-2014, 10:52 PM | #11 | ||
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I don't think that would even slightly make a difference, they would still have the ability to abuse via other means. It wouldn't remove the attraction or impulses either.
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01-05-2014, 10:59 PM | #12 | |||
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Are you sure about that, How else would they ? why the face palm and the headscratching? Just discuss the topic without the patronising please.
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01-05-2014, 11:00 PM | #13 | |||
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I think so long as society on the whole is ready to openly accept people who put their hands up and say they have these urges or feelings or whatever and want help without the response of 'string the bastards up by the short and curlies ' then we are heading in the right direction. Not sure where I stand on chemical castration. Not a topic I've really given much thought about tbh Kizz. Last edited by Kyle; 01-05-2014 at 11:02 PM. |
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01-05-2014, 09:30 PM | #14 | |||
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So is it the suggestion that it's society's fault that these people can't talk openly about their disgusting urges?
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01-05-2014, 09:37 PM | #15 | ||
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I take it none of you listened then *sigh*
All of the things you're saying or accusing me of would be to assume that every paedophile acts on their urges (attractions which, by the way, cannot be helped - much like being gay/straight/bi etc you don't choose your sexual attractions - who would choose to be attracted to children?) which just simply isn't true and this is exactly the point of this interview in the first place. It's such a taboo topic, one that inevitably if you raise you're going to be looked down upon for or judged and people involved in it are obviously going to be shunned immediately without even being given a chance to give their side of the story. I have absolutely no sympathy for people that abuse children, I'm not surprised people have jumped to that conclusion though. But do I have sympathy for people who have to live out their lives knowing they are attracted to people they shouldn't be, knowing they cannot and should not do anything about it because it's illegal and feeling totally disgusted with themselves? Yes, because what kind of life is that to live? It's not a choice they've made, that's just how they are. And the longer we continue to just forget this subject exists, and the longer we just listen to screams of 'kill them all!!!!' whilst forgetting there are actually people out there with these kind of attractions that are disgusted with themselves and would never even consider abusing a child, the longer some of them are going to end up giving into temptation, and that isn't a good thing for the sake of children. I'm not blaming society at all, but just ignoring this problem doesn't help matters, most of all the children that'd eventually be involved. |
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01-05-2014, 09:47 PM | #16 | |||
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01-05-2014, 09:50 PM | #17 | ||
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Just because you aren't born like it doesn't mean it's a choice. It's a nature vs nurture debate (one that I have conflicting opinions on myself), but the latter still doesn't make it a choice
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01-05-2014, 09:53 PM | #18 | |||
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No but if it is nurture then it means it can be 'unlearned' which sexuality can't be, and would mean that its better to devote efforts to that than to trying to normalise it
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01-05-2014, 09:48 PM | #19 | |||
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01-05-2014, 09:55 PM | #20 | ||
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Who mentioned normalising it?
Jack is talking about helping them, not justifying their feelings or actions. |
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01-05-2014, 09:58 PM | #21 | |||
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01-05-2014, 10:00 PM | #22 | |||
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It's not a great leap from trying to remove the stigma to normalising it, I don't mean normalise it in the sense of making the act socially acceptable (obviously), I mean normalise in accepting it as an innate behaviour and thus something that should be accepted as impossible to change, when that might not necessarily be the case
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01-05-2014, 09:59 PM | #23 | |||
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His blood is bad.
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therapist sounds like an absolute bitch
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01-05-2014, 09:59 PM | #24 | ||
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To be fair I'd have had a worse reaction than her.
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01-05-2014, 10:04 PM | #25 | ||
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The whole point of this topic is that people like this exist in society whether we like it or not, if it was acceptable for them to get help then they would be less of a danger to society. I firmly believe that nobody can choose who they are attracted to, but obviously anyone can control their actions. I wouldn't praise a paedophile for keeping their hands off kids because it is common knowledge that children can't give consent. The ones who act on their urges are disgusting abominations who don't deserve any forgiveness or respect.
Take this as an example. (a) An adult man is attracted to women, does that mean he will abuse a woman? (b) An adult man is attracted to children, does that mean he will abuse a child? Imagine (a) goes out and abuses a 25 year old woman, does a few years in prison, deals with all of the repercussions and is able to get out and live the rest of his life after ruining the life of that woman whom he abused. If (b) goes his whole life avoiding children, only going out at night, not socialising, keeping away from his family members, not having any children of his own, essentially never laying a finger on a child, people in this day and age would think of him as more of a threat to society than (a).
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