[jamiewordsley]

Tonight's episode when Anamélia was in the kitchen not even speaking to him he was full on shaking with anger it made me uncomfortable I fully believe if she pushed hes buttons anymore he could physically lose it with her.

[armand.kay]

he seems a tad unhinged

[Mystic Mock]

I think that Lewis F overreacted last night and I think that he has an ego (like most BB Housemates do) but I do not think that he would physically hurt her or anyone in that house, I just think that he is getting carried away with how much that he dislikes her.

[jamiewordsley]

Originally Posted by Mystic Mock

I think that Lewis F overreacted last night and I think that he has an ego (like most BB Housemates do) but I do not think that he would physically hurt her or anyone in that house, I just think that he is getting carried away with how much that he dislikes her.

Fair enough but its gonna get him in to trouble hes gonna be seen in a negative way.

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by jamiewordsley

Fair enough but its gonna get him in to trouble hes gonna be seen in a negative way.

He just needs to calm down , he's getting paranoid & miserable aswell . I don't get any violent vibes from him . Even if he has issues i doubt it's anywhere as bad as that .

[Mystic Mock]

Originally Posted by jamiewordsley

Fair enough but its gonna get him in to trouble hes gonna be seen in a negative way.

Oh I agree with you on that.

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by jamiewordsley

Tonight's episode when Anamélia was in the kitchen not even speaking to him he was full on shaking with anger it made me uncomfortable I fully believe if she pushed hes buttons anymore he could physically lose it with her.

I think he's just emotionally drained and he's letting Ana get to him too much . It's a bit OTT to think he'd attack someone , if anything John James BB11 had those vibes . I think Lewis F is just easily wound up and he's fed up of her .

[crashandburn]

Why does the thread title have to be "with a woman".

Surely any of us can lose it with anyone if we are pushed far enough?

I don't believe at all that he would be violent with Ana or anyone else over a situation like the current one. He was shaken up because he is sensitive to vibes and she had literally been itching for a fight all day? Did you HEAR the way she was carrying on in the garden?

I know how it feels because I grew up in a house with a volatile character and trust me you learn very quickly how to pick up on vibes and sense when something is about to kick off.

I don't believe he was shaking with anger, he was just a nervous wreck by that point. He needs to find a way to stop letting her bug him but as I said from my own experience I know how hard this is when you're sensitive to vibes and you have someone literally itching to pick a fight with you.

[jamiewordsley]

Originally Posted by crashandburn

Why does the thread title have to be "with a woman".

Surely any of us can lose it with anyone if we are pushed far enough?

I don't believe at all that he would be violent with Ana or anyone else. He was shaken up because he is sensitive to vibes and she had literally been itching for a fight all day? Did you HEAR the way she was carrying on in the garden?

I know how it feels because I grew up in a house with a volatile character and trust me you learn very quickly how to pick up on vibes and sense when something is about to kick off.

I don't believe he was shaking with anger, he was just a nervous wreck by that point. He needs to find a way to stop letting her bug him but as I said from my own experience I know how hard this is when you're sensitive to vibes and you have someone literally itching to pick a fight with you.

Im talking about In a relationship also thats why I said woman. Well then he needs to sort out hes own issues cause you went in a house knowing fully well you gonna meet people all different and if he cant handle that get out of the kitchen hunny If he can be so easily wound up and let someone get to him so much I fear for anyone who he dates,

[jamiewordsley]

Originally Posted by crashandburn

Why does the thread title have to be "with a woman".

Surely any of us can lose it with anyone if we are pushed far enough?

I don't believe at all that he would be violent with Ana or anyone else over a situation like the current one. He was shaken up because he is sensitive to vibes and she had literally been itching for a fight all day? Did you HEAR the way she was carrying on in the garden?

I know how it feels because I grew up in a house with a volatile character and trust me you learn very quickly how to pick up on vibes and sense when something is about to kick off.

I don't believe he was shaking with anger, he was just a nervous wreck by that point. He needs to find a way to stop letting her bug him but as I said from my own experience I know how hard this is when you're sensitive to vibes and you have someone literally itching to pick a fight with you.

And also If anyone should be getting angry and annoyed with someone then it should be Anamelia with Lewis G as all he does is Goad her singing her name and **** like he wants her reaction. its disgusting

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by jamiewordsley

And also If anyone should be getting angry and annoyed with someone then it should be Anamelia with Lewis G as all he does is Goad her singing her name and **** like he wants her reaction. its disgusting

Are you being serious , Ana was the one being loud from the beginning singing her own name constantly . She's narcissistic and is in love with herself . But when Lewis G does it then she doesn't like it . She wants the attention but when it suits her ! .

[crashandburn]

Originally Posted by jamiewordsley

And also If anyone should be getting angry and annoyed with someone then it should be Anamelia with Lewis G as all he does is Goad her singing her name and **** like he wants her reaction. its disgusting

Like Goldheart said a couple of posts up.

Literally minutes earlier, some of the girls were singing her name in the garden and she was LOVING it (primarily because she knew it was riling Lewis F).

then Lewis G does it and suddenly it's not acceptable lol.

[GoldHeart]

Originally Posted by crashandburn

Like Goldheart said a couple of posts up.

Literally minutes earlier, some of the girls were singing her name in the garden and she was LOVING it (primarily because she knew it was riling Lewis F).

then Lewis G does it and suddenly it's not acceptable lol.

[armand.kay]

Originally Posted by crashandburn

Like Goldheart said a couple of posts up.

Literally minutes earlier, some of the girls were singing her name in the garden and she was LOVING it (primarily because she knew it was riling Lewis F).

then Lewis G does it and suddenly it's not acceptable lol.

if you're drinking having a good time and people are singing your name you're gonna play up to it not be like 'oh guys actually could you stop you might trigger the convict'...

[jamiewordsley]

Originally Posted by armand.kay

if you're drinking having a good time and people are singing your name you're gonna play up to it not be like 'oh guys actually could you stop you might trigger the convict'...

EXACTLY but when Lewis G does it its not from a good place hes doing it to get to her and goad her end off

[jamiewordsley]

Originally Posted by crashandburn

Like Goldheart said a couple of posts up.

Literally minutes earlier, some of the girls were singing her name in the garden and she was LOVING it (primarily because she knew it was riling Lewis F).

then Lewis G does it and suddenly it's not acceptable lol.

Oh come on you cant tell me its the same Hes doing it to piss her off they are doing it cause they like her.

[armand.kay]

Anamelia wasn't even doing anything tonight, the girl was just having a laugh with everyone else and lewis was acting like a ****ing freak. he was so mad for literally no reason and even randomly had a go at Kay

[crashandburn]

Originally Posted by armand.kay

Anamelia wasn't even doing anything tonight, the girl was just having a laugh with everyone else and lewis was acting like a ****ing freak. he was so mad for literally no reason and even randomly had a go at Kay

Oh she was doing stuff. She was itching for a fight all day, randomly shouting things in his direction in the garden, even arguing with herself, just generally throwing bad vibes his way. She then reveled in the fact that he didn't feel comfortable being in the same room as her, after she'd made it so uncomfortable for him.

She's very subtle and sly, so I'm not surprised a lot of people are missing it. But as someone who's been in this situation, trust me she IS doing stuff.

[armand.kay]

Originally Posted by crashandburn

Oh she was doing stuff. She was itching for a fight all day, randomly shouting things in his direction in the garden, even arguing with herself, just generally throwing bad vibes his way. She then reveled in the fact that he didn't feel comfortable being in the same room as her, after she'd made it so uncomfortable for him.

She's very subtle and sly, so I'm not surprised a lot of people are missing it. But as someone who's been in this situation, trust me she IS doing stuff.

She was just having her monologue moment and it was messy af but she wasn't addressing ANYONE and what she was saying was so vague that only someone who wanted to take offence wold. Even lewis himself was like 'is she arguing with herself?' so there was no way he thought any of that was directed at him. In the evening sis was laughing and drinking with the rest and Lewis was in the garden pressed. Even the other housemates were telling him to chill the **** out. I'm sorry I could never be that mad over someone not directly bothering me thats just ****ing crazy to me.

[crashandburn]

Originally Posted by armand.kay

was like 'is she arguing with herself?' so there was no way he thought any of that was directed at him

You obviously need to look up the words "subtle" and "sly" which is what I was trying to explain in the post this was in reply to they mean pretty much the opposite of "direct".

Oh she knew what she was doing.

[armand.kay]

Originally Posted by crashandburn

You obviously need to look up the words "subtle" and "sly" which is what I was trying to explain in the post this was in reply to they mean pretty much the opposite of "direct".

Oh she knew what she was doing.

I know what they mean if not a ****ing moron. I just don't agree with you. I don't think Anamelia was directing her rant at anybody subtly or not and I also don't believe that Lewis thought they were being directed at him in anyway. I think is just a control freak who just lost in the evening when he realised everyone wasn't anti Ana like he has thought they were during the day.

[armand.kay]

Lewis even snapped at Kay. WTF did Kay do to him? Was she itching for a fight all day too? in his VT when he was talking about his past I was like 'what no way him??" but tonight the arsonist JUMPED out of him.

[armand.kay]

Also I found it a bit self obsessed that he actually convinced himself that everyone else had come together and agreed to sing his name just to piss him off. YIKES, are you really telling me this is normal???

[crashandburn]

Fair enough.

As someone who had to endure a lot of years being forced to live with someone exactly like Anamelia I know exactly what she was doing and I'm definitely more sensitive or "aware" of people doing this kind of subtle manipulation than the average person so I don't blame you at all for not being able to see it - you're definitely not the only one!

Lewis literally spent the entire day in anticipation and anxiety of a fight kicking off because of the kind of tension she was subtly creating. I don't blame him at all for being a nervous wreck by the end of the night. I knew exactly how he felt when she came into the kitchen at the end. No wonder he was shaking - it wasn't anger.

[Garfie]

Originally Posted by crashandburn

Fair enough.

As someone who had to endure a lot of years being forced to live with someone exactly like Anamelia I know exactly what she was doing and I'm definitely more sensitive or "aware" of people doing this kind of subtle manipulation than the average person so I don't blame you at all for not being able to see it - you're definitely not the only one!

Lewis literally spent the entire day in anticipation and anxiety of a fight kicking off because of the kind of tension she was subtly creating. I don't blame him at all for being a nervous wreck by the end of the night. I knew exactly how he felt when she came into the kitchen at the end. No wonder he was shaking - it wasn't anger.

Excellent posts, crashandburn.

I totally agree with you that Lewis F is ultra-sensitive to bad vibes and energy, probably due to previous experiences that have yet to be revealed. I agree, too, that it was anxiety about a situation developing which made him shake and be abrupt with others, rather than anger. It was as if he was on high alert, and finding it difficult to cope. I'd even say that his anxiety even tipped him over into paranoia about Anamelia. I believe you are spot on when you suggest he has had experience of living with someone who was fiery and very unpredictable and was probably always trying to provoke negative and uncomfortable situations.

To me, it was like his anxiety was so severe that he'd gone into fight or flight. However, I disagree with those who feel he would become physical with a woman, as he told Cameron his urge was to leave the house which suggests his reaction is one of flight, not fight. I believe we will see him crumble into a heap, rather than become aggressive, as his anxiety gets the better of him.

I think Lewis is a very complex and interesting character, and I'm glad that he is in the house- he is multi-dimensional, rather than two-dimensional, which I think some of the housemates will turn out to be. I'm looking forward to discovering the reasons behind his behaviour now, as well as some of the criminal behaviour others have mentioned, as his story unfolds. It is the psychological aspect of BB that is most fascinating for me, and which I think makes for good viewing.

I'm also interested to see how the relationship between them develops, and the outcomes of that.