[Munchkins]

Originally Posted by Vanessa

Not you. You are always nice, polite and respectful.

Thanks Vanessa
Atleast we both agree that the Trash must be taken out this week, along with Scott

[Jimrod]

I think of it like this video really. Ashleigh as the loud chav and Deana the quiet one...


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YDgns31soA0

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by Ellen

Yes it wasnt nice when they said that about her but she has done the same, she also said she wanted to slap Conor.
Deana knew Sara was having difficulty in conversation but continued to go on & on making it uncomfortable for Sara, that is not attempting conversation, that is deliberatly trying to show someone up.
Stating the obvious with Luke S, yes maybe but yet again she goes on & on deliberatly trying to humiliate someone knowing they feel bad already. Not a nice trait in anyone.

You are correct to bang on for 56 mins about your veiws does not a conversation make...How rude of deana to attempt a protracted conversation! questions?....tsktsk how rude!

Like luke S did in the bedroom with his probing questions about how much deana would spend on her wedding?...Trying to label her a golddigger and badgering her when she clearly got upset and offended?...

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by Munchkins

Thanks Vanessa
Atleast we both agree that the Trash must be taken out this week, along with Scott

I hope so. I wonder if Adam or Deana will win the vote this week.

[Munchkins]

Originally Posted by kizzy

You are correct to bang on for 56 mins about your veiws does not a conversation make...How rude of deana to attempt a protracted conversation! questions?....tsktsk how rude!

Like luke S did in the bedroom with his probing questions about how much deana would spend on her wedding?...Trying to label her a golddigger and badgering her when she clearly got upset and offended?...

That is the best point i have read!
i forgot about that incident - he would not let it go, and baited her!
just as Deana has been accused of

[jet]

Originally Posted by kizzy

You are correct to bang on for 56 mins about your veiws does not a conversation make...How rude of deana to attempt a protracted conversation! questions?....tsktsk how rude!

Like luke S did in the bedroom with his probing questions about how much deana would spend on her wedding?...Trying to label her a golddigger and badgering her when she clearly got upset and offended?...

Your logic is fuzzy kizzy.
Luke S did not go on and on and on and on over and over again about something Deana made it clear she didn't want to talk about...it was a two - sided conversation not an inquisition. Not in the same league and you are missing the point again - it is not what Deana does or says, it is the arrogant, superior WAY she goes about it.

[Ellen]

Originally Posted by kizzy

You are correct to bang on for 56 mins about your veiws does not a conversation make...How rude of deana to attempt a protracted conversation! questions?....tsktsk how rude!

Like luke S did in the bedroom with his probing questions about how much deana would spend on her wedding?...Trying to label her a golddigger and badgering her when she clearly got upset and offended?...

Yes it is rude, Deana is supposed to be Sara's friend. Deana knew Sara was having difficulty but she knowingly went on & on at her making Sara feel uncomfortable. Deana sat there & deliberatly try to make her friend look stupid. Sorry but i dont find that a good trait.

I didnt see that conversation with Luke S & Deana so i cant comment, if that is true & he did go on & on he was in the wrong as well.

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by jet

Your logic is fuzzy kizzy.
Luke S did not go on and on and on and on over and over again about something Deana made it clear she didn't want to talk about...it was a two - sided conversation not an inquisition. Not in the same league and you are missing the point again - it is not what Deana does or says, it is the arrogant, superior WAY she goes about it.

Is it?...sorry I tried to make my point as succinct and obvious as possible...never mind jet.
I hear your opinion however I don't agree with it.
I see the way deana has dealt with conflict in tha house as assertive and confident...We will have to agree to disagree here i'm afraid

[Munchkins]

Even after their spats , Deana & Sara have never nominated eachother throughout the whole show

[jet]

Originally Posted by kizzy

Is it?...sorry I tried to make my point as succinct and obvious as possible...never mind jet.
I hear your opinion however I don't agree with it.
I see the way deana has dealt with conflict in tha house as assertive and confident...We will have to agree to disagree here i'm afraid

No prob with that. If you admire Deana's way of doing things, you are entitled.
I don't understand it, but I don't need to.

[chuff me dizzy]

Originally Posted by Ellen

Yes it is rude, Deana is supposed to be Sara's friend. Deana knew Sara was having difficulty but she knowingly went on & on at her making Sara feel uncomfortable. Deana sat there & deliberatly try to make her friend look stupid. Sorry but i dont find that a good trait.

I didnt see that conversation with Luke S & Deana so i cant comment, if that is true & he did go on & on he was in the wrong as well.

Friends dont try to belittle each other,And it was DEANA who went on and on trying to belittle Luke S too

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by jet

No prob with that. If you admire Deana's way of doing things, you are entitled.
I don't understand it, but I don't need to.

Well glad thats settled, anything else you are confused about or don't understand just let me know and I will explain it to you jet.

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

Friends dont try to belittle each other,And it was DEANA who went on and on trying to belittle Luke S too

Deana is not luke S's friend.
ash, sara, becky, scott, adam and lydia pretended to be deanas friend then stabbed her in the back...

[MrWong]

Originally Posted by kizzy

Whereas the others just sat around suggesting she was 'vile' 'disgusting' that she made them 'want to vomit' 'IT' was 'slappable' that they would 'punch her in the face'.....
but deana is terrible for attempting to have a conversation with sara and stating the obvious to lukeS?....
OK...

You've gotta laugh.

[MrWong]

Originally Posted by chuff me dizzy

Friends dont try to belittle each other,And it was DEANA who went on and on trying to belittle Luke S too

What about Luke S belittling Deana accusing her of being a gold digger, or doesn't that count?

BTW, they were never friends.

[jet]

Originally Posted by kizzy

Well glad thats settled, anything else you are confused about or don't understand just let me know and I will explain it to you jet.

I repeat, I don't need to understand your admiration of Deana. So I'll pass on your kind offer. However, as you seem to misunderstand what I am saying a lot, don't hesitate if you need my help deciphering my meaning.

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by jet

I repeat, I don't need to understand your admiration of Deana. So I'll pass on your kind offer. However, as you seem to misunderstand what I am saying a lot, don't hesitate if you need my help deciphering my meaning.

I won't, It was hard but I think I have managed to figure out you are not deanas biggest fan.
Assertive confident women are regularly misunderstood, this could explain why some don't grasp deanas comments and apply them in the correct context maybe?

[jet]

Originally Posted by kizzy

I won't, It was hard but I think I have managed to figure out you are not deanas biggest fan.
Assertive confident women are regularly misunderstood, this could explain why some don't grasp deanas comments and apply them in the correct context maybe?

I love assertive confident women - my wife is one and I admire and adore her more that I can say. She knows the difference between being assertive and confident and being belittling and arrogant. She is also warm and kind and funny but would never use cruel humour like Deana did. Maybe the comparison between my wife and Deana (who is being praised for her brand of 'assertiveness and 'confidence) is just too stark for me and that is why I now dislike her so much.

[jet]

Originally Posted by MrWong

What about Luke S belittling Deana accusing her of being a gold digger, or doesn't that count?

BTW, they were never friends.

I believe Chuffs reference was to Sara and Deana being friends, not Luke S and Deana.

[the truth]

Originally Posted by kizzy

You are correct to bang on for 56 mins about your veiws does not a conversation make...How rude of deana to attempt a protracted conversation! questions?....tsktsk how rude!

Like luke S did in the bedroom with his probing questions about how much deana would spend on her wedding?...Trying to label her a golddigger and badgering her when she clearly got upset and offended?...

yes that was luke s lowest moment, the difference is though, we all on here agreed he was in the wrong and being a total idiot in the argument, so I and many other posters are more fair minded and willing to look at both sides of situations....whereas yourself and some deana fans refuse to be so fair minded....what she is doing with her vindictiveness towards luke, scott, sara (she tried to humiliate her for no reason) trying to adam on sabotaging the shopping and goading him into an argument , shes tried to corner several times, is plain nasty and makes her as bad as everyone else...

i also find her prayers for God to win her the show, nauseating and in very poor taste

[the truth]

Originally Posted by jet

I love assertive confident women - my wife is one and I admire and adore her more that I can say. She knows the difference between being assertive and confident and being belittling and arrogant. She is also warm and kind and funny but would never use cruel humour like Deana did. Maybe the comparison between my wife and Deana (who is being praised for her brand of 'assertiveness and 'confidence) is just too stark for me and that is why I now dislike her so much.

why do you stress women? dont you like men and women to be assertive and confident?

I like truthful men and women, but also tactful people who dont feel the need to mock and ridicule and humiliate other people.

[Vanessa]

Originally Posted by the truth

yes that was luke s lowest moment, the difference is though, we all on here agreed he was in the wrong and being a total idiot in the argument, so I and many other posters are more fair minded and willing to look at both sides of situations....whereas yourself and some deana fans refuse to be so fair minded....what she is doing with her vindictiveness towards luke, scott, sara (she tried to humiliate her for no reason) trying to adam on sabotaging the shopping and goading him into an argument , shes tried to corner several times, is plain nasty and makes her as bad as everyone else...

i also find her prayers for God to win her the show, nauseating and in very poor taste

[jet]

Originally Posted by the truth

why do you stress women? dont you like men and women to be assertive and confident?

I like truthful men and women, but also tactful people who dont feel the need to mock and ridicule and humiliate other people.

Of course, but here I was replying to this statement: 'Assertive confident women are regularly misunderstood'.

[sampvt]

Originally Posted by kizzy

I won't, It was hard but I think I have managed to figure out you are not deanas biggest fan.
Assertive confident women are regularly misunderstood, this could explain why some don't grasp deanas comments and apply them in the correct context maybe?

Kizzy looks like Jet owns you. lol.

[joeysteele]

Originally Posted by the truth

yes that was luke s lowest moment, the difference is though, we all on here agreed he was in the wrong and being a total idiot in the argument, so I and many other posters are more fair minded and willing to look at both sides of situations....whereas yourself and some deana fans refuse to be so fair minded....what she is doing with her vindictiveness towards luke, scott, sara (she tried to humiliate her for no reason) trying to adam on sabotaging the shopping and goading him into an argument , shes tried to corner several times, is plain nasty and makes her as bad as everyone else...

i also find her prayers for God to win her the show, nauseating and in very poor taste

Absolutely spot on post, I also find the prayers nauseating and if she isn't being serious as to them too,( as some of her supporters have said),then I also find that very disrespectful to people who do believe prayers are important.

Really good post though the truth,really well said.