[Novo]

How silly

[Munchkins]

Originally Posted by Novo

How silly

Nah not really, why should anyone care what people think of them online, unless they actually desire to meet the person and form a proper relationship with them

[Novo]

Just think it's a bit pointless, what have you got to gain from giving yourself a new image online? Who knows.. maybe you'll actually meet people in the future that you speak to online and it's going to be a lot easier talking to them if you act the same way as you do Online

[Locke.]

Trouble in paradise it seems

[Munchkins]

Originally Posted by Novo

Just think it's a bit pointless, what have you got to gain from giving yourself a new image online? Who knows.. maybe you'll actually meet people in the future that you speak to online and it's going to be a lot easier talking to them if you act the same way as you do Online

Point is, i act how i actually am to the people i can trust online, through personal chats etc, theres no point opening up to the whole forum

[Munchkins]

Originally Posted by Locke.

Trouble in paradise it seems

Just No.

[Novo]

No need to get uppity with John Locke

[Munchkins]

Originally Posted by Novo

No need to get uppity with John Locke

I don't think i was tbh

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by Munchkins

It's a forum, i really couldn't care less what people think of me i enjoy playing up to this self obsessed image people think i have LOL it's different in real life, you can act how you want on here. At the end of the day i can just log out of this forum and not come back, whilst you cant do that in real life.

Eh... That's a bit odd, yes I know 1000's of people do it but how exausting would it be to have to act all the time?
I'm a bit shocked at this revelation as you come across as quite genuine actually.

[Brother Leon]

Originally Posted by Locke.

Trouble in paradise it seems

Their usual lovers tiff. Nothing new here.

[Munchkins]

Originally Posted by Kizzy

Eh... That's a bit odd, yes I know 1000's of people do it but how exausting would it be to have to act all the time?
I'm a bit shocked at this revelation as you come across as quite genuine actually.

I don't mean i fake every bit of my persona, it's just exaggerated, as it can be on the internet, . I play up to the self obsessed bit, since im nothing like that in real life, and once i got called on it on here, i just thought it would be quite humorous to go along with it i kinda wanna get a razzie x. It was also in relation to the topic... whereas i can act confident on here, but i could never in real life

[Locke.]

Originally Posted by Munchkins

Just No.

Miss Munchkins if you don't start showing your boyfriend and I some respect there will be consequences

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by Munchkins

I don't mean i fake every bit of my persona, it's just exaggerated, as it can be on the internet, . I play up to the self obsessed bit, since im nothing like that in real life, and once i got called on it on here, i just thought it would be quite humorous to go along with it i kinda wanna get a razzie x. It was also in relation to the topic... whereas i can act confident on here, but i could never in real life

Ah, i see

[the truth]

i agre wwith muchkins you can role play here and online and even play different characters and test different ideas, i think thats healthy and fun as long as it doesnt hurt anyone, which she would clearly never do. why do u think actors love playing different roles other than themselves? its fun

[Brother Leon]

Gotta some some roleplay to spice up life tbh.

Confidence is dynamic, and ebbs and flows as we achieve good things, or get battered by bad experiences. I've generally always been fairly confident. I've worked in proper sales environments, which isn't for shrinking violets, and now the most important part of what I do is presenting ideas and bids to directors and HR managers, and getting them to buy into me as a person, and my abilities. I don't win them all, and the losses hurt.

I'm also capable of some extremely deep lows, that none of my friends suffer with. When things get on top of me, it can take a while before I realise, and then before I can deal with it. I can manage to mask it enough to get me through the bare minimum required for life, and then retreat inside myself to try and cope at the earliest opportunity.

[Amy Jade]

I find it frustrating that such nice people who've posted aren't confident yet they're genuinely lovely.

I wish I could give you some of mine.

[the truth]

Originally Posted by StupidHoe

I find it frustrating that such nice people who've posted aren't confident yet they're genuinely lovely.

I wish I could give you some of mine.

trouble is the types of people who turn up drunk at every social event tend to be the bores of the century, so why would interesting people want to attend?

[Maia]

Not remotely socially :L Not really either looks wise either but I'm not too bothered there.

[Ammi]

Originally Posted by StupidHoe

Why guys?

You're all good looking and have great personalities.

...for me SH, having confidence isn't about how you look..it's not about 'being attractive'..it's about 'feeling attractive'..not just in appearances but everything about you...and a lot of that is inside you from childhood really..from a lot of sources who have great influence on you as well..parents/peers etc...maybe some is genetic...but whatever the reasons, it's hard to change it, so as you get older and people might comment on your looks etc..say 'you're pretty/good looking/handsome' etc..maybe for a fleeting moment you may believe them...but inside your head and your mindset will always refuse to believe them..so what you 'look like' and what people see.. and who you yourself see in the mirror are two different things...sometimes the complete opposite....

[Munchkins]

Originally Posted by Locke.

Miss Munchkins if you don't start showing your boyfriend and I some respect there will be consequences

No Locke. No

[arista]

Originally Posted by Ammi

..I'm confident at work but not socially...I'm not really good at small talk...

Thats What Matters



Keep On Keepin' On Ammi

[Marc]

Originally Posted by StupidHoe

I think I am confident in my looks and how people view me but I do worry that people judge me intellectually and that sometimes comes across I think because if somebody calls me stupid even as a joke I tend to react really defensivly to it.

Your username is StupidHoe...

[Marcus.]

i am not

[thesheriff443]

Originally Posted by Marc

Your username is StupidHoe...

i was thinking the same thing!