[Josy]

Right stop using this thread to discuss other members, infractions and bans or I'm closing it.

[Benjamin]

To be honest I think it's about time we all addressed the issues on here and got them out in the open and sorted them out as opposed to keeping it all hush-hush, letting the tension build and tip-toeing around each other while others carry on with their sniping ways.

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by Ben

I will just say again (as I think that part was also deleted) I know it isn't just Kizzy, there are members that go out of their way to snipe at her just as much and they are equally responsible and tiresome.

Oh hallelujah...
So I'm not the big instigator, scourge of the forum now?
Do you feel better for what you said, had your own little private razzies didn't you?

[Kyle]

Originally Posted by Ben

To be honest I think it's about time we all addressed the issues on here and got them out in the open and sorted them out as opposed to keeping it all hush-hush, letting the tension build and tip-toeing around each other while others carry on with their sniping ways.

A private social group, moderated by one or two mods and invites to all people concerned to sort it out then shut the group after. Personally I think it's better than closing the thread and waiting for another Volcano to brew.

[arista]

Originally Posted by Simple Minds

A private social group, moderated by one or two mods and invites to all people concerned to sort it out then shut the group after. Personally I think it's better than closing the thread and waiting for another Volcano to brew.

No Ben - former staff
says not

[Josy]

Originally Posted by Ben

To be honest I think it's about time we all addressed the issues on here and got them out in the open and sorted them out as opposed to keeping it all hush-hush, letting the tension build and tip-toeing around each other while others carry on with their sniping ways.

This is said constantly and is quite honestly bull**** tbh, the members that don't get on here don't want to and that's it, they will argue day in day out because it's what they want to do, they thrive off of drama.

The same goes for all the 'we need a private thread' etc, no we don't because it would be a novelty that would wear off in a few days for the simple fact that there would be no rule breaking and no audience.

Far too many on here are too quick to blame others for the things that happen and can never ever take any responsibility for their own actions.

[Kyle]

Originally Posted by arista

No Ben - former staff
says not

I'm just trying to help, I can't be assed with the all out war I just want to come on here and have a laugh. I want everyone to get on.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by arista

Yes very Sexy

arista you old devil

[Benjamin]

Originally Posted by Josy

This is said constantly and is quite honestly bull**** tbh, the members that don't get on here don't want to and that's it, they will argue day in day out because it's what they want to do, they thrive off of drama.

The same goes for all the 'we need a private thread' etc, no we don't because it would be a novelty that would wear off in a few days for the simple fact that there would be no rule breaking and no audience.

Far too many on here are too quick to blame others for the things that happen and can never ever take any responsibility for their own actions.

Then why is more not done about it? Not to question you moderators (so please don't take it as an insult) but why are they allowed to still be here ruining threads and events time and time again for the rest of the forum who are causing no harm to anyone? I ask that as a sincere question, not as a dig.

The whole reason the Razzies is banned because of the arguing but I'd rather have a night of arguing then a year like we have just had of this constant bickering/sniping that occurs in many threads. That is more off putting then anything else.

[MeMyselfAndI]

I Still don't get why members are allowed to use other members pictures against each other & telling someone they look like Crazy Frog & NOTHING. CharlieO got a straight 2 week ban as 'Banned' & not as a build up of infractions for that, just putting it out there

[Josy]

Originally Posted by Ben

Then why is more not done about it? Not to question you moderators (so please don't take it as an insult) but why are they allowed to still be here ruining threads and events time and time again for the rest of the forum who are causing no harm to anyone? I ask that as a sincere question, not as a dig.

Things do get done about it Ben but we can't force members to like each other and you know we don't hand out massive bans for petty arguing, lets be honest if we did then there would be no one posting.

[Lee.]

People need to realise we're all members of a Big Brirher forum, lighten the **** up, let bygones be bygones and get on with it.

[Benjamin]

Originally Posted by Josy

Things do get done about it Ben but we can't force members to like each other and you know we don't hand out massive bans for petty arguing, lets be honest if we did then there would be no one posting.

It's been more than petty arguing between a select few though, it's been a over a year of it constantly. It ruins the vibe of the forum more than anything else has. Again not a dig at you guys.

[Josy]

Originally Posted by MeMyselfAndI

I Still don't get why members are allowed to use other members pictures against each other & telling someone they look like Crazy Frog & NOTHING. CharlieO got a straight 2 week ban as 'Banned' & not as a build up of infractions for that, just putting it out there

Right this has nothing at all to do with this topic but lets clear this up too....

Locke never saved anyone's picture, that image had been posted on here before and he used the link, incase you haven't noticed Locke is on a ban for posting that picture the other night so members aren't 'allowed'?

Also you are the last person to bring up other members saving or using pictures etc Jack when you posted a screenshot on here and everyone saw Leons image on your desktop.

[arista]

Originally Posted by Simple Minds

I'm just trying to help, I can't be assed with the all out war I just want to come on here and have a laugh. I want everyone to get on.

Never
Some get on
Some do not
Some arrange meet ups.



That is very normal Worldwide

[MeMyselfAndI]

I got sent that image from skype I didn't go out of my way to save a picture, I've been in a chat on skype with Leon. And I didn't use it against him or insult him, I'm not like that crew of members that are not banned whilst Stacey is for the same thing & being 15

[Kyle]

Originally Posted by arista

Never
Some get on
Some do not
Some arrange meet ups.



That is very normal Worldwide

Yeh I know, it's wishful thinking but I think there's one or two feuds that need knocking on the head now, if not for themselves but for the forum community.

[Benjamin]

Originally Posted by Simple Minds

Yeh I know, it's wishful thinking but I think there's one or two feuds that need knocking on the head now, if not for themselves but for the forum community.

Exactly.

[Josy]

Originally Posted by Ben

It's been more than petty arguing between a select few though, it's been a over a year of it constantly. It ruins the vibe of the forum more than anything else has. Again not a dig at you guys.

I know it ruins the vibe of the forum, we are doing what we can about it.

Originally Posted by MeMyselfAndI

I got sent that image from skype I didn't go out of my way to save a picture, I've been in a chat on skype with Leon. And I didn't use it against him or insult him, I'm not like that crew of members that are not banned whilst Stacey is for the same thing & being 15

Stacey was banned by admin for way more than posting someone elses picture..

Again this has nothing at all to do with the subject we were discussing in this thread.

Originally Posted by Simple Minds

Yeh I know, it's wishful thinking but I think there's one or two feuds that need knocking on the head now, if not for themselves but for the forum community.

Yet when I pm'd you the other day to talk through some s**t, which we did, then in the next thread you got all arsey and refused to ever reply to me again (or something equally stupid). You can't act holier than though when your actions give you away every time. Lots of people on this forum are really good at moralising, yet none actually accept responsibility and put their hands up.

[Me. I Am Salman]

Josy I deleted that MTM post waaay back Locke 100% saved it

[Josy]

Originally Posted by Salman!

Josy I deleted that MTM post waaay back Locke 100% saved it

Salman I know you did but someone posted that crazy frog one a while back, that's the link Locke used.

He never saved your image.

[Jemal]

Originally Posted by Simple Minds

Yeh I got a bit of a shock when I first joined here I was getting banned left, right and centre. I've had to tone it down a bit and now I've been unbanned for quite a while. But if that's what it takes to keep 'order' then who am I to complain I've never run a forum before so I don't know what it's like lol

Remember when me and you always used to get banned for not liking dexter LOL

[Kyle]

Originally Posted by Jesus.

Yet when I pm'd you the other day to talk through some s**t, which we did, then in the next thread you got all arsey and refused to ever reply to me again (or something equally stupid). You can't act holier than though when your actions give you away every time. Lots of people on this forum are really good at moralising, yet none actually accept responsibility and put their hands up.

Because about a day or two after I posted about somebody else and you took it upon yourself to say that I was on about you and being poisoned by Kizzy when I wasn't even on about you.

[Kyle]

Originally Posted by Jemal

Remember when me and you always used to get banned for not liking dexter LOL

Good times Jemal

H.M.S Samuel shipmates ftw