[The Human Santapede]

To be honest I think it's about time we all addressed the issues on here and got them out in the open and sorted them out as opposed to keeping it all hush-hush, letting the tension build and tip-toeing around each other while others carry on with their sniping ways.

[Kyle]

Originally Posted by Ben

To be honest I think it's about time we all addressed the issues on here and got them out in the open and sorted them out as opposed to keeping it all hush-hush, letting the tension build and tip-toeing around each other while others carry on with their sniping ways.

A private social group, moderated by one or two mods and invites to all people concerned to sort it out then shut the group after. Personally I think it's better than closing the thread and waiting for another Volcano to brew.

[arista]

Originally Posted by Simple Minds

A private social group, moderated by one or two mods and invites to all people concerned to sort it out then shut the group after. Personally I think it's better than closing the thread and waiting for another Volcano to brew.

No Ben - former staff
says not

[Kyle]

Originally Posted by arista

No Ben - former staff
says not

I'm just trying to help, I can't be assed with the all out war I just want to come on here and have a laugh. I want everyone to get on.

[arista]

Originally Posted by Simple Minds

I'm just trying to help, I can't be assed with the all out war I just want to come on here and have a laugh. I want everyone to get on.

Never
Some get on
Some do not
Some arrange meet ups.



That is very normal Worldwide

[Kyle]

Originally Posted by arista

Never
Some get on
Some do not
Some arrange meet ups.



That is very normal Worldwide

Yeh I know, it's wishful thinking but I think there's one or two feuds that need knocking on the head now, if not for themselves but for the forum community.

[The Human Santapede]

Originally Posted by Simple Minds

Yeh I know, it's wishful thinking but I think there's one or two feuds that need knocking on the head now, if not for themselves but for the forum community.

Exactly.

Originally Posted by Simple Minds

Yeh I know, it's wishful thinking but I think there's one or two feuds that need knocking on the head now, if not for themselves but for the forum community.

Yet when I pm'd you the other day to talk through some s**t, which we did, then in the next thread you got all arsey and refused to ever reply to me again (or something equally stupid). You can't act holier than though when your actions give you away every time. Lots of people on this forum are really good at moralising, yet none actually accept responsibility and put their hands up.

[Josy]

Originally Posted by Ben

To be honest I think it's about time we all addressed the issues on here and got them out in the open and sorted them out as opposed to keeping it all hush-hush, letting the tension build and tip-toeing around each other while others carry on with their sniping ways.

This is said constantly and is quite honestly bull**** tbh, the members that don't get on here don't want to and that's it, they will argue day in day out because it's what they want to do, they thrive off of drama.

The same goes for all the 'we need a private thread' etc, no we don't because it would be a novelty that would wear off in a few days for the simple fact that there would be no rule breaking and no audience.

Far too many on here are too quick to blame others for the things that happen and can never ever take any responsibility for their own actions.

[The Human Santapede]

Originally Posted by Josy

This is said constantly and is quite honestly bull**** tbh, the members that don't get on here don't want to and that's it, they will argue day in day out because it's what they want to do, they thrive off of drama.

The same goes for all the 'we need a private thread' etc, no we don't because it would be a novelty that would wear off in a few days for the simple fact that there would be no rule breaking and no audience.

Far too many on here are too quick to blame others for the things that happen and can never ever take any responsibility for their own actions.

Then why is more not done about it? Not to question you moderators (so please don't take it as an insult) but why are they allowed to still be here ruining threads and events time and time again for the rest of the forum who are causing no harm to anyone? I ask that as a sincere question, not as a dig.

The whole reason the Razzies is banned because of the arguing but I'd rather have a night of arguing then a year like we have just had of this constant bickering/sniping that occurs in many threads. That is more off putting then anything else.

[Josy]

Originally Posted by Ben

Then why is more not done about it? Not to question you moderators (so please don't take it as an insult) but why are they allowed to still be here ruining threads and events time and time again for the rest of the forum who are causing no harm to anyone? I ask that as a sincere question, not as a dig.

Things do get done about it Ben but we can't force members to like each other and you know we don't hand out massive bans for petty arguing, lets be honest if we did then there would be no one posting.

[The Human Santapede]

Originally Posted by Josy

Things do get done about it Ben but we can't force members to like each other and you know we don't hand out massive bans for petty arguing, lets be honest if we did then there would be no one posting.

It's been more than petty arguing between a select few though, it's been a over a year of it constantly. It ruins the vibe of the forum more than anything else has. Again not a dig at you guys.

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by Josy

This is said constantly and is quite honestly bull**** tbh, the members that don't get on here don't want to and that's it, they will argue day in day out because it's what they want to do, they thrive off of drama.

The same goes for all the 'we need a private thread' etc, no we don't because it would be a novelty that would wear off in a few days for the simple fact that there would be no rule breaking and no audience.

Far too many on here are too quick to blame others for the things that happen and can never ever take any responsibility for their own actions.

I take this is for me, seeing as you said that last paragraph to me yesterday?
I'll ask you what I asked ben, I have said all this before.. what do you want me to do, put up with it, leave, laugh it off?

[Josy]

Originally Posted by Kizzy

I take this is for me, seeing as you said that last paragraph to me yesterday?
I'll ask you what I asked ben, I have said all this before.. what do you want me to do, put up with it, leave, laugh it off?

No Kizzy it wasn't aimed at you but as usual you took it to be....

[Kizzy]

Originally Posted by Josy

No Kizzy it wasn't aimed at you but as usual you took it to be....

Josy you used those exact words to me via PM, and then you state them on here and i'm not expected to think you could mean me?... I'm sorry but that's just ridiculous.

If I had said that you would be accusing me of sniping, not saying you are you understand.

[Josy]

Originally Posted by Kizzy

Josy you used those exact words to me via PM, and then you state them on here and i'm not expected to think you could mean me?... I'm sorry but that's just ridiculous.

If I had said that you would be accusing me of sniping, not saying you are you understand.

Like I said to you before Kizzy, not every single comment that someone you dislike or have had a disagreement with posts is aimed at you, don't you get that?

I was replying to Ben and talking about forum members in general you weren't mentioned in any way.

I'm not getting into all this again with you because its the same thing over and over and this thread has already been taken wayyyyy off topic.