[Mystic Mock]

Tbf to Kate I don't know if she meant for it to come across the way it has done to some of the individuals on this thread, however I've also seen people that I know go through stuff like this (men and women in fact) and I wouldn't want to be some toy boy in some broken relationship between the Wife and Husband that just won't call it quits.

[Scarlett.]

This thread is... well...

[Livia]

No. I don't do sharesies... and if a man expected me to, he'd be gone.

[Kazanne]

Originally Posted by Livia

No. I don't do sharesies... and if a man expected me to, he'd be gone.

This ^

[Lostie!]

I think this sort of set-up is only acceptable if it's an agreement made by the husband and wife. If so, who are we to judge?

However, if the guy is just cheating on his wife then that's not something I can agree with at all.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Natalie.

This really and a wife isn't there just to do the cooking, have children,cleaning etc

I mean if they all agreed to it then that's fine, it just isn't something I would want

I would like to see a show of hands for all the ladies who volunteer to be the wives in Kates little set up..... Oh yeah me please I'd like to be the servant while you go off and **** my husband

[Livia]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

I would like to see a show of hands for all the ladies who volunteer to be the wives in Kates little set up..... Oh yeah me please I'd like to be the servant while you go off and **** my husband

LOL...

[Samuel.]

Well this thread is rather horrifying

[waterhog]

Originally Posted by Kate!

A man should have a wife for the family and a mistress for pleasure.

Discuss this :

I say yes and of the two roles I'd prefer to be the mistress. I know this will be controversial

I am disgusted with what you are asking kate ? it is 100% out of the question- totally disgusting and just not right at all.

anyone who disagrees with me is as sensible as my poems.

every man and woman no's to keep everyone happy you have to have a little slap and tickle along the way so to suggest 1 mistress - well that is very low standards.

most of my pals have at least 4 but as I am in my prime I am proud to have 7


( ps if any of you out there are reading this - you no I am winding everyone up and you are the one for me. )

[Jamie89]

Originally Posted by waterhog

I am disgusted with what you are asking kate ? it is 100% out of the question- totally disgusting and just not right at all.

anyone who disagrees with me is as sensible as my poems.

every man and woman no's to keep everyone happy you have to have a little slap and tickle along the way so to suggest 1 mistress - well that is very low standards.

most of my pals have at least 4 but as I am in my prime I am proud to have 7


( ps if any of you out there are reading this - you no I am winding everyone up and you are the one for me. )

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by empire

women only marry men for one thing, money and status, but there is other things that men can't stand about there wives, they treat there husbands like little boys, and try to change them in there own way,

What about the women who marry men earning less than them?

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Ammi

...so, in this scenario...why does there have to be marriage involved..and not just people choosing to have multiple sexual partners..?..

This is what I always think when it comes to people who just can't stop themselves from cheating. Why bother entering a relationship in the first place?

Stay single and you can do and go wherever you please.

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by LeatherTrumpet

You cannot have a happy marriage if you have a mistress, you may be married but happy, respect for yourself, true to yourself?

No

You would be nothing more than a shallow cad and your life a pathetic sham

[Marsh.]

Originally Posted by Niamh.

Oh yeah me please I'd like to be the servant while you go off and **** my husband

[kirklancaster]

Originally Posted by waterhog

I am disgusted with what you are asking kate ? it is 100% out of the question- totally disgusting and just not right at all.

anyone who disagrees with me is as sensible as my poems.

every man and woman no's to keep everyone happy you have to have a little slap and tickle along the way so to suggest 1 mistress - well that is very low standards.

most of my pals have at least 4 but as I am in my prime I am proud to have 7


( ps if any of you out there are reading this - you no I am winding everyone up and you are the one for me. )

You are a joker Hog.

[JoshBB]

Yeah... this is pretty sexist.

'A man should have a wife for the family and a mistress for pleasure' honestly is one of the most disgusting misogynistic statements I've heard in a while. Women are not products that you can choose from and they are certainly not objects to be played around with. If you want to have a polygamous relationship, I have nothing against that so long as everyone is aware that this is happening.. but honestly the whole secretive side to this seems very unfair to both the women (and the children!), and especially since one woman is essentially being used for sex.

[kirklancaster]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

This is what I always think when it comes to people who just can't stop themselves from cheating. Why bother entering a relationship in the first place?

Stay single and you can do and go wherever you please.

Serial cheats ARE serial cheats because they have NO real confidence in themselves and are deeply insecure with an unconscious or subconscious sense of worthlessness.

They NEED the reassurance of being able to seduce other women to feed their poor egos, but BECAUSE they have only superficial confidence, they also NEED a woman permanently in their lives as a fallback, a bolster for the times they fail in their quest to seduce other women.

MATURE men who have no such insecurities and who choose to seduce as many women as they can, remain single.

I do not deny the possibility that the most solid of marriages CAN become endangered because one of the partners falls unexpectedly in love with someone else.

I know my view might cause anger or controversy, but I believe that this CAN happen - it might be rare, but it can and has happened and even if the man is too weak to resist this 'feeling', he should at least be man enough to admit the truth to his partner and move out and on to be fair to the injured party.

I hate 'sharing' and cheating, so I'm afraid I do not subscribe to the OP hypothetical scenario.

I have always had a maxim which I still hold:

'Do Not Worry About Being The First Lover She's Had, Concern Yourself With Being Her Last'.

[Ammi]

...I guess that adults do have the luxury of making their own decisions and living with those decisions..but I've seen too many seriously damaged children who don't have that privilege and whose lives have fairly much been screwed from the off because of a parent only thinking about their own wants, to even take this thread seriously....