[Daniel-X]

Originally Posted by Firewire

Iconic sig Daniel

Originally Posted by Ross.

Daniel is Brittnee and Marc is Peter?

Originally Posted by Firewire

Marc isn't that bad

Originally Posted by Firewire

Marc would never intend to hurt your feelings

I am Brittnee and LT is Peter. Poor Marc getting scapegoated?

[hijaxers]

Just front her Daniel , I find piss assing round futile , be a straight up and down person and hit the nail on the head , does she deserve you as a friend ? not really from where i'm sat - there are loads of lovely people out there that don't play head **** games ya know .

[Dollface]

tbh i wouldnt bother having a birthday party, you'll just be spending your money on a bunch of people that you wont see ever again once schools over

[Dollface]

but yeah my advice is tell her she's a sly bitch and turn all of her friends against her

[Babayaro.]

Tbh I have a similar problem to you, as pretty much all of my friends I hung around with during the last few years of school have just stopped talking to me as much as they used to for no aparent reason. I'm kind of over it now though

[Firewire]

Same here Marc I have two friends from my school year everyone else sucks

[Amy Jade]

I'd confront her, no point in playing along because at some point you'll bring it up. She sounds like a bitch to me, if she seriously invited people she wants to bang over a friend she's a skank

[Mystic Mock]

I wonder if she's forgot to invite you?

But if she hasn't then she's not a friend that I would want if I was in your shoes.

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Daniel-X

'so precious'

Her moral compass is pretty skewed if she thinks her behaviour is appropriate if that's her reasoning.



Create a drama? She has created one through not inviting me because it's just made it seem really weird.

She should include me though that's my point, it's not everything she does I wouldn't mind if just a few where there it's the fact she's pretty much isolated me out.

Have you always done everything together or is she a newish friend?

[Daniel-X]

UPDATE: I asked her over snapchat about it and she just saved the messages and ignored me

[Mystic Mock]

Originally Posted by Daniel-X

UPDATE: I asked her over snapchat about it and she just saved the messages and ignored me

Well then I'd cut ties with her Daniel, they'll be plenty of people out there that will cherish a friendship with you a lot more than this girl clearly does.

[jennyjuniper]

Originally Posted by Daniel-X

Right, it's all a bit long winded but I'll just explain as short as I can what's happened. My friend had a birthday party at the end of March and I was invited and stuff and I put her a happy birthday message in FaceBook, my profile picture is of her and me and we're actually really close. Anyway, without me knowing I sit in a room with all my friends at dinner and she purposley took them to one side yesterday when I went out the room and told them to come round to hers tonight for a party, I found out yesterday afternoon off one of my other friends and just thought like 'oh she'll probably ask me later'. She put a story on snapchat of loads of ale and was like 'Can't wait for tonight' and when I tried asking her what was going on knowing full well what was she just kept avoiding my question and asking me other things. Anyway, I thought tonight I'd put a story on saying 'someone give me plans' shes seen it and ignored it, when I've looked at her story she's invited people she didn't even invite to her proper birthday party yet not invited me.

I've come to the conclusion she's not invited me because a few lads from another school are there and they've expressed previously they dislike me. Despite not knowing me.

However, this girl is invited to my birthday party and is behaving perfectly fine and nice to me still despite being so sneaky and sly to me. Shall I just removed her from my birthday? Or is that childish?

A real friend wouldn't treat you like that. If the lads she invited didn't like you she should have uninvited them rasther than you.
I wouldn't have her at my party. People like her are 'fair weather friends' and not worth having.

[VanessaFeltz.]

do the same thing to her

an eye for an eye.

[Cal.]

Smack ha

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Cherie

Have you always done everything together or is she a newish friend?

You don't answer my question?

Originally Posted by Daniel-X

UPDATE: I asked her over snapchat about it and she just saved the messages and ignored me

I don't think there is any more to be said then, if she doesn't want to explain it's clear she is not a friend, though I would say you have made it easy for her to wriggle out of it by confronting her over social media rather than addressing it face to face.

[Daniel-X]

Originally Posted by Cherie

You don't answer my question?




I don't think there is any more to be said then, if she doesn't want to explain it's clear she is not a friend, though I would say you have made it easy for her to wriggle out of it by confronting her over social media rather than addressing it face to face.

We've been friends for like eighteen months. Good friends for about six.

[Cherie]

Originally Posted by Daniel-X

We've been friends for like eighteen months. Good friends for about six.

Oh okay well not too long then, she sounds like the worst kind of friend tbh, one that freezes you out when she wants to impress someone else. Sorry Daniel It's horrible but if you remain in touch with her it looks like it will be on her terms, we all meet people like that, users who are not real friends, who pick you up and drop you when it suits, you are better off distancing yourself, you don't have to cut all ties just don't be there for her all the time she will soon get the message that you won't be used by her.

[rubymoo]

I think it's time to move on Daniel, as hard as it is at the moment and i'm sure you feel pretty ****ty about it, life is just too short to let people like her treat you like that. As Cherie said, distance yourself and don't be there for her all the time. Find other friends to hang out with and make your own plans, i would still invite her to your party but i'd hang with other people, be a social butterfly and have fun, then after your party keep yourself busy with other friends.

It's a pretty ****ty learning curve but there are people out there like her, you just need to find others that treat you with the respect you deserve.

[Daniel-X]

Originally Posted by Cherie

Oh okay well not too long then, she sounds like the worst kind of friend tbh, one that freezes you out when she wants to impress someone else. Sorry Daniel It's horrible but if you remain in touch with her it looks like it will be on her terms, we all meet people like that, users who are not real friends, who pick you up and drop you when it suits, you are better off distancing yourself, you don't have to cut all ties just don't be there for her all the time she will soon get the message that you won't be used by her.

Originally Posted by rubymoo

I think it's time to move on Daniel, as hard as it is at the moment and i'm sure you feel pretty ****ty about it, life is just too short to let people like her treat you like that. As Cherie said, distance yourself and don't be there for her all the time. Find other friends to hang out with and make your own plans, i would still invite her to your party but i'd hang with other people, be a social butterfly and have fun, then after your party keep yourself busy with other friends.

It's a pretty ****ty learning curve but there are people out there like her, you just need to find others that treat you with the respect you deserve.

Thank you both of you