[y.winter]

Originally Posted by Marsh.

You used the word "abuse" not her.

You're generalising. Not her.

But, now you also wish she had described her relationship differently, as though you know it better than she does?

She's using the terminology of it ("free", "controlling"), it's enough to understand how she has experienced it. And to be honest, I'm not quite bothered about it - if it what it is, then fine.
It's that projecting her personal experience on to something big and turning to "any woman out there". It doesn't have to always be about women as a whole... Not every personal experience is an invitation to become "inspirational" to mankind. Good for you for moving away from your idiot boyfriend, but yeah... that's about it.